Dear Ladies,

 

  I am looking forward to having four days off over the Thanksgiving Day weekend. Both of my places of employment will be closed Thursday - Sunday. This will afford me the opportunity to meet a local lady. Are there any women out there that live close to me that would like to get together over the holiday weekend. Normally I work seven days a week, with the exception of last week when I requested Friday off to attend the City Horseshoe League banquet. I made it a point to attend because I received a 1st Place trophy for  the City Tournament - Division "B". Just as I thought they took my picture, hopefully it will be Emailed to me soon and I can post it on my profile. I'm hoping it will be better than all the photos that I took of myself.

 

  Back to the subject at hand. I'm going to have some time off from work soon and I would like to have the pleasure of a woman's company to help me past the time. Any takers?

 

Be Well,

Bstilwell

Dear Ladies,

 

  The only thing scary about Halloween to me is being alone. Autumn is upon us and winter is just around the corner and I have yet to find someone to snuggle with. Would any of you local ladies (Lincoln,NE) like to join me for a cup of hot cocoa? How about some hot cider and donuts?

 

Stay warm and dry!

Brian

Dear ladies,

  I finally got another job. I'm washing dishes at a college cafeteria. I'll be working four 9-hour split shifts a week. That is in addition to the 15-20 hours a week that I work driving a delivery truck.

 The extra money will allow me to buy a car soon, which, will enable me to expand my search radius looking for my soulmate. Now, if I only had the  some time to spare.

 I'm looking forward to working seven days a week. I've been running out of things to do to fill up my free time. Now I won't have any. At least not enough to go crazy with boredom.

 This job comes at a good time. My other part-time job may be phased out any day now. Now I don't have to worry about ending up jobless.

 Now I can afford to take some lucky lady out to dinner but, because of my schedule it will have to be on a Monday,Wednesday or a Saturday. Any takers?

Be Well,

B. Stilwell

Dear Ladies,

 

  I did it! I moved into a new place today. No more crazy landlord/housemate. Where I was before I was hesitant to invite anyone over because I was not sure what kind of a mood my housemate would be in. Now, once I get settled in, I'll be ready to invite a lday over for dinner (i'll do the cooking). If you're lucky. it will be you (I'm a good cook).

 

Truly,

Brian

 

Dear ladies,

 

Just when things were starting to go well my landlord/housemate goes spastic on me and gives me thirty days notice to vacate the premises, citing his feeling of a lack of privacy.  I honestly don't know where he comes up with this stuff. I usually leave the house before 9:00 am and don't get back until the evening. Often I go out again or just sequester myself down in the basement (my area). The only time that I might encounter him is when I'm using the kitchen and I usually don't use it until after he has retired to his room for the evening. Sunday is the only day that I spend any significant time in the house.

 

 Like I said, things were just staring to go well. I went and got my Food Handler's Permit and started  computer repair training program in order to beef-up my resume in preparation for the closing of the store that I'm working at. I've been enjoying playing horseshoes on the City league and I've made a few new friends there. I was also thinking of joining a bowling league but now everything is in flux again. This morning my landlord/housemate rescinded the thirty day notice he gave me (via voicemail) but, this is the second time that he's done it so I feel that I have no choice but to move out pre-emptively.

 

 If any of you ladies have a lead on an inexpensive studio apartment for rent in Lincoln, please contact me. That's my preference but I would consider another room-to-rent or apartment share.

Wish me luck,

Brian

Here it is again, the most depressing day of the year for me, Father's Day. Actually, Valentines Day I suffered from crushing deression because I did not have a special someone to hold in my arms. Also, last Christmas was a bit depressing because I spent it in a homeless shelter. Father's Day takes the cake though, no matter where I'm at or who I'm with for the last 30 + years Father's Day has been very depressing for me. In 1977 my dad died and I have never fathered any children so, for the longest time this day has meant nothing to me. Both the absence of my father, and of any offspring, make my heart ache. The former cannot be changed, as for the latter, stranger things have happened but my being 48 years old and single does not bode well for a happy outcome to the latter.

 

 I shouldn't complain though, with the exception of those 3 days I feel fine all year round. The thing that I need to concentrate on is not biting-off the head of anyone who unknowingly wishes me a "Happy Father's Day!" 

 

Be well,

B. Stilwell 

Dear ladies,

 

Long time no see. They have lowered the bar on this site and so, now my profile is 100% complete. Oh Yeah (heavy on the sarcasm)!!! All that I had to do in the last couple of days to flesh out my profile was comment on a forum and contribute a question for the matching aspect of this site.

 

Considering this good news, worth reporting, shows how dull my life has been lately. The only other thing that comes close to qualifying as good news in my world is the fact that FedEx called me to set-up a second interview. I'm not letting my hopes get too high though, I've been called in for at least a dozen second interviews and I still only have a part-time job. Wish me luck.

 

 I hope to see you soon (at least one of you).

 

Be Well,

Bstilwell

 

 

Dear ladies,

I have increased my range. I bought a second-hand mountain bike so know I can travel further without the time limitaions of the bus schedule. It may not be the greatest news to the casual observer but, it sure thrills the heck outta' me. I love my slightly increased mobility. My next goal is to save up enough money to buy a motorcycle, hopefully before next winter. Until then if there are any local (or nearly local) ladies that would like to go for a bike ride with me, do not hesitate to contact me.

Be well,
bstilwell

Dear ladies,

First I would like to apologize to any of you that went to Woody's bar looking for me (as if any of you did) the past few Monday nights. I haven't been there because I've been working until 5:00 or later. Since I've moved out toward Havelock I tend to be At Woody's earlier between 4-6 PM. That 's the "new" best itme to find me there.

Starting May12th (Thursday nights) you can find me at University park (on 48th St., just north of Holdredge) between 7-8:30 PM. That's when the horseshoe league starts. If any of you ladies are interested in joining then please give me a call at 402-326-6031 (cell) and I can put you in contact with the man that's running the show. The cost for the season is $25.00 and that includes your entry fee for the city tournament at the end of the year and the league banquet in, I believe, October. Contact me only if you are willing to commit to showing up every week.

Besides that I may also look into joining a disc golf league this summer. That's not definite yet. Well that's it for now. More later.

Be Well,
Bstilwell

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