Pleasantly surprise me with a nice message, it'll make my day!
Sorry if I don't message you back for a while. Life gets in the way of life, and I'm currently in an open relationship with a wonderful person. I'm mostly looking for new friends, climbing partners, awesome people to have coffee, tea, and beers with, and ethical sluts to have safe and consensual queer sex and/or kinky with.
I'm a fan of reclaiming words, like slut.
I often use "bad" grammar and I bend words to their limits. Partially it's because of my family, partially it's because I think grammar is a class construct and can be really racist, and partially that is just how my brain works.
I really like rock climbing. I'm also afraid of heights, but I try not to let that stop me. (I have almost fallen off mountains a few times now.) I don't really like hanging out with really bro-y dudes though so sometimes I'm torn.
I hate hate hate hate watching sports on TV.
I love cooking and entertaining and fire pits and co-operative games and friendly gossiping and long walks.
I'm one of the world's worst gardeners, but that doesn't stop me from trying. I once grew the cutest little watermelon family. Last year I had too many tomatoes. Please take my tomatoes! It's sad to see them rot.
Smart people turn me on. Reading is sexy.
I like art, like, a lot. I occasionally make pretty things.
My ideal job would be making little thought-provoking, pretentious little computer games. Luckily, I get to do this a few times a year for fun.