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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 5:49am
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Norwegian (Fluently)
My self-summary
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When I imagine myself from a distance, I see a somewhat thoughtful, somewhat confused, self-declared geek, with some quirks, some sore spots, a fondness for elaborate puns, and a hopefully friendly kind of curiosity. When I move a bit closer, I see a person puzzled by the world: The overwhelming beauty, the contrasting, pleasant monotony. In other people, I'm attracted to those who show their passion easily. Particularly aestethic, intellectual, or political passions. The sort of people who can talk with such joy about books they have read, or music they have heard, or sights they have seen, it sounds as if they have a crush on the thing.

I'm not really looking for exclusivity or long-term commitment at the moment, but I do look for new people to connect with, maybe in a way that raises the pulse a little, raises the heat in the back of the head, makes a little tingle in the tips of fingers and toes.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have some free time these days, and I spend it trying to teach myself new things. I do some exercises in drawing, I'm listening to history podcasts, I'm downloading a video course about music appreciation. I'm a bit into computer games and cross-stitch embroidery. I read a lot. And most of all I write. Writing has been a passion since a was a child, and in the last couple of years, I have been somewhat getting the hang of it.
I’m really good at
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Putting things into words. There are exceptions, though. On some subjects, I frequently find myself speechless.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My long hair and beard, I suppose. Or sometimes the way I put things into words.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: SF, fantasy, non-fiction, and whatever catches my interest. Some favorite authors are Catherynne M. Valente, Bing & Bringsværd, China Miéville, Neal Stephenson. Curious about Ursula K. Le Guin.

Movies and TV-series: Blade Runner, Buffy, Babylon 5, Battlestar Galactica... apparently things that begin with a B. But add Gilmore Girls, American Beauty, When Harry met Sally, A Few Good Men, to things that have made an impression, and Back to the Future, Transformers: The Movie (from 1987), The Matrix, and Star Wars to things I've watched so many times my attention now drifts away if i try.

Food: Generally curious about food, and like the idea of foods I have never heard of before, or never really thought of as food before. Liking the idea don't always lead to action, though, I rarely take the initiative to seek it out. Of things I've actually tried, I like British foods, particularly those with boiled meat and thick gravy, Mexican food (though I try go easy on the heat because it burns my guts as well), and most things with sausage in it.

Music: Mostly I listen to classical channels on the radio. I like a lot of Russian composers, like Mussorgsky, Stravinsky, Shostakovich, but that might be because they all make rather picture-like music, easy to grasp. I want to broaden my musical horizon into more abstract classical music on one hand, and into more modern music on the other. I'll be happy for good tips.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A certain control over what impressions I take in.
A certain amount of solitude.
At least a cup or two of coffee.
Somewhere to take down notes.
An e-book reader, and a selection of paper books, with fiction and non-fiction in the mix.
The twirping, twittering, chattering and schreeching of city birds outside my window.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Personal and interpersonal ethics. Emotional and relational skills. How to take my limitations seriously, and how to make my talents matter. How I can avoid repeating all the stupid mistakes of the past. Where I can get the courage to seek out exciting new mistakes in the future.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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So, I'm a self-taught amateur cuckoo-clock imitator. When I see the clock reaching a whole hour, if I'm not in too public a place, I say "cuckoo" the appropriate number of times. And when I hear an actual cuckoo singing in the woods, I answer it eagerly. The embarassing thing is that I'm not a very reliable clock, I only manage to catch the whole hour a couple of times a day.

It's also a little bit embarassing to admit how excited I am to have come up with the phrase "amateur imitator".
You should message me if
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You think I would be a good companion for exploring one anothers' interests, going for walks around the city, pointing out beautiful or interesting things for one another, or getting caught up in challenging and exciting conversations.

You're in need of a not-too-reliable cuckoo-clock.

Or if you have visited my profile and hope that I am going to message you, but then don't want to wait while I gather up the courage.