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49 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 20
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Not at all
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Working on it :). Will try to find a decent picture, too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am coming out of a 25 year marriage, and I am acutely aware of rebound issues, but I have to start somewhere. I am not looking for another long term relationship right away...on the other hand I am not sure I am capable of "casual", either. That's my reality, not going to hide it :).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people
Systems analysis and design
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, usually.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many to list here :).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Honesty/Openness
2. Integrity/Ethics
3. Innocence/Sense of Wonder
4. Imagination/Creativity
5. Passion/Desire
6. Intimacy/Connecting
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. I ponder and analyze everything.

For example, in the "I'm Looking For" section you have to check "long term dating" or "short term dating". Who the heck knows if their dating is going to end up being short term or long term (other than those looking for casual sex, which is covered in another checkbox)? ;)

Don't most people hope for a long term connection and reluctantly settle for short term explorations? Maybe 25 years is too long to be out of dating...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing something, but not drinking and partying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not as straightlaced as my demeanor would suggest :), but I am always a gentleman, even when I am being naughty.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I just got here and my life is changing quite a bit right now, you might want to wait a while :)...on the other hand, the Universe throws things at you when it wants to, and I don't want to shut the door; so if anything I wrote here resonates strongly enough...feel free to say hello.