27 Naperville, IL
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My self-summary
Hi my name is Ben. First and foremost I live my life for God. I am His "warrior child" as I've heard it said haha. I'm also an outgoing guy, been working sales for 6 years now after I realized trying to become an engineer wasn't for me. I like to make money, I like to make friends and create connections everywhere I go. I love going out or staying in late night at my friend's place. I workout and eat somewhat healthy but I don't cook so if you can than we're a perfect match! ;) Anyway I'd like to find a girl who has some goals and drive but also loves family and making new friends. She should love God or at least be open minded to hearing me talk about Him.
What I’m doing with my life
I work full time in Sales. I run a part time business as well. I guess you could say making money is a big drive in my life.
I’m really good at
Whatever I set my mind to. "Whatever the mind of man can believe and conceive, he can achieve!" I've been told I'm also a good speaker and writer though.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile. Typically when I meet anyone new I'm already smiling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'll read any epic fantasy and self-help books are good too for motivation. Also I am reading a lot more books on God and faith to improve my relationship with Christ. I have some amazing recommendations if you're interested!

Any movie with amazing special effects and a halfway decent plot is great! Or a really awesome drama or comedy. I like any music except rap, but I can't name bands or songs. I just like it. All food is good food to me.
The six things I could never do without
1. GOD
2. Friends
3. My Phone
4. Food - I love food :)
5. Family
6. A Car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future, my dreams and goals. How to accomplish them and who I want to spend my time accomplishing them with. Also about how I can improve my spiritual walk and get closer to God.
On a typical Friday night I am
There's no typical Friday nights for me. Anything from catching a movie, dinner with family, hanging out with friends, reading or chillen on my own, or going out to have a good time. I would love to have a cuddle partner though :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I played ping pong/table tennis at an open gym - got destroyed by the legendary Asian players who are actually quite amazing haha
You should message me if
You like what you see or just want to know more. I'm an open book, ask whatever you want.