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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-65
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:33am
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Seek a beautiful lady to enjoy romantic dinners, Sushi, BBQ,traveling, outdoor activities including fishing/ hunting/ canoeing / Farmer's market at the River Quay/snow skiing /bicycling/horseback riding/ visiting wineries /driving jeeps in the Ozark mountains ( Aux Arcs in French) / attending music festivals including the Silver Dollar City Blue Grass/BBQ festival in Branson, Missouri .

It is time for me to smell the flowers and want to share my life and success with one special lady."If one sits quietly, a butterfly will land on his shoulder, but if pursued she will fly away"-----that is my philosophy in attracting my special lady. Short term dating can lead to long relationship.

I reside in Kansas City ( City of Fountains with only Rome having more fountains ) which is a sister city of Seville, Spain and is rated as one of the most elegant cities in America with a high quality of life.

We are known for world famous BBQ, professional sports ( Chiefs in football and Royals winning the WORLD SERIES ), American Royal rodeo / horse show, and Jazz/Blues music.

I have traveled the world including Europe, Israel, Club Med island resorts, Hawaii, Alaska, and lived in Dallas, San Francisco, New Orleans, Oklahoma City, and outside Santa Fe, New Mexico, but moved back home to Kansas City to be close to family and roots.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Commercial finance is my profession ( MBA/ChFc, Kansas University alumni ), give to UNICEF to feed starving children around the globe, enjoy Blues and Blue Grass music, am an avid fisherman for trout/walleye/ smallmouth bass/pan fish----and hunt deer/turkey/ wild boar/ pheasants/quail for cuisine.

Canoe scenic Ozark streams including the Big Piney and Buffalo Rivers, horseback ride along the scenic Current River in the Ozarks taking pictures of elk, snow ski , explore wineries near Hermann, Missouri, dance Salsa , play tennis in the summer league at the Plaza, watch professional sports, attend basketball ( KU Jayhawks), and hike/bike along Indian Creek.

Travel often to the scenic Ozark Boston mountains around Eureka Springs, Arkansas or Eminence, Missouri on the Current River for relaxation, fishing and waking up to heavenly scenery.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making my special angel experience sexual ecstasy making love in the Jacuzzi, shower, bubble bath, water or feather bed, and rubbed with oil with during oriental massage . Heaven will be waking up everyday to her beautiful eyes with passionate kisses and serving her breakfast in bed.

A man cannot crush the lady with love nor control her--he must grant her freedom to fulfill her mission in life-- but woman was created for man as a help mate. Long lasting love with daily intimacy is my desire to come together as one flesh with a kindred spirit.

The Special lady will be a diamond in the rough and worth the wait-- only her heart of compassion and love for the Lord is relevant. Race, age ( but only 5% of women over 45 marry as the bloom is off the rose ) , or color are not relevant but only compatibility matters and love for each other.

Marriage does not begin at the altar when compatibility develops and only 3% wait until after the wedding for love making love -- a legal document is optional.

Her sweet calls will be the nectar of heaven as a gift from God especially in times of sorrow--a Proverbs 31 woman of God is a blessing from the Lord and Proverbs 13:10 says "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains the favor of the Lord" Ephesians 5:22-33 must be the formula for our relationship.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Extrovert, giver, relaxed, confident, patient, laid back, with a positive attitude and treats ladies with ultimate respect, compassionate with the ability to comfort hurting people, and provide love and encouragement to her in time of sorrow to dry her tears.

I can be recognized wearing designer jeans, leather jacket with straw cowboy hat from Santa Fe ( New Mexico), elk hide boots, and driving a Blue Jeep Limited .

I am spiritual ( kind, loving, filled with grace, mercy, forgiving, faithful, humble, blessing all ) vs religious ( legalistic, intolerant, mean, and bondage based ), and am a very good listener with a soft heart of honesty.

One must look deep into a ladies eyes which are the window to her soul to understand her heart and help her to grow into the perfection of God and protect her emotionally, financially, spiritually, and physically.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Enjoy Blues music with BBQ, sushi , seafood and am a gourmet chef at my townhouse.

