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I’m looking for
- Ages 21–41
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 23
- Queer, Bisexual
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Buddhism, but not too serious about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Science / Engineering
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English, French (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly), C++ (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly)
Hi, I'm Stevie! I'm lovely, queer, and trans*.
I'm a kinkster. I'm a subby little brat and a sadistic but nice service top. Message me if you have questions or want to know the services I provide.
Making life better for queer and trans* people is a high priority for me.
I'm looking for people
o.0 to rock climb, ice skate, hike, be active with
0.o who can teach me new and shiny things
o.0 who are attracted to my sexy androgyny
0.o who changing the world for the better in their own small ways
o.0 to play games with
I'm rock climbing in the gym, going for blizzard hikes, and ice skating to survive the winter.
I want to start a multi-level marketing scheme that helps other people build multi-level marketing schemes. It's *not* a pyramid scheme, it's a scheme to help people build pyramids! Get in at the ground level, people!
I also help send books to prisoners. Come help!
I build community.
#17 out of 1365 in a recent contest. *ahh* so I'm kinda a big deal now. The secret is the internet loves cats.
I've got a killer Wisconsin accent.
I read something every night.
I don't eat a lot of meat. I eat ALL of the sushi.
Trashy pop and queer folk music.
I don't watch much T.V. these days, but I love Battlestar Galactica, Orange is the New Black, PuppyCat.
Close physical contact
A pile of good books
Good gossip with friends
How to entertain people.
Gender and sexuality.
How gender and sexuality are performed in our media and culture.
- Cudding and watching a movie
- Running around town in fabulous heels
- Suspended upside-down in rope
- Drinking bourbon while updating my OKC profile on a treadmill desk. What could possibly go wrong?
- Out wherever the rugby women are with the fabulous Lily, if she ever gets back from Brazil
:) You find me or my brain fuckworthy.
:) You want to send me Pusheen stickers on Facebook.
:) You want to play board, card, or video games.
:) You like stones and/or dicks.
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