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35 M Oslo, Norway

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:17am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Norwegian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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When I imagine myself from a distance, I see a somewhat thoughtful, somewhat confused, self-declared geek, with some quirks, some sore spots, a fondness for elaborate puns, and a hopefully friendly kind of curiosity. When I move a bit closer, I see a person puzzled by the world: The overwhelming beauty, the contrasting, pleasant monotony. In other people, I'm attracted to those who show their passion easily. Particularly aestethic, intellectual, or political passions. The sort of people who can talk with such joy about books they have read, or music they have heard, or sights they have seen, it sounds as if they have a crush on the thing.

I'm not really looking for exclusivity or long-term commitment at the moment, but I do look for new people to connect with, maybe in a way that raises the pulse a little, raises the heat in the back of the head, makes a little tingle in the tips of fingers and toes.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have some free time these days, and I spend it trying to teach myself new things. I do some exercises in drawing, I'm listening to history podcasts, I'm downloading a video course about music appreciation. I'm a bit into computer games and cross-stitch embroidery. I read a lot. And most of all I write. Writing has been a passion since a was a child, and in the last couple of years, I have been somewhat getting the hang of it.
I’m really good at
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Putting things into words. There are exceptions, though, where I find myself nearly speechless.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My long hair and beard, I suppose. Or sometimes the way I put things into words.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: SF, fantasy, classics, non-fiction. Some favorite authors are Bing & Bringsværd, China Miéville, Neal Stephenson. Curious about Ursula K. Le Guin.

Movies and TV-series: Blade Runner, Buffy, Babylon 5, Battlestar Galactica... apparently things that begin with a B.

Food: Generally curious about food, there are certain limits, but in general what I most like is to try out foods I have never heard of before.

Music: Mostly I listen to classical channels on the radio. I like a lot of Russian composers, like Mussorgsky, Stravinsky, Shostakovich, but that might be because they all make rather picture-like music, easy to grasp. I want to broaden my musical horizon into more abstract classical music on one hand, and into more modern music on the other.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A certain control over what impressions I take in.
A certain amount of solitude.
At least a cup or two of coffee.
Somewhere to take down notes.
An e-book reader, and a selection of paper books, with fiction and non-fiction in the mix.
The twirping, twittering, chattering and schreeching of city birds outside my window.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Personal and interpersonal ethics. Emotional and relational skills. How to take my limitations seriously, and how to make my talents matter. How I can avoid repeating all the stupid mistakes of the past. Where I can get the courage to seek out exciting new mistakes in the future.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I say the Norwegian word for "buttocks" out of context, in an attempt to emulate childish humor. I have seen other people do this with some success. It doesn't seem like I can quite pull it off myself, though.
You should message me if
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You think I would be a good companion for exploring one anothers' interests, going for walks around the city, pointing out beautiful or interesting things for one another, or getting caught up in challenging and exciting conversations.

Or if you have visited my profile and hope that I am going to message you, but then don't want to wait while I gather up the courage.