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29 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:49pm
Asian, Middle Eastern, Native American, Indian, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My friends note I don't do things halfway. I approach with full passion and energy, jumping into a new adventure with both feet.

Carpe diem, carpe noctem.

My closet is organized by decade. It starts in 1066.

I once measured the number of books I had in total feet of shelving because I had 3 walls of my room with continuous shelving all covered in books. It was more than 100ft. Now most of those books are in a huge stack of boxes waiting for me to buy enough bookcases to hold them all.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Tech tech tech. Like all the other men in the Bay Area, I work in tech. I just started a job with the word architect in my title. If you're interested in such things, I do UI/UX, architecture, and front end development with a side of big data, healthcare, analytics, and data visualization.

I started up a non-profit that helps patients find clinical trials to discuss with their doctors. I worked extensively with the American Cancer Society until they screwed us over and we had to restart the whole project from scratch. I'm very proud of the fact that I was able to use the software I developed to buy a few extra years of life for a family friend with terminal brain cancer. I still help out the non-profit, but eventually I had to start making a living again, and it was too much work trying to eke out a living as a dancer, so I went back to tech.

In my spare time, I dance. A lot. I've been known to traverse the globe in pursuit of dance.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I dance. I founded and run my own event, teach workshops and classes, perform all over the place, and, travel the world to attend dance exchanges, and go out social dancing whenever I get the chance. Blues, waltz, swing, salsa, tango, Irish ceilidh, and just about anything I can groove my body to.

My dinner parties are epic. I've served every dish, including drinks, on fire. We had flaming glogg, brandy-fired mac'n'cheese, spinach salad flambé, steak au poivre with a cognac sauce, and fresh fruit with sugar torched on, served over ice cream, and lit with rum. Any other ideas for future themed dinners?

Also, two pounds of pork belly managed to make it into several of the dishes. Minus constant bacon snacking during cooking.

Also, I acquired a few calligraphy nibs, pots of ink, fancy paper, and sealing wax while in Cambridge. Caution! You may end up the recipient of a fancy letter covered in ink blotches and smears as I practice my calligraphy and wax stamping skills.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Update: A friend who I met at burning man and was looking for me in SF described me as "a sexy viking who does blues and ceilidh".

Depends on whether they meet me on the dance floor or somewhere else.

Sometimes it's the hair.
Sometimes the dancing.
Sometimes an outrageous outfit.
Always my joie de vivre and hearty laugh.

My facial hair changes with the wind. Today I've got a well groomed handlebar mustache and beard combo. Tomorrow it may be a cop stache, mutton chops, or even clean shaven.

Most common comment I get on the street is "Where did you get those pants?". If you want to see those pants, you'll have to either meet up with me or ask nicely, but none of my good photos happen to involve any of those pants (it's not just one pair).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I thought I'd make this section more interesting than your usual laundry list.

I am a big fan of scifi and fantasy. I especially enjoy the works of Philip K. Dick, Heinlein, and Neil Stephenson. I also tend to read a lot of non-fiction about science, math, and philosophy. _Godel Escher Bach_ changed my life. I found a copy of The Alchemist in a park once. I ended up missing class for the rest of the day because I had to read it all the way through. Sadly, most of my books are in boxes due to a lack of shelving and space right now. If you can figure out how to support several hundred pounds of books on cheap plaster walls, I'm all ears.

I haven't been to a movie theater in years. I don't really pay attention to movies much anymore, nor TV. I tend to enjoy movies like "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind", "American Beauty", and "Amelie". I used watched Dr Who every week with friends after my Tuesday dinner clubs.

My musical tastes are a bit eclectic. Almost all music I listen to nowadays is related to some sort of dancing or another. Until I was 13 or 14, I only listened to classical music and opera. Only after discovering radio stations beyond NPR and classical music did I start listening to modern music. Naturally, I got started with Nirvana.

I eat just about everything except canned meat (especially canned tuna) and brussel sprouts. I adore squash, green beans, bell peppers, and anything fresh and delicious. Cooking is a hobby of mine, but I'm content to just put a bunch of fresh vegetables in a bowl and call it dinner. Other times, I may prepare extravagant six-course meals for my friends. I also recently discovered how amazing pork belly is, and how much better than bacon it is.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cuddle piles.
Adventures on the horizon.
Did I mention dance?
Amazing food.
Amazing friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Physics, philosophy, chemistry, interpersonal relations, mathematics, and whatever other topics enthrall me. I am constantly learning new things, and reading about everything. I have a thirst for knowledge that will never be quenched. I've recently been thinking about the post-work economy and how to handle a future where society simply doesn't need everyone to work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out dancing until the wee hours of the morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Just between you and me, I imagine my life as a checklist for those "world's most interesting man" commercials.
Ballroom dancer -- check
Sword fighter -- check
Chef, programmer, explorer, burlesque dancer, triathlete -- check, check, check, check, check

I learned all my important life skills from boy scouts: how to tie knots and use rope, start fires, and use sharp and pointy objects. Also, GGG (go read some Dan Savage).

I want to get caught up in someone's life, and have them get caught up in mine. I'm ready for a capital 'R' relationship, but I'm in no rush to find it.

When I'm having great adventures or enjoying myself, I don't bring a camera, especially when I'm outdoors/hiking/etc. Nearly all of my pictures are from dance events and performance gigs, where people are taking pictures of me purposefully. This doesn't mean I don't get out into nature or get silly, it just means I don't remember to document it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You've got moxie, you like well groomed beards/mustaches, you'd describe your type as "lumberjack"

Or, if any of the following sounds like something you'd like to do with me...

* Cuddling while precariously draped high in the branches of a tree.

* Taking a whiskey flight or a port flight.

* Dancing until sunrise.

* Having a beach bonfire and falling asleep in a sleeping bag listening to the waves crash against the shore.

* Cross swords with me in a moonlight duel to see who can knock all the buttons off the other's shirt first.

* Cooking a delicious meal with me.

* Trading handwritten letters, complete with wax seals and calligraphy.

* Lying in a sunny meadow in the woods reading Whitman aloud.