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52 M Wuxi, China

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 9
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I usually live overseas, right now, in a city called Wuxi near Shanghai in China. Why? Read on.

Most people seek comfort and security and, in America, this comes in pretty much two flavors - suburban or countryside. I am looking for someone different who, like myself, walks a different path. This path requires that someone be (in various degrees) independent, forceful, brilliant, and adventurous. These four characteristics are what I strive to be myself and look for in a potential partner.

Independent – Seeking your path, not following one already developed by others. Able to have your own thoughts and ideas, not just following the latest media stream du jour. Creating a world where you are not dependent on others, especially financially, so you can relate to others as an equal. I'm big on equality - it just seems fair. .

Forceful – Able to stand up to others, to be a presence, not be weak, meek, feeble, or shy. Not brash or rude, but to have a strength of character. Be a leader when it is necessary. Be calm under stress. Confident.

Brilliant – Knowledgeable about a variety of topics, with actual facts, figures, dates or proper nomenclature. Not an expert, except perhaps in your profession, but a good working lay knowledge of other topics outside of your field. Well-versed in either science or culture or both. Not simply repeating the thoughts and ideas of others but also forming your own opinions.

Adventurous – Not simply seeking a life of comfort and security. Adventure is everyday, not just for vacations. It is taking you out of your comfort zone and eagerly confronting adversity since you would enjoy testing your limits. Curiosity being the main source of the desire for adventure since you learn new things about the world as well as new things about yourself.

If you are such a person, even if you are not interested in me romantically, I would love to get to know you.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to be the best me I can be. Normal is a failure of potential, trying to have an extraordinary life. One of the big reasons I live and work overseas.
Working and living somewhere on planet Earth - right now it is China. I usually visit the US in the summertime.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at looking at complex and abstract phenomena and recognizing patterns.
I've been told I'm a fairly good dancer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Perhaps my energy and my personality. If you saw me on the dance floor, you would never guess my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read mags like The Economist and Scientific American, some books on philosophy, science, politics, law for fun maybe a Sci-fi novel. Sci-fi films and TV mostly since they sometimes stretch your imagination. Alot of movies and TV are a bit too simplistic and predictable so I don't find them very entertaining.
I like to stay current with what music I listen to, almost all the songs currently in my playlist are from the past year. I gravitate towards music you can dance to though. I eat a wide variety of foods and am not a fan of strict dietary limits such as a vegetarian. We humans are omnivores after all.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Computer, Broadband, Hot showers, Meat, Exercise, New experiences - not in any particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The complexities of basic human interaction, the true nature of existence and the future.
When I will again be lucky enough to squeeze a woman's hand and have her squeeze back and to look into a woman's eyes and know she wants a kiss.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I used to be quite socially active but my friends got older, married, more settled. I used to go drinking and dancing, go to art openings and cultural events (especially dance and theater) often but now I go much less since I usually have to go by myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I still love to dance ballet when no one can see me.
You should message me if
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If you are intrigued or amused.