Also, been getting a lot of repeats lately and if your gonna pop on my page a lot...say hello at least? Clearly something got your attention so just send me a message already!
Oh and lastly, if we talk on messages you stop then 3 months later reply back, I'll be nice but I get very quickly whatever plans you had just went south and your in damage control...thanks for letting me know I'm second choice*
I have read a lot of profiles where people say "they want to meet an honest guy" or "I wanna meet someone who is there for me" and then you probably go for that douche bag in the hipster hat who treats you like shit. Meanwhile a nice guy is sitting right here...
I'm pretty blunt and while the way I act and the things I say may in fact come off negative, I am more then likely in a sarcastic way making fun of a situation, I always think of myself as a viewer in this world and enjoy the show.
A big thing about me is trust, I get that lies are gonna happen but little ones that are minor are one thing, it's the big ones that cause damage and...I've been dinged around a lot in that department. So it takes me awhile to open up to someone to let my guard down. I'm friendly and nice and all but to get to know me you gotta settle in for a long haul.
While I get a lot of girls on here want the guy to message first, I'm surprisingly shy about it. I try my best to get over it, but ladies if your actually interested after reading this long rant of a profile I encourage you to message me. I don't wanna waste your time making you read a message you don't really wanna respond to. If you do catch my eye I'm going to make an attempt but I'm also kind of dumb at reading things, so even if its just a "hello how you doing" type of message I'll do my best to respond.