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I'm Stevie! I'm a bisexual male-bodied lesbian-flexible non-cis poly queer person. My gender is complicated. I'm usually attracted to people who are queer more on the androgynous side of any gender. I'm currently in an open relationship with a wonderful person.
I'm mostly looking for new friends, climbing partners, awesome people to have coffee, tea, and beers with. I'm also interested in sex-positive people to have safe and consensual queer sex. Also also I'm interested in kinksters for happy kinky playtime.
I'm a fan of reclaiming words, like slut.
I often use "bad" grammar and I bend words to their limits. Partially it's because of my family, partially it's because I think grammar is a class construct and can be really racist, and partially that is just how my brain works.
I really like rock climbing. I'm also afraid of heights, but I try not to let that stop me. (I have almost fallen off mountains a few times now.) I don't really like hanging out with really bro-y dudes though so sometimes I'm torn.
I hate hate hate hate watching sports on TV.
I love cooking and entertaining and fire pits and co-operative games and friendly gossiping and long walks.
I'm one of the world's worst gardeners, but that doesn't stop me from trying. I once grew the cutest little watermelon family. Last year I had too many tomatoes. Please take my tomatoes! It's sad to see them rot.
Smart people turn me on. Reading is sexy.
I like art, like, a lot. I occasionally make pretty things.
My ideal job would be making little thought-provoking, pretentious little computer games. Luckily, I get to do this a few times a year for fun.