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34 / M / Straight / Single

Banning, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
College/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly), Other

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My self-summary
A little shy but, trying to get over it..

Liberal-Pagan-Gay sympathizer with "Free-Thinking" tendencies.

"I yam what I yam." -Popeye

I love lamp.

Practical to a fault. Like, I only wears scarves when it's cold outside.. Uncultured but, worldly, I guess that makes me unhip... whatevs.. I'm flawed, what can I say?

Loving the life I have, and dreaming big. I like to find the humor in our humanity, and to make light of subjects that mean so much to some of us. I'm always working toward self-improvement. I try not to make excuses for myself or my behavior but, rather apologize and move forward or, better yet;.. laugh about it. :)

Art, music, word-smithery, and photography are the
things that interest and motivate me. I find myself drawn to the dark and macabre but, in an optimistic way y'know?

I find humor in almost everything... I don't like theatrics or
mind-games. I'm somewhat old-fashioned; I like to open doors for people, bring flowers, say please and thank you, etc...

I've been told quite a few times that I'm an "old soul". I don't
believe that chivalry is dead.. whatever that means.

I'm not a "label wearer", (not easy to classify).. I reject conformity... I consider myself a 'rationalist', I appreciate repeatable results.
What I’m doing with my life
Exploring the human condition.

Learning to love every moment; large and small and in-between.

Cooking, laundry, cleaning house, helping with homework, etc. I'm a hands-on dad and that dominates most of my time.
I would like to unleash some well-adjusted human beings on the
world so, being a dad is priority one.
I’m really good at
Putting my foot in my mouth. I whistle fairly well. I'm quick on
the uptake. I'm a good driver (seriously, no tickets or
accidents).

I cook almost every day, I rarely get any complaints.

Mixing audio.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height and probably my earrings. I'm also rather shy, usually referred to as "the quiet guy" whenever I'm in a social setting (although that has improved). Maybe my lack of social grace or my good manners, I don't really know what other people notice about me and I'm not vain enough to ask.... does make you wonder though.

lately, I'd be willing to bet that it's my beard/moustache..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like all that stuff you like and probably some stuff you don't...
the things I enjoy are just amusements, they do not define
me..

With that caveat in mind: I am an avid reader, movie aficionado ,
music lover, and also a budget gourmet.

Some favorite movies: Sunshine Cleaning, I Heart Huckabees, Eternal Sunshine.., A Scanner Darkly, Fight Club, Natural Born Killers, Wes Anderson, Garden State, Kevin Smith Movies, Adam Sandler Films, classic and new horror flicks... this list could become ridiculous so, I'll stop there.

I love music almost as much as I love my kids.. Some favorite music: Foo Fighters. The Avett Brothers, NIN, Tool, The Black Eyed Peas, Coldplay, Regina Spektor, Industrial and E.B.M., Die Antwoord, Classic Rock, Frank Black and the Pixies, big band stuff, swing and even some classical... just like my movie list, I could go on and on, suffice to say my taste is eclectic.

Food?, I'm not picky... seriously, I love to eat :)

Anything that sparks my interest.. lately that's philosophy
(including George Carlin) and books about evolution. Science Fiction too... Books are awesome.

And Reddit.. I probably shouldn't have added this as an afterthought, as I spend quite a lot of my free time there.
The six things I could never do without
Lately I find I've become kind of attached to my i-pod and computer
but, I could easily live without them.

I'm far more interested in other human beings than I am with
"stuff".
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the universe, everything...

Self improvement.

What motivates people to do the things they do? What motivates me to do the things I do?

I sometimes ponder the usefulness of my own existence in relation to my association with others (friends, family, total strangers, inanimate objects, animals, etc.).

I often wonder whether I am enriching the lives of those around me or if mine is a passing influence, forgotten moments later...
Improving the lives of others..... I've been told on more than one
occasion that I think too much :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Home alone watching a movie or surfing the internet. Possibly visiting with friends. I'm not into the club or bar scene unless I'm working there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I've looked at your profile a lot, it's probably because you're an awesomely righteous human being..Sometimes I'm completely oblivious...

I'm not a sports fan.. I know that seems strange to a lot of you but, I just wasn't brought up to give a shit about sports.

I'm mostly guileless but, don't underestimate me either.

I'm not always 'sunshine and rainbows' but, I do try to look on the bright side of life (as it were)...

Privacy on the internet... lol :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
If you think I might be the man for you.

You want to discuss the meaning of life or if you have a good story idea, if you find the idea of communicating with me intriguing.

You are interested in commitment but, not hell-bent on getting married.

If, by chance I contacted you already and made an ass of myself
then, I would like to take this moment to apologize
profusely...