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brotheresau85

43 / M / Straight / Single

Asheville, North Carolina

His Details

Last Online
Today – 8:53am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Oh hi, I am a very positive, honest, and extremely happy fella. I love to hike, get in the back country, travel, listen to and see lots of music. I enjoy cooking quite a bit. I like to be challenged intellectually, but I also like to just chill with a movie and snuggle. I think I am a person of duality: professional/fun seeker, calm/slightly outrageous, charming/sensual, laid back/ready to debate.... My hope is that this makes for a smart fun package. Oh yes, I love to laugh and have a good time. The glass IS half full, and I like it. So I cordially invite you to hop on the bus and have some fun with me!!

thanks for stopping by...peace
What I’m doing with my life
By day, I am a self-employed architect in Asheville, NC. We do custom residential work. It is challenging and fun. I have some great clients, and we are making the world a prettier place to be in....we need more of that! By night, I have two boys that are with me some of the time. They are 11 and 14 and are really fabulous kids. Smart, together, funny, happy, and listen (at least right now, ha). They're killer kids, and a big part of my life. Love those boys!
I’m really good at
hmmm, being kind, being objective, fixing stuff, taking care of things: a house, a yard, and of course a lady.
The first things people usually notice about me
"Did he just say that out loud"...."I was thinking that, but would never say that"....Yes, indeed I am slightly outrageous from time to time. My wit and sarcasm is not at other's expense. It is frequently self-depricating and is very much fun natured. After they settle with what I just said they notice how animated I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: The Godfather, Pulp Fiction, Blues Brothers, The message behind the "Pay it Forward" movie, Wonderful Life (makes me cry). Shows: I admit to be a rock-n-roller and one the sees WSP quite frequently. I will inform more on this later if you wish. Food: I like all ethnicities of food really....I love me a Taco, Indian, and esp. Thai. Books: It doesn't seem like I have a lot of time to read....too busy. I read "The Week", weekly and Time sometimes. Most of the news comes to me through NPR and John Stewart....get the picture ;^)
The six things I could never do without
My kids, music, my dear old friends, mountains, a woman's touch, and the wind. Not in order except for the kids...lol.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My work most days. Recently though, I spend a bit of time thinking how nice it would be to have a beautiful/positive/happy lady to spend some time with. Someone to have a serious conversation with, then to make me smile, and then to giggle with, etc. Yes indeed, this thought is taking some brain time.
On a typical Friday night I am
I like to listen to some tunes, kinda loud, have a few drinks, hang with some friends....blow out the pipes a bit. I think date night sounds better though....don't you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hmmm, well I am a really honest and don't hide much. To hide things, actually it just doesn't occur to me. Ask me anything!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You like to have fun. If you like to laugh. If you love to enjoy these lovely mountains. If you like to be treated with dignity and kindness. If you are at peace with yourself.