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bucklawrence

54 / M / Straight / Single

Middletown, New York

His Details

Last Online
Mar 30
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
College/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Polyamorous thirty-something soul in a fifty something body.
What I’m doing with my life
Travel a lot to my job in NYC, where I work in a construction office at WTC.
I’m really good at
I am getting better at being a good listener without judgement; a skill I am lately honing.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height, my ponytail, my gentle voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Stranger in a Strange Land, Jewel in the Lotus, any music I haven't heard before or that I grew up with in the 70's and 80's (still growing up, btw). The Fall (by Tarsem). Chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Family, cuddling, chocolate, Tantra, community, deep breathing and long draughts of clear water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Joy and how it can light up my life when I let it.
Sorrow and how quickly it can pass when given its time to be heard.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have no typical any-days. I might be composing a song or reading a self-help book, out on a date, or talking with a sweetie on the phone. I might be sleeping to catch up on my lack of sleep during the week!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
...is that I am willing to admit just about anything. My life has become an open book.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You're an adventurous soul.
You are not afraid of all that polyamory suggests (there are so many varieties - ask me what type I am...)