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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:42am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I'm Ben, hello. I have a master's degree in Writing/Poetry from Sarah Lawrence College. I like movies, books, comics, music and other silliness. I'm just a silly guy that likes hanging out with nice people.

I am outgoing, funny, and creative
What I’m doing with my life
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Working a bit. Trying to keep up on my writing. Trying to find people to play in a band with. Hanging out.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, music, making people laugh, making myself laugh haha (look, I did it just there). There are some other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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How tall and/or skinny I am. It's silly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some favorite books: Ender's Game, A Sun Also Rises.Favorite Writers: Flannery O'Connor, Ernest Hemingway, William Faulkner, Vladimir Nabokov, Bret Easton Ellis, Hunter S. Thompson, George R. R. Martin, Joe Hill, Stephen King, Mark Yakich, Misty Harper, Mattea Harvey, Joshua Beckman, Neil Gaiman, Zachary Schomburg, Julie Doxsee, Aase Berg.

Comic Writers: Brian K. Vaughn, Mike Mignola, Joe Hill, Mark Millar, Robert Kirkman, Alan Moore, Frank Miller, Brian Michael Bendis, Jonathan Hickman, Brian Wood, Jeff LeMire, Scott Snyder, Mike Carey, Jamie DeLano, Joss Whedon (yes he writes comics).

Currently listening to: Swearin', all dogs, Hospitality, Pity Sex, PERFECT PUSSY, Sonic Youth, Land of Talk, Islands, FAWN, Stepdad, Arcade Fire, Old 97's, The Get-Up Kids, Why?, Nada Surf, LCD Soundsystem

Movie: Anything George Romero, Wes Anderson, John Carpenter, Tarantino, Terry Gilliam, tons of Sci-Fi, lots of horror (from campy to gory to actually amazing) most Gondry movies, Serenity.

TV Shows: Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Boardwalk Empire, Lost. I also like Californication and The Wire, White Collar, Boardwalk Empire, The Walking Dead. A lot of stuff that is no longer making new episodes such as: Firefly, Buffy, Futurama, Arrested Development. I watch a lot of cartoons too.

Food: I really like pizza, it's a curse I think. Lately I'd probably say Indian food is my favorite though, love it so much. I'll eat most types of food though. I'm not super picky and honestly I just like lots of types of food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books/Comics, my guitar or some sort of musical equipment, my friends, my family, my pets, and food (because I'd die)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the next chapter of my life has in store for me. When I get to travel again.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either at home with a pizza watching movies, with my friends at their place hanging out, or the bar with pals.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Umm I think girls with armpit hair are sexy. Its not a deal breaker in any way shape or form, but I am very attracted to that quality.
You should message me if
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You are interested in Movies/books/music/comics or any combination therein. Or, honestly, if you just think I'm funny and want to chat. I'm down with making friends or potential romantic interests, so I'm pretty open.