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40 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 31–42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:42pm
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love wine. Lots of wine. My strategy with wine is this: I basically figure how much wine I would need to drink in order to be considered to have "a problem," and then I back it off just a little bit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in the financial district for a commercial real estate firm.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can flick a pen 360 degrees around my thumb (surely you've seen a former classmate or co-worker do this before, no?).

I quit smoking several years ago, but before I did, I could blow the best smoke rings you've ever seen. No joke, people would comment on them all the time, and even ask me to teach them. Unfortunately, it was unteachable, it was just a weird inborn talent I had.
The first things people usually notice about me
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hmmm...not sure
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Seinfeld, The Office (British), Midnight Run, Van Morrison, Steak, Peanut Butter
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wine, My Bike, Books, Crossword Puzzles, Squirrels, Dental Floss
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why does OKCupid insists on phrasing so many of their matching questions by asking "Would you consider?" Such as "Would you consider sleeping with someone on the first date?" or "Would you consider having an open relationship?" It's a weird way to phrase the question because, by definition, in order to give your answer (i.e. as to whether you'd sleep with someone on the first date, or have an open relationship), you'd have to consider it. Hence, the answer would always be "Yes," as in, "Yes I would consider it, but subsequent to considering it, I would or wouldn't do it." You see? Thus, to some extent, the very phrasing of the question makes it tautological. OKCupid should just ask "Would you sleep with someone on the first date?" or "Would you have an open relationship?" etc.

Moreover, OKCupid frequently phrases their matching questions by asking "whether or not," such as "Regardless of whether or not you smoke marijuana, would you support legalizing it?" In reality, however, using "whether or not" is redundant, because "whether," used on its own, implies alternate possibilities. Hence, OKCupid should simply use "whether," as in, "Regardless of whether you smoke marijuana, would you support legalizing it?" See what I mean?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Down at the Piraeus
You should message me if
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You have your own life, but, at the same time, you'd like to meet someone for a drink and see where it goes – that's essentially where I'm at. I'm looking for casual dating that could maybe lead to something more committed and long-term.

P.S. If I don't respond to your message, it's only because I don't think we'd be a good match. But thanks anyway, and good luck on OKCupid!