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28 M San Leandro, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:59pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a man with millions of thoughts, thousands of opinions, hundreds of hobbies, tens of convictions and only a few friends.

EDIT: That description makes me look incredibly unpleasant and damn near unmanageable.

I am an incredibly fluid man. I don't stress. I don't get angry. I have my opinions and I love to share them, but always as discourse, never as argument. I find no joy in embarrassing people. I am acutely aware of my flaws and minutely aware that I am unaware of a good portion of them. I aim to entertain but resent the obligation it breeds. I love to create. I love to compete. I despise moral laziness though I am fairly immoral and more than a little lazy at times. I am a Feminist with no caveats, vested interests or ulterior motives (though I imagine that is also exactly what I would say if I were a sociopath.) I am a comfortably independent person who has invested a lot of work into trying to maintain more than an iota of self-actualized integrity.

I dunno; I guess I'm just a dude who likes to talk but apparently has zero aptitude for self-summaries.

Nice to meet you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am trying to let the dust settle, for once. I have moved around a lot over the past few years. A short list of things I am involved pretty readily with/in:

- music.
- daydreaming.
- building.
- motorcycles.
- reading.
- cooking.
- drinking.
- traveling.
- doodling.
- writing.
- laughing. so much laughing.
- some grousing too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am an exceptional: singer, wit and raconteur.

I am a good: cook, writer and listener.

I am an alright and/or noteworthy: organist, Romantic, and mechanic.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I had to countenance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am a glutton for art and schlock so, in the hopes of not spending a whole evening listing things I enjoy, I am going to limit myself to 10/category, in no particular order.

Books: Delany, García Márquez, Keane, Atwood, de Bernières, Vonnegut, Foster Wallace, Saunders, Carol-Oates, Dick.

Shows: Hannibal, The Wire, Futurama, Archer, Sherlock, Black Books, Garth Marenghi's Darkplace, Better Off Ted, Twin Peaks, True Detective.

Music (I am loathe to answer this, but here goes): Adrien Younge, Hiatus Kaiyote, D'Angelo, Little Dragon, Benji Hughes, Richard Swift, Dungen, Toro y Moi, Melody's Echo Chamber, and Georgia Anne Muldrow.

Food: anchovy, stinky cheeses, scotch, tzatziki, lavender, honey, hummus, fish sauce, chili paste, coffee

Ugh. That sucked.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to drink.
Privacy, or at least the illusion of it.
Skin, a kiss, a hug and/or contact.
The opportunity to cook.
That big, bad bully Music.
An outlet (in both senses of the word).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
See: "The most private thing I'm willing to admit."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

But typically TO something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I daydream. A lot.

I live entire lives out, daily.

I like it though. It helps fill me. It helps me maintain some sort of perspective. It makes for great damage control.

But yeah, I daydream a lot a lot.
You should message me if
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Also, bear in mind that your bigotry and/or troll behavior reeks. I am neither naive nor hungry enough to attempt to lambaste you over the Internet, but you stink. Good job.