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45 M Saint James, NY

My Details

Last Online
Apr 7
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Judaism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English, Lithuanian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
SJM, 5'11", outdoorsy, witty, playful, kind, clever, youthful, looking for a similar woman. Love to hike, cook, play music, country road trips, billards. Likes to fix things, comes with own set of tools. Give deep, awesome back massages, great dancer with many moves. Positive outlook, politically progressive.

Ready for a deep connection with the right woman. Creative/Academic/Outdoor types encouraged to apply. I enjoy teasing & banter with a smart girl, so bring it on!

PS I am currently clean-shaven.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to make every day count and be slightly better than the day before. Be there for friends, do a kind deed when I can.

Playing music whenever I can.
I’m really good at
anything I set my mind to. So far its, music, cooking, hiking, skiing, rollerblading, back massages, all things digital, taking care of dogs, kids, & friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes of deep azure, full-head of hair, athletic build, hearty laugh and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Zen & The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
Anything by Malcom Gladwell
Inside of a Dog
The Power of Now
The Matrix
Rock, Funk, Jazz & Reggae
All spicy food
Strangers with Candy
Reno 911
Frontline & Nova
The six things I could never do without
Funky Music
Close Friends
Great food
Inspiring Nature
Deep Books
Quirky Humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the state of the world. I have the feeling we are at a critical juncture.
"The fabric of democracy has been worn thin" really resonates with me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Meeting friends for dinner or drinks
Playing music
Going to see live music
Cooking us dinner
Starting a weekend roadtrip.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love dogs and kids and am not afraid to be silly with both.
I don't follow pro sports.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you think life was meant to be enjoyed. You enjoy the outdoors, love music, are sensuous, are fairly spontaneous, say Yes to life more often than you say No. You'd rather be happy than right and don't have lots of drama in your relationships.