Romantic or action packed movies are my first love , attend the Kemper Performing Arts Center, and Starlight theatre for concerts and watch professional soccer.

My favorite movie may be "Jeremiah Johnson" due to my love for the outdoors and riding horses in the high country, but I love the TV programs Touched by an ANGEL, Duck Dynasty, and alligator hunting with the SWAMP PEOPLE in Louisiana, Mountain Men, the Woodsman on the History Channel .
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Loving a special lady , my wonderful family who are elderly parents( 93/92 in May ) residing in assisted living here in Kansas City and sister and family who reside in Houston, TX , Ozark mountain scenery and relative's 1200 acre cattle ranch on Lake Pomme De Terre, canoeing Ozark streams, staying fit , snow skiing, cooking gourmet dinners

---- feeding starving children in Africa, and most importantly my daily prayer, study of the Bible, and listening to worship music ---- the Lord is the guiding light of my life and source of wisdom and success.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Passion, hope, falling in love, joy, success, positive vibes, vision for direction , happiness in life, praying for others, studying about the soon coming of Christ.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Listening to Blues/Jazz music at BBs Lawnside BBQ or Dannys, watching professional sports , dancing at the Power & Light District , or attending concerts at the Kauffman Arts Center or the Starlight theater.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a desire to love one special lady who is my best friend and companion for the rest of my life, and the yearnings of my heart can only be shared with her in complete trust.

The Lord is the matchmaker and" let no man put asunder what the Lord puts together." The "Marriage Covenant" begins when the Lord brings the woman to the man per the story of Adam and Eve in Genesis 2:22,25.

A Blue sapphire ring meaning purity surrounded by white stones might be appropriate for the left hand of my special angel, and my Yeshua ring ( Jesus in Hebrew hand made in Jerusalem at the House of Shalom during a trip in 1985 ) could be shifted from the right to the left hand when she finds me.

A pink rose might be given weekly for the rest of her life to tell her she is beautiful and loved. Maybe we could elope on a pink sand beach in Eleuthra in the Caribbean Islands dining on Giant Mexican Lobsters sipping peach wine as love nectar to enhance romance ? or maybe the lady would prefer a dinner sailboat cruise watching the sun go down in the ocean with dolphins jumping off Santa Barbara, California.

Let me help make 2015 a wonderful year for you and treat you like the Queen of Sheba and become my Bride, or Significant other, fall in love, and TELL THE WORLD-- "I AM TAKEN while we listen to the song of the late Whitney Houston---I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU".
You should message me if
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You want to be treated like a Queen with much affection by a man with a listening and caring heart, and become my BRIDE, Soul Mate, Significent other, Romantic Lover, Special Angel, Best friend, and FALL IN LOVE.

I pray a blessing on every lady who views my profile to be granted her heart's desire for the perfect soul mate per the promise of Psalms 20:4. The Lord's delays are not His denials but testing or the perfect mate is not ready.

Proverbs 13:12 says: "Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when the desire comes, it is a tree of life." But one must seek the Lord first and all things will be added unto Him including mates IF it be His Will. Sometimes the Lord sets us aside to serve Him alone without a mate with a higher calling.

Psalms 37:4 says "Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desire of your heart." An Angel of the Lord brought Rebecca to Isaac as his bride in Genesis 24 and the Lord brought Eve to Adam.

Marriage represents "Christ and His Bride as a sacred covenant " with a 95% marital success rate( 75% divorce rate for the unsaved secular world which is most who post on OK Cupid ) for committed Christian couples

-----who are Born again and Baptized with the Holy Spirit/ take communion together and anoint each other with oil daily/ listen to worship music /lead the lost to Christ/ forgive each other daily per the Lord's prayer/ and make love often with complete loyalty as lifetime partners.

Perhaps we could meet for brunch at French creperie in Kansas City....or enjoy Brazilian cuisine at ?