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34 F Brooklyn, NY

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Atheism, and very serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I'm a reader, writer, photographer, maker, crafter, weird stuff admirer, and road-tripper. So basically I'm an -er. I'm Brooklyn born and bred, but I've zig-zagged this country a number of times and usually can say "Oh, I been there." I love the open road and rock'n'roll. It is my destiny.

I'd like to find a fella who is smart and spontaneous, affectionate and interesting, consumed by a passion and has many stories to tell.

Important to note: I’m confident, body positive, and unapologetic about who I am and how I roll. I am an all-inclusive lover of humanity, a raging feminist, kinda queer, and very considerate of everyone's journey and voice. I like to think I know when to listen and learn, and know when to call people out on their bullshit. With that said: no racists, sexists, or jerks welcome.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a thriving small business in Gowanus and it's pretty much the coolest thing ever. I will charm the socks right off ya. On the side, I also do social media and marketing.

As for artistic endeavors, I am first a poet, second a photographer. I write poems sporadically nowadays, but the words are in me.
I’m really good at
Being silly and being myself - these are one in the same.

Reading, writing, but DEFINITELY NOT arithmetic. You will laugh at my inability to math.

Being a feminist killjoy if you are a misogynistic fuckwad. (◡‿◡✿)

Making and creating. Being crafty with cool shit.

Singing badly. But passionately! Hopefully cute enough to be tolerated.

Transforming boring things into fun things. I excel at this.
The first things people usually notice about me
All my big colorful tattoos, my size, my carefree-ness, my made up words, my chronic giggles, my enormous smile, that I might be saying they look cute in that dress or that beard is dope. I’m very friendly!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
ART: Take me to a museum for our first date and I may swoon.


I have a BFA in Creative Writing and used to read a book per week. Now, not so much. Work has infiltrated my time to read, but I longingly stroke the spines of old dusty books quite often. Creeeeeepy. I love words. And books. And binding. And authors. And pages. And turning them.


I cannot live without music. I like to think I have good taste in tunes, but my friends never give me control of the music. Pfft. I do have a lot of range. I like what I like and usually have a rotating Top Ten. Here are some of my Top Ten Most Wanted:

Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds
Tom Waits
Bruce Springsteen
PJ Harvey
Those two amazing songs from Drive
A sudden turn: I love Kanye, Jay, and Yonce. What?

But then I hop skip jump to Nina Simone to Muse to Journey to Arcade Fire to Depeche Mode to Biggie to OMD to Metallica to Elvis to whatever my little heart desires. Most importantly, I love an epic tune that I can sing along to. I LOVE singing along.


I can spend an entire Sunday just watching one movie after another while being a lazybones. Like most other Americans my age, I'm addicted to Netflix. I will be very embarrassed at first, but then I'll happily ramble on about all the shows I've consumed. And how quickly they were consumed. :|
The six things I could never do without
1. My bed / nest.

2. The County of Kings and opportunities to flee it.

3. Art, crafts, making.

4. Human touch *blush*

5. The vast internets.

6. I'm leaving this last one blank for what may come.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's that thing most people think about every 3 seconds? Oh right, ice cream.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting rip roaringly baked.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will always root for the underdog. It almost doesn't matter what the subject.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're a cool cat who thinks I'm a cool cat. Simple as that.