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brooding_soul

33 M Santa Ana, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:14pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I hate self-summaries. I have to sum myself up in this tiny box? Okay then, let's do it:

Once upon a time, I was born. A few years passed. Now I'm here.

Seriously though, what can I say here that isn't going to seem self-serving, or like I'm a used car salesman convincing you to buy a 1976 Dodge Dart with 194,000 miles on it?

Um. Not that I'm claiming to be old and worn out. Far from it.

My point is, if you have no intention of reading past my self-summary, nothing I'm going to say will convince you otherwise. However, if you do actually read my interests, you'll find out all you need to know about me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lately, I've been taking every opportunity I can get to make my life what I want it to be, while also creating every opportunity I can. Whatever life has to throw at me, I'm going to deal with it and come out stronger. And chances are, after I stomp it into submission, I'm going to mirthlessly laugh at it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Acting. Bowling. Having fun. Singing in the car at the top of my lungs. Listening. Empathizing. Watching bad television. Studying biology. Studying theatre. Studying in general. Learning. Hanging out with my friends. Drinking. Being a college student. Being a college graduate. Laughing. Sleeping in. Procrastinating. Overachieving. Being awesome. Cuddling. Making out. Running. Being lazy. Being productive. Stretching. Cleaning. Cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People tend to think that I come off a bit snobbish, because I tend to step back and observe in group situations. I'm not a snob, I'm just an observer. I like understanding how and why people interact with each other before I actually jump in and start interacting. It's partly because I'm avidly interested in human nature and partly because I can't bear to make a complete fool of myself in front of new people.

That's a lie. I love to make a fool of myself.

Physically, people probably notice my eyes first. I've been told I have kind eyes. Also, I have really nice shoulders, they're pretty broad. And I love my calves, but they're not usually noticeable, as they're covered up by pants.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Time-Traveler's Wife. Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close. The Handmaid's Tale. The History of Love. Jurassic Park. The Devil Wears Prada. Stiff: The Curious Life of Human Cadavers. Einstein's Dreams. The Chronicles of Narnia. The Help. The Hunger Games Trilogy. Carthweel. The Engagements.


Movies: Jurassic Park. The House of Yes. Friday. Superstar. Little Women. Silver Linings Playbook. Forgetting Sarah Marshall. Despicable Me. Paranormal Activity. The Help. Blue Valentine. The Hunger Games. Who's Afraid of Virginia Wolf.


TV: Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Gossip Girl. Top Chef. Happy Endings. American Horror Story. Grey's Anatomy. Teen Wolf.


Music: Amy Winehouse. Britney Spears. Liz Phair. Cibo Matto. Beyonce. Alanis Morissette. Anna Nalick. Bjork. Imagine Dragons. Bastille. Rachael Yamagata. Taylor Swift. The Pretty Reckless. Adele. Ke$ha. Mumford & Sons. Kelly Clarkson. Sam Smith.


Food: Sushi! Chips and salsa. Pizza. Salads. Sloppy Joes. Cool Ranch Doritos. Strawberries. Beef 'n Cheddars from Beef-A-Roo. Taco John's. Crab cakes. Pineapple. Special K. Cocoa Pebbles. Grapes. Cereal. Salmon. Cupcakes. Malai Kofta.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Winnie the Pooh I've had since I was a baby. My computer with internet connection (does that count as one?). Theatre. Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Literature. Music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm going to do with my life and how I'll come by it. What people think about me. How to be a better person. How I can help other people. How I can be a better friend. Why people act the way they do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching bad movies with my best friends. Out drinking with my best friends. Playing games with my best friends. Out dancing with my best friends. Being completely and utterly ridiculous with my best friends. You catching the pattern here? Though lately, I've also enjoyed quiet nights at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still sleep with a stuffed animal.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like having fun. You like being serious. You like being so insanely goofy that you're the only person who understands what you're saying. You like talking until six in the morning. You like scaring the shit out of yourself with ghost stories and haunted houses. You're tolerant. Or if you have nothing better to do and you just wanna talk to someone. I'm a pretty good listener.