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37 New York, NY Man


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  • Ages 28–36
  • Near me
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Last online
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
More than $1,000,000
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Self summaries change as does everything but here are some qualities that describe me pretty well: Independent, loving, sensual, contemplative, mischievous, ambitious, passionate, even-tempered, non-conformist, inquisitive.

I have a very calm, centered personality for the most part though my smile is easily inspired and my sense of humor functions well with the right people. I am kind to everyone but I have no problem asserting myself. Sometimes I'm charming. I read too much about politics and world affairs on the internets.

In addition to being a professional bassist, I've lived a year and a half of my life in Spanish speaking countries and then taught high school Spanish in NC for two years. I like to travel to Spanish-speaking countries when I have time. Mexico fascinates me. All of Latin America, really.
BTW- Me encanta charlar en espanol asi que si quieres platicar mandame un mail!
What I’m doing with my life
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I put a lot of time and effort into becoming excellent at what I do (playing bass,and now, singing) and that takes up most of my day. I also have to have balance so I'll go swim or meditate. Sometimes I waste time on the internet- can't escape my dad's protestant work ethic. Most nights, I'm playing clubs private parties/whatever around town.

Growing and curiosity are central to who I am. Sometimes that means meditation retreats sometimes tango classes, anything that challenges the way I experience reality. Right now it's voice lessons. I'm working on singing lead while slapping the bass; not easy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music. Speaking Spanish. Kissing. Listening. Dancing. Parallel parking even though I don't have a car in the city. Fixing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm symmetrical.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books-usually non-fiction depending on what I'm into: trance and music, buddhism, alexander technique, psychology, politics. Right now I'm reading a book called "Flow; the psychology of optimal experience". Sometimes I read Spanish lit.

Movies- If I saw all the movies I wanted to see I'd never do anything else with my life. I'm into it though if I have a good companion; it's much more enjoyable to me that way. I loved the last Almodovar; really all his movies. Loved "The Science of Sleep". Just saw "Birdman" and loved it.

Music: Jazz or anything with good musicianship. To clarify: I appreciate people who can really play their instruments or have a rich palate composition-wise. Also, these days, anyone who can sing well and really connect. Stevie Wonder, Ray Charles, and Otis Redding for ex.
*Besides classical music, I need to hear Africa (by way of jazz, RnB,latin, etc.) in the music I listen to. Otherwise my soul is left feeling empty. I love hearing human beings make music together. Not a fan of EDM...

Food: Ethnic. I like it spicy but no ethnic restaurant will make its food spicy enough for me!
*This just in: I used to consider myself an adventurous eater but balut is too much. Seriously, ewww.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, family, affection, intellectual stimulation, trees, comedy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What does it all mean?! My career. Living in the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'd much rather go out on a Tuesday. Fridays I'm doing a gig.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wrote something earnest here once.
You should message me if
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You're warm, wise, and have a secure attachment style. That would be a good start.
You're liberated enough to message me first!