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50 M La Jolla, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sarcastic, cynical, intelligent, soft-hearted, reliable, honest, funny, sensitive, artistic, literate, trustworthy and given to an overuse of platitudes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking after my son
Working on my third novel and fantasizing about my Pulitzer Prize
Reading books most people would find boring
Wasting time, except when I'm sleeping
Planning for the past.
Starting a diet and gaining five pounds the first week
Doing nothing - my specialty.
Thinking, but I'm trying to quit
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drinking coffee at Starbucks
Going from a clean kitchen to a dirty one in less than five minutes.
Procrastinating AND putting things off for another day.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This is a trick question. It reveals infinitely more about your self-image than what other people really notice.

It's not my smile because I don't go around with a stupid grin on my face.

I suppose it's that I'm tall, have a full head of hair, am slightly overweight (10 pounds or so), dress OK, and frequently wear mismatched socks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: Well it's sure not "Think and Grow Rich." I've been thinking all my life and I'm still not rich.
movies: Quentin Tarantino and Stanley Kubrick are my absolute favorites and I also like Woody Allen, except for all the violence.
shows: Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band - you're such a lovely audience we'd love to take you home with us.
music: Rap for the lovely melodies and Classic Rock, like Pink Floyd
food: If I were on Death Row to be executed in the morning, it sure wouldn't be tofu and lima beans. Gimme a cheeseburger, steak fries and a hot fudge sundae.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Why six?

Is that some kind of magic number?

- life, liberty and the pursuit of Cupid

- a new notion misconceived in the library and dedicated to the proposition that all not all women are created equal

- we hold this truth to be self-evident

- nothing but blood, sweat, toil and tears

- sugar in the morning, sugar in the evening and sugar at supper time

- The Collected Works of the Marquis de Sade (okay go freak out you literalist and humorless ones)

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where did the time go?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing nothing I'd feel guilty about in the morning - unfortunately.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People have trouble with this question because they associate the word "private" with something they are NOT willing to admit, which is perfectly logical.

The intent of the question is, "What is the most personal thing I am willing to admit?"

I guess my answer would be my age, which is why I lie about it constantly but did Jack Benny and Nancy Reagan and they were two of the biggest stars in Hollywood and Washington D.C.
You should message me if
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You love walks on the beach and have never left the state of Kansas.