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63 M Overland Park, KS

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Last Online
Yesterday – 9:36pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Seek a beautiful christian lady to enjoy romantic dinners, sushi, traveling, outdoor activities including fishing/ canoeing or kayaking / Farmer's market at the River Quay/snow skiing /bicycling/horseback riding/ rafting/canoeing/ kayaking/driving jeeps in the mountains/ and attend music festivals-- Jazz/Blues/Blue Grass//Reggae/Gospel.

It is time for me to smell the flowers as 2014 is going to be one of the best professional years of my life, and I want to share the joy with someone special.

"If one sits quietly, a butterfly will land on his shoulder, but if pursued she will fly away--that is my philosophy in attracting a special lady"."

I reside in Kansas City which has Seville, Spain as a sister city and is rated as one of the most elegant cities in America with a high quality of life. We are known for world famous BBQ and invented Jazz/Blues music at 18th and Vine.

I have traveled across the world including Europe and Israel, and lived in Dallas, San Francisco, New Orleans, Oklahoma City, and Albuquerque/Santa Fe, but Kansas City is my home. Our city is now rated as one of the most livable and romantic cities in America.
What I’m doing with my life
Commercial finance is my profession as CEO of Kessler Capital ( MBA/ChFc from KU / Pennsylvania), enjoy Blues/ Blue Grass/Reggae/ Gospel/ and Salsa, play trumpet, am an avid fly fisherman, hunter for cuisine on which to dine ( archery / Muzzle loader ), kayak scenic Ozark streams including the Big Piney River five hours from Kansas City, horseback ride along the scenic Current and Buffalo Rivers in the Ozarks taking pictures of elk, snow ski , explore wineries near Hermann, Missouri, dance Salsa , play tennis in the summer league at the country club Plaza, watch professional football ( Kansas City Chiefs) or basketball ( KU alumni ), and hike/bike along Indian Creek.

Travel often to the scenic Boston Mountains around Eureka Springs, Arkansas for relaxation and scenery---- seek a lady to travel to Arkansas for the August 15 Blue Grass Festival in Eureka Springs or dinner on my birthday on 8/31/14. Last summer I shattered my arm in a tennis tournament with surgery required with plates/pins and could not attend.
I’m really good at
Making a lady I love reach with the zenith of ecstasy in love making in the jacuzzi combined with oriental and oil massage --- but want only ONE special lady. And a man cannot crush a lady with too much love--he must grant her freedom to become herself.

One can have meaningless sex or fornication with anyone-- but true long lasting love producing intimacy is my desire. A wedding is an announcement of a marriage that happened long before in the eyes of God, but if the right lady wants to save the intimate moment for that night, I have no problem with waiting. but 95% of couples consummate the marriage prior to the ceremony and it is not sin in the eyes of the Lord.

The Special lady will be a diamond in the rough and worth the wait---- only her heart of compassion and dedication for me and the Lord is relevant. Her sweet calls will be the nectar of heaven as a gift from God--a Proverbs 31 woman of God is a blessing from the Lord !
The first things people usually notice about me
Extrovert, giver and not a selfish taker, professional with a positive attitude and integrity who treats ladies with respect, compassion with the ability to comfort hurting people, and provide love in time of sorrow.

Some guess me to be younger than the chronological age wearing designer jeans, leather jacket, straw cowboy hat from Santa Fe, elk boots, and driving a Jeep Grand Cherokee.

I am spiritual ( kind, loving, filled with grace, forgiveness, faith, freedom, and mercy) vs religious ( Guilt , shame, blame, legalism, fear, intolerance, hate, meanness, and bondage based ), and a very good listener--one must look deep into a ladies eyes which are the window to her soul to understand her heart and help her to grow into the perfection of God and protect her emotionally, financially, and physically.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Enjoy music with Cajun BBQ, sushi , seafood--but need a special lady to enjoy the latter and am a gourmet chef combined with the pool/ jacuzzi at my townhouse .

Romantic or action packed movies are my first love and want to attend the Kemper Performing Arts Center and Starlight theatre for concerts in 2014 and watch professional soccer.

My favorite movie may be "Jeremiah Johnson" due to my love for the outdoors and riding horses in the high country, but I love the TV program Touched by an ANGEL.
The six things I could never do without
Loving a special beautiful lady , my wonderful family who are elderly folks( 92/91) residing in assisted living here in Kansas City and sister and her family in Houston, Texas, the Ozark mountain scenery, tennis, canoeing/ kayaking Ozark streams, staying fit at the gym, snow sking as I used to live close to Santa Fe at the base of Sandia Peaks ski resort ( skied Rocky mountains everywhere), cooking gourmet dinners, helping widows and orphans financially, and most importantly my daily prayer, study of the Bible, and listening to worship music ---- the Lord is the guiding light of my life and source of wisdom and success.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Passion, hope, falling in love, joy, success, positive vibes, vision for direction and wisdom, and happiness in life, and praying for others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Listening to music at BBs Lawnside BBQ or Knuckleheads or watching Wizards Soccer games , dancing at the Power & Light District , or attending concerts at the Kauffman Arts Center or the Starlight theater .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a desire to love one special lady who is my best friend and companion for the rest of my life, and the yearnings of my heart can only be shared with her and the Lord together as it is HIM who brings couples together and the only glue that holds them together.

Marriage does not begin at the altar of man's "organized religion", but when the Lord puts two people together to make love for eternity like Adam and Eve.

A blue sapphire ring for purity surrounded by diamonds is for second marriages , and my Yeshua ring (Jesus in Hebrew hand made in Jerusalem on a trip in 1985) might be shifted from the right to the left hand if the right lady arrives.

A pink rose might be given regularly for the rest of her life to remind tell her she is beautiful and much loved. Maybe we could elope on a pink sand beach in Eleuthra in the Caribbean Islands, Eureka Springs, or at Bridal Cave at the Lake of the Ozarks and stay at TanTara.

Let me help make 2014 a wonderful year for you and treat you like the Queen of Sheba and become my Bride, Significant other, fall in love, and tell all other interested parties...YOU ARE TAKEN.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 21–65
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to be treated like a Queen with much affection, excellent communication combined with a listening and caring heart, and might become my BRIDE, Soul Mate, Significent other, Romantic Lover, Best friend, and FALL IN LOVE.

I pray a miracle for every lady who views my profile to be granted her heart's desire for the perfect mate per Psalms 20:4--- the Hand of God is a matchmaker-- but He can say yes/no/or wait for the perfect timing.

Only 5% of divorced women over 45 remarry but 65% of men in their 50-60s remarry and I am not age sensitive. The secular divorce rate is 60% but 5% for those who study the Bible, pray, and worship the Lord together.

My prayer is if there is a lady for me, she will know it in her heart, and the Lord grant me peace in singlehood if she never arrives and grow into a better man.

I Corinthians 7:27 (" Do not seek a mate in the final second before His Coming" ) may be the scripture for the hour as many think the Bride of Christ is engaged to Jesus with the wedding on Rosh Hashanah this fall when the final trumpet is blown.

Make it a great day !