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64 Overland Park, KS Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–65
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French

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My self-summary
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Seek a lady to enjoy romantic dinners, sushi, traveling, outdoor activities including fishing/ hunting/ canoeing / Farmer's market at the River Quay/snow skiing /bicycling/horseback riding/ visiting wineries /driving jeeps in the mountains/ and attending music festivals---Blues and Blue Grass.

It is time for me to smell the flowers as 2015 and I want to share the joy of success with a special lady.

"If one sits quietly, a butterfly will land on his shoulder, but if pursued she will fly away--that is my philosophy in attracting a special lady . "

I reside in Kansas City ( City of Fountains with only Rome having more fountains ) which is a sister city of Seville, Spain and is rated as one of the most elegant cities in America with a high quality of life.

We are known for world famous BBQ, professional sports ( Chiefs in football and Royals in the WORLD SERIES ), American Royal rodeo / horse show, and Jazz/Blues music.

I have traveled the world including Europe, Israel, island resorts, Hawaii, Alaska, and lived in Dallas, San Francisco, New Orleans, Oklahoma City, and New Mexico, but moved back home to Kansas City to reside close to family and return to roots.
What I’m doing with my life
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Commercial finance is my profession ( MBA/ChFc, Kansas University ), give to UNICEF and WORLD VISION to feed starving children around the globe, enjoy Blues and Blue Grass , am an avid fly fisherman, hunt deer/turkey/pheasants for cuisine ( archery and guns ),

Canoe scenic Ozark streams including the Big Piney River, horseback ride along the scenic Current River in the Ozarks taking pictures of elk, snow ski , explore wineries near Hermann, Missouri, dance Salsa , play tennis in the summer league at the Plaza, watch professional sports, attend basketball ( KU alumni ), and hike/bike along Indian Creek.

Travel often to the scenic Ozark mountains around Eureka Springs, Arkansas for relaxation and scenery.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making ONE special lady experience sexual ecstasy in love making in the Jacuzzi, shower, bubble bath, water bed, and rubbed everywhere with oil . Heaven will be waking up to her beautiful eyes with passionate kisses and serving her breakfast in bed.

A man cannot crush the lady with love nor control her--he must grant her freedom to fulfill her mission in life-- but woman was created for man as a help mate. Long lasting love with daily intimacy is my desire to come together as one flesh with a kindred spirit.

The Special lady will be a diamond in the rough and worth the wait---- only her heart of compassion and dedication for me and the Lord is relevant.

Age, race, education, or occupation are irrelevant except only 5% of ladies over 45 marry, but older ladies sometimes get better like fine wine and their children are raised allowing freedom to travel. The only mandatory criterion is the lady must have Jesus as Lord of her life.

Her sweet calls will be the nectar of heaven as a gift from God especially in times of sorrow--a Proverbs 31 woman of God is a blessing from the Lord and Proverbs 13:10 says "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains the favor of the Lord"
The first things people usually notice about me
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Extrovert, giver, relaxed, confident, patient, with a positive attitude and treats ladies with ultimate respect, compassionate with the ability to comfort hurting people, and provide love and encouragement to her in time of sorrow.

I can be recognized wearing designer jeans, leather jacket with straw cowboy hat from Santa Fe ( New Mexico), elk boots, look younger, and drive a Blue Jeep Grand Cherokee.

I am spiritual ( kind, loving, filled with grace, a friend , forgiving, faithful, humble, blessing all, and giving mercy ) vs religious ( Guilt , shame, blame, legalistic, fear, intolerant, opinionated,pride, meanness, and bondage based ), and am a very good listener with a soft heart.

One must look deep into a ladies eyes which are the window to her soul to understand her heart and help her to grow into the perfection of God and protect her emotionally, financially, spiritually, and physically.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Enjoy music with BBQ, sushi , seafood and am a gourmet chef at my townhouse.

Romantic or action packed movies are my first love and want to attend the Kemper Performing Arts Center and Starlight theatre for concerts in 2014 and watch professional soccer.

My favorite movie may be "Jeremiah Johnson" due to my love for the outdoors and riding horses in the high country, but I love the TV program Touched by an ANGEL, Duck Dynasty, and SWAMP PEOPLE in Louisiana on the History Channel .
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Loving a special beautiful lady , my wonderful family who are elderly folks( 93/92 in May ) residing in assisted living here in Kansas City and sister and her family in Houston, Texas, the Ozark mountain scenery, canoeing/ kayaking Ozark streams, staying fit at the gym, snow sking as I used to live close to Santa Fe at the base of Sandia Peaks ski resort ( skied Rocky mountains and Taos ), cooking gourmet dinners, helping starving children financially, and most importantly my daily prayer, study of the Bible, and listening to worship music ---- the Lord is the guiding light of my life and source of wisdom and success.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Passion, hope, falling in love, joy, success, positive vibes, vision for direction and wisdom, and happiness in life, and praying for others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Listening to Blues/Jazz music at BBs Lawnside BBQ or Dannys, watching Wizards Soccer games , dancing at the Power & Light District , or attending concerts at the Kauffman Arts Center or the Starlight theater such as Handel's Messiah.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a desire to love one special lady who is my best friend and companion for the rest of my life, and the yearnings of my heart can only be shared with her. The Lord brings couples together and He is the only glue that holds them together.

Marriage does not begin at the altar of man's "organized religion", but when the Lord puts a man and women together with no engagement period necessary .

A blue sapphire ring surrounded by white stones might be given as a promise or wedding ring, and my Yeshua ring ( Jesus in Hebrew hand made in Jerusalem at the House of Shalom during a trip in 1985 ) will be shifted from the right to the left hand when the right lady arrives.

A pink rose ( representing the Holy Spirit) might be given regularly for the rest of her life to remind tell her she is beautiful and much loved.

Maybe we could sun bath on a pink sand beach in Eleuthra in the Caribbean Islands dining on Giant Mexican Lobsters with champagne or nectar of some sort to enhance love making.

Let me help make 2015 a wonderful year for you and treat you like the Queen of Sheba and become my Bride, Significant other, fall in love, and interested men-- "I AM TAKEN".
You should message me if
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You want to be treated like a Queen with much affection, with a listening and caring heart, and might become my BRIDE, Soul Mate, Significent other, Romantic Lover, Special Angel, Best friend, and simply FALL IN LOVE.

I pray a blessing on every lady who views my profile to be granted her heart's desire for the perfect soul mate per Psalms 20:4 . Proverbs 13:12 says: "Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when the desire comes, it is a tree of life."

Psalms 37:4 says "Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desire of your heart" An Angel of the Lord brought Rebecca to Isaac as his bride in Genesis 24 and the Lord brought Eve to Adam .

95% of Christian marriages representing Christ and His Bride are successful with Bible study/ prayer/communion /anointing with oil together, worshipping the Lord in music, leading the lost to Christ, listening to each other, laughing, forgiving daily, giving to the poor, and making love often with complete loyalty as lifetime partners.

My prayer is the Lord will bring the perfect christian lady to me as a testimony to Jesus, and the Lord will grant me the grace to grow into the best man as a gift to her until the moment of union arrives.

But many think all true Christians are engaged to Him and the wedding in heaven will come at Easter this year.