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butterandsalt

64 M Las Vegas, NV

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 49–60
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"The world is no longer a romantic place, some of its people are, there lies the promise..."
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9/10/14: 13 years of looking for that one who has healthy impatience, the look I need to recognize, who embraces the sentiments expressed in this profile (and has the self-confidence, heart and soul to execute). As each precious day passes, what an incredible loss not having her ("you") in my life. If you get it, reply invited; if it makes sense, the look and the words, I'll respond. It's a priority for me, but unwilling "to settle"; and you?
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Not looking for, nor interested in a mere warm body nor a mere dinner date; am looking for one to adore, to kiss on a park bench all afternoon, a friend who's totally open who I can trust and support. I enjoy the exchange of unsolicited hugs, glances, soulful kisses, and text messages in the early morning hour. I honor the verbal and written word, appreciate/honor the pledge of love, and embrace lessons of my past. I make no apology for wearing my heart on my sleeve. I want someone I can’t take my eyes off; I want to admire how her clothes fit, how her hand feels in mine, how her neck has a fragrance that beckons, how I see in her expression that she understands my admiration and is appreciative.

You honor your heart and your expressions of love, you long for the opportunity to have someone to love you, to be honest with you; when the need arises, to hold you, and every now and then, to be told you have a really nice (fill in the part!). You can envision a simple park bench as being the center of our world, you will amuse me by wearing that favorite dress I’ve always admired. You chuckle at the power you seem to have over me as you can’t help but notice my awe and admiration, but you accept it and use it to strengthen our relationship; yes, you know I’m respectful of your mind, your values, your past accomplishments and your ability to have survived your disappointments, you also are well aware your mere presence fills my mind and soul with excitement to touch you, to care for you. You have the strength and sensitivity and perspective when I’m open with you, to care for my heart and soul; you have the courage to expose yourself to me, to trust me with what you struggle with.

I do not live by what others tell me to expect from a relationship, I’ve taken the silence of time to understand what I want.

Hungry for you to make my words come alive other than in the fantasy of your mind; you have healthy impatience, and if you live a distance away, you realize that I'm not interested in a long distance relationship, but I'm not dismissive of you purely because of distance, so be careful what you wish for! You want something simple, someone to kick the leaves with, someone you know adores you, someone you can trust, someone you can dance with in the silence of time. And you want it yesterday. That's all I want. I do projects around Washington DC and San Francisco, so at any time you may find me in either place, or in Las Vegas, where I "rest" in between; but if I found you, I'd be there with you.

The stats: BA in Pol Science, BA in Speech & Dramatic Art, Masters in Journalism, JD Law, PhD Education; 40 years as an attorney (how is that possible?), divorced since 2001, miss having that favorite dress to see...
What I’m doing with my life
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Wondering, just wondering. Increasingly thinking "you" are someone who's had/having challenges, and knows what it's like to be disappointed, unfulfilled, has a fire to find that guy that will bring peace, tranquility, someone you trust with your eyes closed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Looking in the rear view mirror! I'm really good at understanding and feeling that without that special person in my life, it's like watching black & white tv...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Sense of humor, calm demeanor, that I look younger than my years; that my desires and feelings are heart felt and sincere, not merely words on papyrus or idle thoughts spoken to the wind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Yes, I have my favorites, but experience tells me that everything is better when shared with another, even if that process redefines my current taste in food, music or otherwise.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Cinnamon rolls with butter
2. Unsolicited hugs
3. Soulful kisses
4. Knowing glances
5. Buttered popcorn
6. Peaceful quiet at 2 am
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"you"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I could say something wonderful and inventive, but really, just filling a void...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm probably way too open and honest and sensitive for my own good; but that's me, for which I make no apology and will never change. My life is not perfect, I have a very long list of personal and professional accomplishments in the past, but what I really need and want now is a good friend who has no agenda or expectations from me other than to be a very good friend as I've tried to describe elsewhere in this profile. That IS the most private thing I'm willing to admit. Oh yes, and that I'm exhausted from looking for you, but I can't bring myself to stop.
You should message me if
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You have an honest desire to meet that best friend for the rest of your life; if you can manage your distractions to elevate the relationship; if you are capable of "reaching out"; and if you are capable of communicating and showing affection other than in the fantasy of your mind. I'm looking for a physical shell that instantly moves my mind, but also need a heart and soul that is open enough to be recognized. Chemistry, essential.