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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 2
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Judaism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Likes dogs
English, Lithuanian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
SJM, 5'11", outdoorsy, witty, playful, kind, clever, youthful, looking for a similar woman. Love to hike, cook, play music, country road trips, billards. Likes to fix things, comes with own set of tools. Give deep, awesome back massages, great dancer with many moves. Positive outlook, politically progressive.

Ready for a deep connection with the right woman. Creative/Academic/Outdoor types encouraged to apply. I enjoy teasing & banter with a smart girl, so bring it on!

PS I am currently clean-shaven.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to make every day count and be slightly better than the day before. Be there for friends, do a kind deed when I can.

Playing music whenever I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
anything I set my mind to. So far its, music, cooking, hiking, skiing, rollerblading, back massages, all things digital, taking care of dogs, kids, & friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes of deep azure, full-head of hair, athletic build, hearty laugh and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Zen & The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
Anything by Malcom Gladwell
Inside of a Dog
The Power of Now
The Matrix
Rock, Funk, Jazz & Reggae
All spicy food
Strangers with Candy
Reno 911
Frontline & Nova
A Peoples History of the United States
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Funky Music
Conversation with close friends
Great food, wine, beer and coffee
Inspiring Nature
Deep Books
Well-seasonsed skillet
My new LG G2 ( > iPhone)

And perhaps you?
(And if you answered food, air, or water in this section, you're not really trying)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the state of the world. I have the feeling we are at a critical juncture.
"The fabric of democracy has been worn thin" really resonates with me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to see or play live music
Cooking us dinner
Starting a weekend roadtrip.
Catching the sunset
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love dogs and kids and am not afraid to be silly with both.
I don't follow pro sports.
You should message me if
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you think life was meant to be enjoyed. You enjoy the outdoors, love music, are sensuous, are fairly spontaneous, say Yes to life more often than you say No. You'd rather be happy than right and don't have lots of drama in your relationships.