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30 Madison, WI Genderqueer, Transfeminine, Androgynous, Gender Nonconforming

Genderqueer, Transfeminine, Androgynous, Gender Nonconforming

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:28am
Queer, Bisexual
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly), C++ (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
... may break my bones (or get me turned on) but mean words will probably cause me emotional turmoil, so let's be nice to each other.

Hi, I'm Stevie! I'm not cis or gender-conforming. I'm queer.

I have a dick which is sometimes a clit. I'm mostly lesbian-flexible -- I'm also attracted to cute guys. Androgyny is wonderful. I'm blunt about it so I don't waste your time. She/her or they/their or he/his, depending where I am. They/their pronouns always accepted and appreciated. <3
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Do you like cats and/or video games? I made a game about a cat who needs to escape an island and/or rescue other cats.

I recently quit my corporate job to pursue my dream of making crosswords and word searches and knitting software. So... now I work a lot for very little.

I'm rock climbing in the gym, going for blizzard hikes, and ice skating to survive the winter.

I also help send books to prisoners. You should too if you are interested!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The video game above was #17 out of 1365 in a recent contest. The trick is not actually talent like one might think, but rather making things about cats. Internet people love cats.

I've got a killer Wisconsin accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything by Ayn Rand. Especially the Harry Potter series by her.

I read something every night.

I don't eat a lot of meat.

I listen to trashy pop music and queer folk music.

I don't watch much T.V. Currently it's Battlestar Galactica, Orange is the New Black, PuppyCat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A pile of good books
My robot butler (don't worry, we're in an open relationship)
Loud coffee shop gossip with close friends and TMI (by TMI I mean butt sex)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

How to entertain.

I used to be a sub. It's hard to find a top in this town though, so I found a sub and am becoming a top. Theoretically I can then train them to top me and the cycle will be complete. Here's to exploring new things and being fluid! So I think about that a lot.

Oh! I'm on here to meet people, so I think about that. Here's what I'm looking for:

<3 wonderful genderqueer people to spend time with
<3 people who find me attractive and who find me attractive and want to explore the silliness and wonderfulness of our bodies together
<3 friends who want to climb, drink, play games, make ridiculous OKC profiles, or whatever else the cool kids are doing these days
<3 love
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In this weather? Hopefully cuddling and watching a movie. It's like -10 out there.

Working on a video game, climbing with my queer woman "bros", starting a new biz. How about this one? A wiki-based dating service where anyone can edit anyone's dating profile?!

Drinking bourbon while updating my OKC profile on a treadmill desk. What could possibly go wrong.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
:) You are queer- and trans-welcoming.
:) You find me or my brain fuckworthy.
:) You want to send me Pusheen stickers on Facebook.
:) You want to play board, card, or video games.
:) You like stones and/or dicks.