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buffy1392

28 / F / straight / Single

Jacksonville, Florida

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English, Spanish (Okay), Dutch (Poorly), French (Poorly), Sign_Language (Okay)

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I am caring, full of energy, and outgoing.

My Self-Summary

If you want to know anything about me then contact me. I definitely need a man that has enough courage to talk to me bc im not shy. I love spending time with friends and family. I like to go out and have fun and stay in once and a while and watch a movie. I know I don't have a lot of stuff written here but I like to get to know someone in person.
Ok, so I gave in and I'm going to write a little more :P
I am very outgoing and will talk to just about anybody. I am a teacher and I love my job! I really feel like I can do some good in this world through inspiring kids to have confidence in themselves and get them to have a love of learning. They make me smile even on my worst days. :)
I love to cook for people and I love having people over and playing entertainer. Whether its a pool party, playing board games or whatever else. It's always a good time. I love music and I couldn't live without it. I love to draw, paint and take photographs. I get along better with guys than girls. I have many guy friends and know how to chill out and don't get offended by foul language or jokes. I can handle myself well. Probably why guys say I'm a great girlfriend.
So I wanted a little honest help so I had my friends describe me and this is what they said: irreplaceable, indescribable, fun, loving, crazy (in a fun way), ecstatic, silly, wow!, effervescent, cute, self-sufficient and confident. Thanks for all of these and coming from the people that know me best, you can pretty much believe it :)

I love being around friends and family and people that truly care about me. I don't like fake people. The people that pretend to be nice.I also hate drama and games, so if you are into either of those things, stay far far away from me. I am 100% real and honest and would expect the same from anyone else.I believe if you are not honest from the get go, then karma will bite you in the butt. I am super nice and would do almost anything for the people I care about. I am loyal, and I love to cook for people.I am opinionated and blunt to a point, but not hurtful. I am a very trusting person and give people the benefit of the doubt until you give me a reason to not trust you. I have a great job, my own car and apartment. I am looking for a house, I just haven't found the right one yet. I have my head on straight and know what I want out of life. I don't settle for anything less. Honestly I am a pretty good catch. I am one of those rare women left that appreciate a nice guy. So if you are one then talk to me! Anything else you wanna know, just ask.

What I’m doing with my life

I have a great career as a kindergarten teacher:)

I’m really good at

art, cooking and teaching.

The first things people usually notice about me

my smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love horror movies. I would choose that over any other type. I also like comedies, action and dramas. The only movies I dont like are ones with no plot or too many subtitles.
I don't get to watch too much tv these days, but I am a sucker for those reality tv shows. Mindless television.
I spend a lot of the day reading because I teach. So normally I would rather be doing something else outside of work. Though I love those trivial fact books and will read them.
I like pretty much all types of music except techno, classical (my parents used to play this during homework:/)and screamo or hard rap.
I love many types of food. I am cajun so that is definitely my favorite type of food to cook and to eat.

The six things I could never do without

friends
family
fun
freedom
passion
teaching

I spend a lot of time thinking about

how these personality awards are given out? bc I am pretty open minded and that award saysi m not. stupid awards...lol
if anyone knows how to remove them, let me know

Also, I spend a lot of time thinking about how the male human brain works. Haven't mastered that yet :P

On a typical Friday night I am

out with friends at improv most likely

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

ask me

You should message me if

you like a nice independent women that knows what she wants out of life, has her head on straight but still has a feisty side. Just message me, don't be scared:)
I'm always hesitant about these online dating things. But I like to try new things and my friend put me up to it, so why not try. Right? Lets start with what I don't want and then move into the wants.
Don't wants: Guys in general seem to be confusing. The serious relationships I've been in the guys turn out to be wishy washy in the end or throughout which is exactly what I don't want. If you tend to lie a lot then save me the time and energy and don't message me. Also, several of my serious relationships have been with military guys and it tends to be a lot of heartache. So I'm sorry military boys, you need not email me either. I know they say that going by that stereotype is bad, but I'm not going by a stereotype. I'm going by my own personal experience with guys that said they are not like other military guys. I feel you should learn from your mistakes and that I am saying what I'm saying. And I'm sorry to those of you that take it the wrong way. After my last military relationship in which he went from totally in love to all of a sudden breaking up after waiting for him to get back from three months of underway. Then continued on to say I was a great girlfriend and I did nothing wrong. That was definitely the last straw. Because of all of this I don't feel I can date military men anymore.
On to the what I want in a guy:
I would like to find someone that is honest, non wishy washy, caring. Someone that likes to sometimes go out with friends and sometimes stay in and watch a movie. Someone that has a silly and a serious side and knows when to use them. Someone that will tell me whats on their mind, because I would do the same. Someone that likes to try new things. Someone that is not selfish but still can stand up for things that are important to him. A man that doesn't play games. If you like me then say so. If you want something or something bugs you then say it. I can't read minds but I am a great listener (people are amazed at the details I remember). So If this sounds like you then message me.