I'm a good guy... looking for another. I've got a great career, amazing friends, loving family, my dream home, best dog in the world and a few relationships under my belt. Now I'm looking to settle down with someone. I don't go to bars or clubs, don't really have that many gay friends... it's not really my "lifestyle". I just happen to be a gay man. Just kinda live my life day to day and try to be as good a person as I know how to be. I've got a wicked sense of humor (never cruel though) and a tender heart. They balance things out. Love going to the movies and am slightly addicted to Ebay. Gimme Sinatra on the stereo and a glass of Pepsi One and I'm a happy guy.

I am single, devoted, and looking

I make my living in the theater but am not necessarily looking for someone in the arts - I like "normal" people, too! I'm an actor - musical theater mostly. I also teach musical theater at a major university in NYC. I'm a busy writer and director and I do a concert series as well as record. I'm on a pretty good spiritual path as an individual... once I wriggled out from under organized religions I found clarity. My life is on track, I just want someone to share it with.

A lot of things...

I'm a good singer... good with words, so I'm a pretty savvy writer... good at cooking - nothing fancy, but I cook like a mom and usually make more than I need. I'm good at throwing parties... big or small. I know antiques pretty well and have a good eye for a bargain.

My blue eyes. My build - people think I'm an undercover cop when I ride the subway - go figure. My sense of humor.

Books: David Copperfield, Wish You Well, Mississippi Sissy
Movies: Penny Serenade, Dodgeball, Chronicles of Narnia - and tons of others
Food: Sushi - hands down, Italian - close second, Country/Soul

My family and friends
My dog
My music
Family photos
My computer
Judge Judy

What's taking you so long to find me?

Home doing projects around the house, putting on a movie, making a couple phone calls and writing into the wee hours

I've never done the deed with a woman...

You're looking for a potentially long-term thing. If you're monogamous by nature and old-fashioned about love. If you're in the NYC area or if you think, at some point, you might want to re-locate here. I won't be leaving this city while I'm still breathing. I prefer younger guys than me, so if you're younger - great. If you're built big like me, we probably aren't a match. Must confess, scrawny guys are hotter to me than muscle dudes. If you call yourself a "bottom boy" only, we're not going to hit it off either... too confining. Otherwise- I'm open!