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My self-summary Propose an edit

Having been in various (mostly great) relationships since I was a teenager I suddenly find myself effectively single. I say effectively cos, thanks to OKC, I'm enjoying a frank and fulfilling, open relationship with a wonderful lady. So, I'm looking to branch out and enjoy a new found freedom. I'm ready to explore other sides of my sexuality and have lots of fun.

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What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Right now, I'm having a great time. Enjoying living in London, exploring the wonders of an open relationship in a fascinating and very kinky city.
I seem to be spending lots of time slutting about on OKC. There are some really amazing people on here. Viva l'OKC!

I'm really good at Propose an edit

1) guitar

2) Alright, it's a cliche but I'm afraid I've got to admit it. I'm pretty good at the sex. There. I've said it. What is it about the English that makes us so bloody awful at self promotion.

Although I'd never have come to the above conclusion myself, I continually hear positive feedback from people so I am therefore impelled to agree. However, can I just ask what is wrong with all the guys I hear about from disgruntled, disatisfied women? 'He didn't do this, he didn't do that - bull in a china shop/limp-wristed cold dead fish. It was all wrong." Ok, so compared to these oafs I come out favourably. Also I'd like to point out that Ladies rarely complain about the physical aspect of their lovers, usually it's poor technique, manners and hygeine. So, come on Fellas, you're letting the side down.

3) Having nice soft skin.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I had to ask someone about this - they said "your deep liquid brown eyes"

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books: Douglas Adams; Phillip Pullman; Richard Dawkins; Spike Milligan; Tolkein: Jared Diamond;

Movies: Big production musicals like West Side Story, Gypsy, recently saw Singin' In The Rain at Somerset House! Withnail and I; Educating Rita; Hannah & Her Sisters esp (but Woody Allen in general); Secretary; The Wanderers; Watership Down (Yes, the one about the rabbits - great adaptation and a wonderful score. My first crush was for the voice of Hannah Gordon as Hyzenthlay);

Comedy: Big fan of Stand Up - Bill Hicks; Russell Brand; Lenny Bruce; Jerry Seinfeld

Music: The Smiths; Joni Mitchell; The Beatles; Pixies; Steve Reich

TV: Simpsons; Family Guy; QI; recently been converted to Spaced which is a wonderful find. - skip to the end...

Food: Any cuisine with a propensity for seafood does it for me although S.E. Asian would get my 'first past the post' vote.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

mind, joie de vivre, ears, sex, sense of humour, the Guitar

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

How wonderful BBC Radio 4 is.

Going to Speakers Corner made me extremely angry.

How wonderful the Girl is.

That I'm so lucky to live in a (relatively) secular democracy, able to indulge in activities with wonderfully kinky friends. Activities, being performed at other times in history (or in other societies now) would have seen me burned at the stake.

Is there a physical reason, due to wiring in the brain, that 'buh-dum
ching' is a great way to 'sting' a comedy punchline.

Who was the first child to tease an enemy with 'Nur Nur Na-Nurgh Nuh!'. Why is it so difficult to spell and is there an equivalent in non-indo-european languages.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

I generally work at weekends (that's Showbiz!) so , could be London, Nice, Istanbul, Key West, Tokyo. Or schlepping up and down the M1 after some dodgy gig in the provinces.

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The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

The best compliment I ever received was from the Girl who, after we'd just been to see the 'Vagina Monologues',turned to me and whispered "You are a Bob!"

You should message me if Propose an edit

You are a girl or guy finding yourself in similar exploratory mode. I don't want to sound like Randy Pan the goat boy, it's just that I'm at a wonderful place in my life, feeling excited and full of energy and I'd like to take the opportunity to be more adventurous. 'Fun' is the key concept here.

This just in...The Girl recently took me to Torture Garden (my first time!) and I had a wonderfully stimulating evening. Consequently, with my Dom side ascending, I'd love to chat to anyone interested in expressing the more Sub side of their nature.

Can I add this caveat; I'm just emerging into a new and exciting world. I therefore wish to hook up with like-minded neophytes. I don't think I'm looking for dyed in the wool gay guys or jaded veterans of the swinging scene. Although, you could message and try to persuade me otherwise. x

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