You have your life and your routines all set up, your weekly meetings with your friends etc, and you're resistant to change.
I get that. So look: can we just spend a fun day together and simply enjoy each other's company? Activity partners.
I'm not looking to have kids, so that eliminates about 90% of you.
I'm kindof solitary, and I measure my friendships in terms of quality, not quantity. I don't like crowds. I like tranquility. I avoid drama.
I'm considered weird by some standards. I feel like an outsider.
I don't gravitate towards the spotlight. I'm an observer.
I've seen more than my share in life, I've worked in nightclubs, and yes I'm jaded and sometimes snarky and sarcastic.
If you're typical, then we aren't a match.
But if you challenge the status quo....
We will get along if you're just as uncomfortable with humanity as I am. If you have had the kind of life where you've learned to adapt.
Example? If the subway drives you crazy, it's always crowded and always late, you take your destiny into your own hands and start bicycling to work.
Meaning you don't complain (much), you just find solutions.