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31 Madison, WI Genderqueer, Transfeminine, Androgynous, Gender Nonconforming

Genderqueer, Transfeminine, Androgynous, Gender Nonconforming

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  • Ages 21-41
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My details

Last online
Online now!
Queer, Bisexual
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Buddhism but it’s not important
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I want to drink deeply of the human experience, and so I do.

Making life better for queer and trans* people is a high priority for me. Prisoners should have access to books. Nature should be valued highly. Things should be built and created.

I have four chickens. I don't want to eat them.

Books books books! I read every chance I get, but I still blank when people ask me my favorite authors.

Despite my aggressively Irish skin, I've been spending a lot of time outside lately enjoying the weather and taming a garden and lawn.

Hi, I'm Stevie! I'm lovely, queer, and in the trans* spectrum. I like playing with rope. There used to be a section about "most private things" but that's gone now, and I believe being private about such things just marginalizes more people.

I'm looking for people
o.0 to rock climb, ice skate (in season), hike, be active with
0.o who can teach me new and shiny things
o.0 who are attracted to my sexy androgyny
0.o who changing the world for the better in their own small ways
o.0 to play games with -- like board games, not mind games
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
*I recently quit my corporate job to pursue my dream of making crosswords and word searches and knitting software. I'm in startup mode now!*

Nope, I just started a new consultant job. But! I'm planning on starting a Software Engineering / App Development Co-op. Interested? Please message me and we will talk. We need all sorts of people, writers, data people, designers, artists, and, oh yeah, talented engineers.

I want to start a multi-level marketing scheme that helps other people build multi-level marketing schemes. It's *not* a pyramid scheme, it's a scheme to help people build pyramids! Get in at the ground level, people! ** This is not true, I don't endorse this, scarcasm is a crap way to communicate **

I'm learning to build community by building community.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Do you like cats and/or video games? I made a game about a cat who needs to escape an island and/or rescue other cats. I'm probably one of the best people in the world at making games about cats trying to escape islands and rescue cats.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Kurt Vonnegut. Biographies. Patricia Wrede. Whatever someone lends to me or recommends me. Douglas Adams, Terry Pratchett, Neil Gaiman.

I don't eat a lot of meat (currently none). I eat ALL of the sushi.

Trashy pop and queer folk music.

Battlestar Galactica, Orange is the New Black, PuppyCat.

Hayao Miyazaki movies. Princess Mononoke may be the best movie ever.

There's a movie about an Iranian feminist skateboarding vampire that I really want to see.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee & Tea
Close physical contact (I'm a cuddle monster) (つ -‘ _ ‘- )つ HUUUUGGSS AND CUDDLESSS
A pile of good books (or my kindle)
Good gossip with friends while doing a shared activity like rock climbing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.


How to entertain people.

<3 Looooove <3 & ice cream.

Gender and sexuality.

How gender and sexuality are performed in our media and culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no typical Friday nights. Trying to keep up with Rugby women? Coding feverishly at home in comfy pajamas? Out in high heels because DAMN IT FEELS GOOD TO BE TALL? Maybe even upgrading a Wednesday date to a Friday date!
You should message me if
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^_^ you aren't trans*phobic, queerphobic, homophobic, racist, etc. or you are at least worrrking pretty damn hard not to be

._. you're an awesome person

'.' you like coffee and/or beer (burbon?) and want someone to talk to while you sip/slam it

*.* it's free! send me a message or your message back. You'll usually even get bonus messages!