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64 M Overland Park, KS

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 21–65
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Seek a beautiful lady to enjoy romantic dinners, sushi, traveling, outdoor activities including fishing/ canoeing / kayaking / Farmer's market at the River Quay/snow skiing /bicycling/horseback riding/ visiting wineries /driving jeeps in the mountains/ and attending music festivals---Blues/Blue Grass/Reggae/Zydecko.

It is time for me to smell the flowers as 2014 is one of the best professional years of my life, and I want to share the joy with someone special.

"If one sits quietly, a butterfly will land on his shoulder, but if pursued she will fly away--that is my philosophy in attracting a special lady"." Read the book" Men are From Mars and women from Venus" on dating to find the right match.

I reside in Kansas City( City of Fountains) which has Seville, Spain as a sister city and is rated as one of the most elegant cities in America with a high quality of life. We are known for world famous BBQ, professional sports, and Jazz/Blues music.

I have traveled across the world including Europe ,Israel, Club Meds in many islands, Hawaii, and Alaska, and lived in Dallas, San Francisco, New Orleans, Oklahoma City, and finally Santa Fe, New Mexico, but moved home to Kansas City to be closer to family. Our city is rated as one of the most romantic cities in America.
What I’m doing with my life
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Commercial finance is my profession as CEO of Kessler Capital ( MBA/ChFc, Kansas University alumni ), enjoy Blues/ Blue Grass/Reggae/ Zydecko/ and Salsa, play trumpet, am an avid fly fisherman, hunter for cuisine on which to dine ( archery / Muzzle loader ), kayak scenic Ozark streams including the Big Piney River five hours from Kansas City, horseback ride along the scenic Current and Buffalo Rivers in the Ozarks taking pictures of elk, snow ski , explore wineries near Hermann, Missouri, dance Salsa , play tennis in the summer league at the country club Plaza, watch professional football ( Kansas City Chiefs) or basketball ( KU alumni ), and hike/bike along Indian Creek.

Travel often to the scenic Boston Mountains around Eureka Springs, Arkansas for relaxation and scenery. Last summer I shattered my arm in a tennis tournament with surgery required with plates/pins and could not travel due to pain, but now much better and can travel.
I’m really good at
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Making a lady reach with the zenith of ecstasy in love making in the jacuzzi, shower combined with oriental, tongue, and oil massage --- but want only ONE special lady. Heaven is waking up to her beautiful eyes to make love again.

And a man cannot crush a lady with love nor control her--he must grant her freedom to be herself and fulfill her mission in life--woman was created for man as a help mate.

One can have meaningless sex with anyone-- but true long lasting love with daily intimacy is my desire. A wedding is an announcement of a marriage that happened long before in the eyes of God.

The Special lady will be a diamond in the rough and worth the wait---- only her heart of compassion and dedication for me and the Lord is relevant

Her sweet calls will be the nectar of heaven as a gift from God--a Proverbs 31 woman of God is a blessing from the Lord and Proverbs 13:10 says "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor of the Lord !
The first things people usually notice about me
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Extrovert, giver and not a selfish taker, am relaxed, laid back, confident, patient, with a positive attitude and integrity and treats ladies with ultimate respect, compassion with the ability to comfort hurting people, and provide love and encouragement in time of sorrow.

Some guess me to be younger wearing designer jeans, leather jacket, straw cowboy hat from Santa Fe, elk boots, and driving a Jeep Grand Cherokee.

I am spiritual ( kind, loving, filled with grace, a friend to show the lost the Lord , forgiveness, faith, humility, freedom, blessings, and mercy) vs religious ( Guilt , shame, blame, legalistic, fear, intolerance, hate, curses, Jezebel, pride, meanness, and bondage based ), and a very good listener--one must look deep into a ladies eyes which are the window to her soul to understand her heart and help her to grow into the perfection of God and protect her emotionally, financially, spiritually, and physically.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Enjoy music with Cajun BBQ, sushi , seafood--but need a special lady to enjoy the latter and am a gourmet chef combined with the pool/ jacuzzi at my townhouse .

Romantic or action packed movies are my first love and want to attend the Kemper Performing Arts Center and Starlight theatre for concerts in 2014 and watch professional soccer.

My favorite movie may be "Jeremiah Johnson" due to my love for the outdoors and riding horses in the high country, but I love the TV program Touched by an ANGEL.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Loving a special beautiful lady , my wonderful family who are elderly folks( 92/91) residing in assisted living here in Kansas City and sister and her family in Houston, Texas, the Ozark mountain scenery, tennis, canoeing/ kayaking Ozark streams, staying fit at the gym, snow sking as I used to live close to Santa Fe at the base of Sandia Peaks ski resort ( skied Rocky mountains everywhere), cooking gourmet dinners, helping widows and orphans financially, and most importantly my daily prayer, study of the Bible, and listening to worship music ---- the Lord is the guiding light of my life and source of wisdom and success.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Passion, hope, falling in love, joy, success, positive vibes, vision for direction and wisdom, and happiness in life, and praying for others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Listening to Blues music at BBs Lawnside BBQ or Knuckleheads or watching Wizards Soccer games , dancing at the Power & Light District , or attending concerts at the Kauffman Arts Center or the Starlight theater .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a desire to love one special lady who is my best friend and companion for the rest of my life, and the yearnings of my heart can only be shared with her and the Lord together as it is HIM who brings couples together and the only glue that holds them together.

Marriage does not begin at the altar of man's "organized religion", but when the Lord puts two people together to make love like Adam and Eve .

A blue sapphire ring surrounded by diamonds is perhaps appropriate for second marriages , and my Yeshua ring (Jesus in Hebrew hand made in Jerusalem on a trip in 1985) might be shifted from the right to the left hand if the right lady arrives.

A pink rose might be given regularly for the rest of her life to remind tell her she is beautiful and much loved ( this is the practice of Mitt Romney for whom I voted).

Maybe we could elope on a pink sand beach in Eleuthra in the Caribbean Islands or at Bridal Falls at Telluride, Colorado. The ceremony would be blessed by a man of God who would hold us up every day in prayer.

Let me help make 2014 a wonderful year for you and treat you like the Queen of Sheba and become my Bride, Significant other, fall in love, and tell interested parties...I AM TAKEN.
You should message me if
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You want to be treated like a Queen with much affection, excellent communication combined with a listening and caring heart, and might become my BRIDE, Soul Mate, Significent other, Romantic Lover, Special Angel, Best friend, and FALL IN LOVE.

I pray a miracle for every lady who views my profile to be granted her heart's desire for the perfect mate per Psalms 20:4--- the Hand of God is a matchmaker-- but He can say yes/no/or wait for the perfect timing. He says she will be brought to me very soon.

Proverbs 13:12 says: "Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when the desire comes, it is a tree of life." Psalms 37: 4 says "Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desire of your heart"---(IF it conforms to His Will). An Angel of the Lord brought Rebecca to Isaac as his bride in Genesis 24 and the Lord brought Eve to Adam.

The secular divorce rate is 60% and only 5% of women over 45 remarry but 15 % for men 65 and up -- a fairyland dream . But the divorce rate is less than 5% for young couples who study the Bible, pray, partake in communion daily, and worship the Lord in church together ( Hebrews 13:4 ) with daily love making.

My prayer is a christian lady will find me , and the Lord grant me peace in singlehood to grow into the best man to love her.

My heart's desire is to dine at her favorite restaurant and listen on the way to the song of the late Whitney Houston--" I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU"

With Love !