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30 Madison, WI Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Transfeminine

Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Transfeminine

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:15am
Queer, Bisexual
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*I won't respond to you if you write me a message like "Hey, what's up" or if you are a jerk or if I'm just too busy.*

Pleasantly surprise me with a nice message, it'll make my day!

I'm Stevie! I'm a bisexual male-bodied lesbian-flexible non-cis poly queer person. My gender is complicated. I'm usually attracted to people who are queer more on the androgynous side of any gender. I'm currently in an open relationship with a wonderful person.

I'm mostly looking for new friends, climbing partners, awesome people to have coffee, tea, and beers with. I'm also interested in sex-positive people to have safe and consensual queer sex. Also also I'm interested in kinksters for happy kinky playtime.

I'm a fan of reclaiming words, like slut.

I often use "bad" grammar and I bend words to their limits. Partially it's because of my family, partially it's because I think grammar is a class construct and can be really racist, and partially that is just how my brain works.
I really like rock climbing. I'm also afraid of heights, but I try not to let that stop me. (I have almost fallen off mountains a few times now.) I don't really like hanging out with really bro-y dudes though so sometimes I'm torn.

I hate hate hate hate watching sports on TV.

I love cooking and entertaining and fire pits and co-operative games and friendly gossiping and long walks.

I'm one of the world's worst gardeners, but that doesn't stop me from trying. I once grew the cutest little watermelon family. Last year I had too many tomatoes. Please take my tomatoes! It's sad to see them rot.

Smart people turn me on. Reading is sexy.

I like art, like, a lot. I occasionally make pretty things.

My ideal job would be making little thought-provoking, pretentious little computer games. Luckily, I get to do this a few times a year for fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Generally being a huge nerd.

Learning how to actually *write* -- my brain is better at dealing with math so this is a challenge for me.

Working two jobs to save up money to re-start my business.

Climbing, eating ice cream, playing Mario Kart, cooking, building Legos, playing touch rugby (even if I don't know the rules).

Coding. I love fiddling with things and modifying things and seeing how things work. *poke poke*
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Over-scheduling my social life, then hiding from everyone for a few days.

Cuddling. I'm the best cuddler ever.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My long curly hair! Sometimes I really enjoy fucking with gender and I'll occasionally catch a surprised straight guy checking me out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Let's see, I'm really trying to trim this down.

I'm an Omnomnomivore. I enjoy vegetarian food and vegetarians, but I'm not one.

I love sushi, pizza, wine, coffee, tea.

Favorite authors:
Kurt Vonnegut
Terry Pratchett
David Sedaris
Neil Gaiman

Favorite childhood books (that I still read)
Where the Wild Things Are
Where the Red Fern Grows
The Hobbit
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy

Favorite Music:
Kate Nash / Lily Allen / Just Jack / other Brit Pop

I used to be a punk rocker in high school.

When I need a new music recommendation I go on Okc and find people with high match percentages and find bands they like that I haven't heard of yet.

Favorite Movies/TV:
Stupid comedies like Big Lebowski and Zoolander
Almost anything by Miyazaki
Firefly / Serenity
Star Wars
Battlestar Galactica
Foreign films like Amélie and Lucía y el Sexo
So many chick flicks like Notting Hill
Wes Anderson stuff like Life Aquatic and the Grand Budapest Hotel
Orange is the New Black
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hiking / mountaineering
Something to build
Queer friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to do next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Rock climbing and out for a drink with friends,
sometimes out dancing,
or just staying in with a shared bottle of wine and a good meal.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a kinky service switch.

I *really* don't understand men.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should not be homophobic, racist, sexist, slut-shaming, or generally a bad person. Please don't waste my time.

- You are queer friendly and/or enjoy talking about queer issues

- You don't mind if I take a while to respond

- You are interested in rock climbing, playing board games or computer games, general outdoor adventures

- You'd like to play :) you know, in the kinky sense. It does take me a bit to get to know someone. One-night stands aren't my thing