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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 27
5′ 2″ (1.58m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
On a perfect weekend like this, there is only one thing missing...

I am a very serious silly person. Rather shy, and very private, but only until you get to know me. Then anything could happen. I put kindness above all else. We're all just learning how to be human after all.

I'm highly evolved, meaning I've done quite a bit of work getting from there to here. I'm in a good place, ready to give energy to a relationship. That's not to say that I'll ever be done tinkering, and I hope the person I'm with never is either. It's just to say that I know myself well, looking for the same in a partner, not looking to change anybody or be changed. Just looking to generate a lot of love with someone as we both go on our tinkering way.

I don't really believe in lying about age; it's just a number. As long as we connect on the important stuff, I'm open to a fairly wide age range. But I am looking for a partner, someone to build a life with. If you aren't in that place too, I'm not the right girl for you.

That said, I'm having more fun in my life right now than I ever have. Old soul with a young spirit? Late bloomer? Good things come to those who wait? Whatevs, not gonna question it.

A list of things I like to do: going to the movies (old and new), going to see live music, going dancing, going roller skating, lying in the park and doing nothing, Netflix bingeing, cooking, trying new restaurants, riding rides at Coney Island, museums, traveling, just having a great conversation with someone I find interesting... I can be a pretty cheap date.

Although there is virtually no evidence of it thus far, some people say I'm funny.

The only sport I care about is tennis.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Questioning everything.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being prompt
getting good seats for movies
making lists, then procrastinating
describing people as a cross between one celebrity and another
getting below the surface verrry quickly
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've never asked anyone so I don't know. The top of my head?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Recent favorite book: The Marriage Plot (tears). Any Eugenides really.

Movies: All That Jazz, Badlands, Sunrise

Music: Radiohead, Arcade Fire, Girl Talk, Bill Evans, Stan Getz, Willie Nelson, Harry Nilsson, Beck, Sondheim, Reggie Watts... (predictably eclectic I'm afraid) I just cleaned out my cds and that was definitely a litmus test. Did I ever really like Urge Overkill? I think not, good sir.

Food: I am a foodie. I like food. Good food. Salmon is my favorite food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee (I've tried, and it turns out that it's like 60% of my personality)
sleep (also a failed experiment)
human touch
unconditional love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Calculating the hours of sleep I can get between the time I get home and the time I have to get up in the morning. I really like sleep.

Gerard Butler - why?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually involves a drink and a movie in one configuration or another.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Admit here? That I sometimes search by astrological sign.
(Plenty more admissions in-person, because I have done some real embarrassing shit.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are willing to meet in person. You don't have to be in New York (this is a global initiative), but as you can probably tell from this profile, I'm much more interested in the real world than the online one. I'm far more interesting in person and gosh darn it I bet you are too.

Beyond that, you should contact me if you are a kind soul with a limitless sense of humor who is looking for an emotional and physical connection that is more than fleeting.

You're available and generous with yourself. No risk, no reward.

You think a vacation in a treehouse sounds like a great idea.

Redheads, Native Midwesterners, and Seekers welcome.