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53 Wuxi, China Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 22
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm living and working overseas, teaching at university in a city called Wuxi near Shanghai in China. There I teach various business courses.

I'm a relatively happy guy I believe that is largely due to my happiness is not dependent on a standard of living. I am completely free from the concept that "happiness and security = the middle-class lifestyle". I enjoy a comfortable but not overly cluttered life. One of my favorite indulgences is going dancing. Yes, at 53 I still love to go clubbing and shake my booty. So I stay in pretty good shape.
I think of myself as confident, not brash or rude, but having a strength of character. I spend alot of my life trying to better understand the big wide world and what makes it go, taking information from many sources to create a wholistic picture.

I find that many people make decisions based on fear - fear of failure, fear of looking foolish, fear of the future, fear of old age, fear of being hurt, etc. - and this is what stops many people from relaxing, having fun, and being adventurous. Adventure can be everyday by taking you out of your comfort zone and testing your limits.
Curiosity is one of my major motivating factors since you learn new things about the world as well as new things about yourself. Its one of the big reasons I started working in other countries. I've spent over 12 years of my life working overseas.

I like indoor fun as well as outdoor fun - who doesn't like beaches and mountains? I enjoy all the simple things and some of the expensive things in life. However, when it comes to owning stuff, I'm the ultra-minimalist. I adore art museums, theater, and dance. I love the ballet.
I'm not much for live music but I'm sure I would be more tolerable for the right person - especially if I can dance.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to be the best me I can be. For me, being normal is a failure of potential, one should at least try to have an extraordinary life.
As with everyone, I'm working and living somewhere on planet Earth - right now it is China. I usually visit the US in the summertime.
Of course, always seeking Truth and Enlightenment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at looking at complex and abstract phenomena and recognizing patterns. I learn things very quickly.
I've been told I'm a fairly good dancer, lots of practice.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Perhaps my energy and my personality. If you saw me on the dance floor, you would never guess my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read mags like The Economist and Scientific American, some books on philosophy, science, politics, law for fun maybe a Sci-fi novel. Sci-fi films and TV mostly since they sometimes stretch your imagination.
I like to stay current with what music I listen to, almost all the songs currently in my playlist are from the past year. I gravitate towards music you can dance to though.
I eat a wide variety of foods and am not a fan of strict dietary limits such as a vegetarian. We humans are omnivores after all.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Computer, Broadband, Hot showers, Meat, Dancing, New experiences - not in any particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The complexities of basic human interaction, the true nature of existence and the future.
When I will again be lucky enough to squeeze a woman's hand and have her squeeze back and to look into a woman's eyes and know she wants a kiss.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I used to fill my weekends with drinking and dancing, going to movies, art openings and cultural events (especially dance and theater) often but now I go much less since I have a very difficult time finding others to go with me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still love to dance ballet when no one can see me.
You should message me if
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If you are intrigued or amused. Especially if you love to go dancing!

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