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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 5
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I have strong politics of the radical left variety. While quite strong willed, I'm anti-dogmatic and a lifelong learner. My beliefs change periodically and I recognize that what I argue for with passion today, I may argue against in five years. If you can be the catalyst for that change you will endear yourself to me for a lifetime.

Relationship Status: Available = I'm in a drama free, open marriage, and a couple of other amazing poly relationships. I have life full of loving, caring, intelligent brilliant people, to which I'm willing to add as long as it doesn't subtract (life is not a zero sum game, monogamists take note.) If you'd like to date me, please be exceptional, I promise you I am.

Things I enjoy: Planning dates and exploring this infinite city. Photography. Affection. Justice. Weekday adventures. Galleries. Free concerts. Outdoor theatre. Dancing. Baking. Home Cooking. Magic (not the wizards and spells, but the kind where the total is greater than the sum of its parts).
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm changing the economic structure of the world by combining anarchistic, small democracy approaches, doses of western liberal capitalism, and good old social ecology into a network of intentional live/work communities. It's like the bastard child of Karl Marx and McDonald's.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being an "alpha" male without being an a**hole.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm funnier than my profile lets on. (Much easier to "be" funny than to "write" witty. )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm an avid reader-- so instead let's list some books that define me in some way:

Religion: Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler.
Sex: My Uncle Oswald by Roald Dahl.
Politics: One part Walden Two by BF Skinner, one part anything by Michel de Foucault*.
Childhood: The Brief and Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Diaz
Relationships:Against Love by Laura Kipnis (The title is sensationalist, it's not really "against love".)

* Apparently French theory has fallen out of favor with the post-structuralist crowd ::: le sigh:: Your professors are wrong. Individual consciousness and liberation doesn't preclude structural change, it's a necessary but not sufficient condition for it.

My Music tastes range wildly. It's a tautological "I like good music from all genres" problem.

Food and I are friends with benefits.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Freedom.
2. A black Uniball Deluxe Micro pen, the pen *is* mightier then the sword (If you have your own micro, you get serious bonus points).
3. A metrocard.
4. A library card (I'm being way too strategic about this...)
5. Other sane, intelligent human beings (is that like wishing for more wishes?)
6. A problem to solve. I'm a problem solver and a planner.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Big Ideas: How to Radically change the direction of our society toward a vision of peace, equality, and balance? How to force ourselves to deal with society's problems instead of throwing people in prisons?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Despite music not being a major force in my life, I still remix songs in my head. Badly. Geek-ily. Often-ily.
You should message me if
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Just message me already.

*Bonus* points if:
  • » you are someone who values progressive to radical social change
  • » you are someone who can teach me something / challenge my thinking
  • » you are in an existing open relationship and are looking for something stable, ongoing, magical.
  • » your needs are deep but infrequent. perhaps monthly to bi-monthly getaways/get-togethers?

Though it's in no way a requirement, if you might be interested in spending time with my primary partner (a female) and me please take the express lane to the left. We regularly enjoy dating others, so its not something new to us. We're not in sister-wife country, more like friends++ territory.