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bruiser2347

30 M Claymont, DE

My Details

Last Online
Jul 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My take:

I'm a good, genuine guy who is currently looking to meet someone funny, motivated, and open to new/different experiences. I stay pretty active and aim to maintain good overall health and fitness. On my "I'm looking for" section, I listed "new friends", "long-term dating", "short-term dating", and even "casual sex". This is not because I don't know what I want; it's because I know what I want, long-term, short-term, right this second, and if I make friends along the way, that's cool too. I know that most people don't believe that, as a guy, you can be serious about wanting a long-term relationship, if you're ok with casual sex, but I have my physical needs and I am single right now so consider that. That does not mean I am going to just have sex with a bunch of people, but it just means I am open to something casual/Fwb/nsa. Ultimately, I really want a serious relationship more than anything and I am definitely ready for that commitment, but I don't want to rush anything or make anyone else feel rushed. I am wired more for commited relationships than casual ones.

A bit about me

I have a real strong will that sometimes comes off as plain stubborn
I am a strong believer that the things you want you have to earn
The bonds I have with my fam and friends are important to me
And this nice guy is anything but a doormat...oh, you'll see
I've got a caring and giving heart...I am just wired to feel
When I express my feelings have no doubt I'm being real
I'm also a big goofball...what is life if you can't have some fun
And when it comes to commitment, I'm not the type to run
I stay pretty active and enjoy the strengths I've been given
Also, it should come as no surprise I'm quite physically driven
I appreciate the arts and the creative minds involved
And I am patient when making sure problems are resolved
Though I am thoughtful and respectful, there's still alot of fight
Because I'm one who has no problem standing up for what's right
Life is hard, so smiling is my favorite way to spend free time
I feel laughter's been the best way to connect us throughout time
So, this is my about me...I hope the right person sees value
And I will try my very best to keep an eye out for you

What my friends say about me: These are the most common things I hear from my friends in reference to my personality and how I do things.

"You're a dork"
"You're Weird"
"Please put something on that burger"
"You need to find someone more secure"
"You need to find someone more like you"
"You explain things way too much"
"You overthink things"
"I trust you"
"You're the best guy I know"
"You're the only person who seems to understand"
"You're so confusing"
"Really? I wouldn't have thought you'd like that"
"You're too nice"
"You're sooooo stubborn"
"You're so patient"
"What is the answer to this?"
"How should I handle this situation?"
"You're crazy!"
"How'd you do that?"
What I’m doing with my life
I am a certified pedorthist, and also do personal training on the side, I am going back to school for physical therapy(after, originally, going to school for electronics engineering for a couple years). My main focus right now is setting myself up for the future and that HAS TO BE OK with whoever walks into my life or I bring into my life, because I want to be a boyfriend that can do special things fOr and have memorable adventures with my girlfriend, eventually a husband that helps his wife to feel secure, cared for, and comfortable, and if there are kids at any point, be able to provide them with whatever they need and be a great father like mine. In the past, going back to school and pursuing better paying jobs have caused people to feel I am not putting them first and risking our relationship vs actually trying to create a better foundation for the future, so I sacrificed opportunities to try to preserve the relationships...NOT HAPPENING AGAIN. My heart is in a good place and I am not just thinking about getting to the point where I get married... I am worried about being stable for the future in general so I am a dependable partner/husband/father etc.
I’m really good at
I write poetry, draw, and I am good at most athletic activities. I could use a little work with tennis and volleyball, though.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, the fact that I'm a good guy, I take care of myself, I'm patient, and I'm positive
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: The richest man in Babylon and anything with poetry
Movies: Crash, The Last Samurai, Bad Boys II, The Whole Nine Yards, and Marvel Movies.
Show: Heroes, The Newsroom, Sons Of Anarchy, NCIS
Food: Chinese
Music: All types: Favorite songs are "Hands in the air" by 8 Ball, "Might Live On" by Big Gemini, "Thorn" by 8 Ball, "I Will Not Bow" by Breaking Benjamin, "King In Me" by David Ryan Harris, "You Gotta Be" by Desiree, "Alive And Kicking" by Nonpoint, "Are We All We Are" by Pink(yeah I said it), "Go Hard" by Nobody Famous, "Better Than Drugs" by Skillet, "Know When To Fold Em" by Kenny Rogers, "No Giving Up" by Crossfade...
The six things I could never do without
My family, my best friends, my sketchbook, my notebook, fresh air, my penis(sounds rididulous, but just think about it for a second)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I need to do to be successful in life....and "I'm hungry again."
On a typical Friday night I am
Just relaxing at home...or going to karaoke. I go out here and there. Just going with the flow on Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The movie "IT" still freaks me out.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You take decent care of yourself
You can make me laugh
You think we'd get along well,
If you are safe and sane, but know how to have fun
If you like being outside
if you like being active
If you like art, singing, or poetry
If there is some kind of physical activity you think we can enjoy together.
If you aren't afraid to be upfront about what you want...or you can be very honest about not being sure what you want yet. Trust me, if you say you want one thing and you Know you really want something else, it complicates things. If what you want changes at any point, just be upfront about it.