*****Available does not mean I am a soulless freak looking for debauchery. I am primarily seeking friend-relationships with women (they just tend to make better friends for me). If you think we have something in common, please feel free to read further and message me :) *****

I will watch you from behind a book... or behind a lens... or across the table. I will talk to you about great things, while watching every move you make… in my mind deconstructing every action and every word.

I will love you in theory, but more than likely, I will not like you in reality… if you make it past that I will probably love you forever. I will stand up for you, against all odds... even if that means standing up for you against yourself.

A smile from a person in pain or anguish will make my day brighter than a person who has their whole life going for them.

I think my biggest mistakes are my most shining accomplishments… my most crippling weaknesses are also my greatest strengths

...because I learn from them.

I appreciate dissidence; I love veganism, political debates. I deviate from the norm... bend gender, sex, alternate the family norm and tip the scales between the balance. However, my ultimate goal in life is balance and fluidity.

From My Facebook Profile:
I like Art, Beer, Bicycling, Books, Cigars, Coffee, Comic Books, Creative Writing, Cuddles, Fantasy, Gender Studies/Activism, Horror, Kisses, Media/Media Studies, Music, Philosophy, Photography, Psychology, Sci-fi, Social Work, Sociology, Spirits, Spirituality, Tea, Veganism, Wine..

I am currently overexcited and underpaid working in social services as a case manager for youth. I love to take pictures of things, people and situations; I love to make the mundane beautiful, and the beautiful commonplace. I also love to read and write when I have time. I also contemplate and constantly draft my idea of the "New Great Global Novel" in my head... one day I will sit down and write it.

Being moved by writers like Quinn and Coelho... refining the rough draft that has been my self.

Being a "neo-renaissance" human. I like to learn as much as I can about as much as I can. I think I am good at pictures, writing and deconstructionism. I also think I have a pretty good grasp on how people can coexist in a post-modern era, w/o being just a bunch of voices at a table... one trying to yell the loudest to be heard.

My eyes... my smile. My sharp wit and impulse to deconstruct the situation.

Books: -Ishmael By Daniel Quinn, The Alchemist.
-(Indian Fiction) Arundhati Roy, Jhumpa Lahiri, Vikram Chandra,Bharati Mukherjee, Salman Rushdie. Kurt Vonnegut, John Irving, Jack Kerouak, William S. Burroughs, David Sedaris, Amy Sedaris, Nick Hornby

(Genres)Sociology, psychology, gender studies, media studies,politics, food politics. I also love Indian fiction. ..

Check out Goodreads and be my friend: http://www.goodreads.com/user/show/2753699

Movies: Amelie, Ma Vie en Rose, Love Me if you Dare, Almost anything by Tim Burton and David Lynch, Labyrinth, The Dark Crystal, Donnie Darko, Spirited Away, Princess Mononoke, Ghost World, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Shaun of the Dead, Hot Fuzz, Happenstance, High Fidelity, Dark City, Monsoon Wedding, But I'm a Cheerleader, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Serenity... and much much more!!

TV Shows: Angel, Battlestar Galactica, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Carnivale, Cartoons, Dollhouse, Firefly, Invader Zim, Millenium, Pee Wee's Playhouse, Quantum Leap, Six Feet Under, Star Trek: Enterprise & Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles..

Music: Ani Difranco, Tori Amos, Pj Harvey, Neko Case, Radiohead, The Fiery Furnaces, Andrew Bird, Rise Against, Vhs Or Beta.

I really like good anything: Indie, Hip Hop, Country, Classical, Jazz... yes even good crap-pop... You can always check out my last.fm and hit me up on there: http://www.last.fm/user/broush78

Vegan food is good food, nom nom nom.

My brain, heart, kidneys, liver, eyes and something to write with. :)

You name it... I probably do or have spent some time thinking about it.

<...> What, you aren't doing that on Friday? All the cool kids are!!!

That I am really hell-bent on world domination (Seriously, if you can't be open and silly, for the most part... go home).

See above... I respect openness, sincerity and a somewhat pleasant demeanor. I understand we all have our moments (and I will never hold you to some ideal); just be genuine and own it, whatever it is, and we will be fine.