Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm independent, I know what I like/don't like, I speak my mind and
I can be stubborn at times, but I'm also pretty easy-going. I seem
to be made of a strange mix of opposing things. A little shy at
times but not at all shy in other settings, "normal" but not so
"vanilla", trusting but suspicious, naive and streetwise. I can be
too honest for my own good and I absolutely expect the same from my
partner. I won't bother with mind-games, playing them or being
I'm at that stage of my life when I can't be bothered with party
animals if I ever want to have a family of my own, so I'm looking
for someone who is not afraid of the idea of settling down and
I always seem to have some sort of project going in my life - it
ranges from rebuilding the front garden to getting immersed in a
new course. I'd love to learn Spanish but doing it online was a bit
of an ask - can anyone help please? :-)
UPDATE, June, 2013:
To all the sub/dom guys out there, let me clear this up before I
get any more of the very same questions. I'm pretty open-minded, I
enjoy sex, I'm very sensual and sexual, but in no way into or
looking for a sub/dom relationship. Being kinky is so much more of
an open area of endless possibilities then ONLY to be defined as a
sub or a dom. I detest to be labelled, especially as I can very
easily switch from a sweet and innocent, purring pussy cat to a
blood hungry, hunting lioness, depending on how and where the mood
takes me. So there. No more of the same questions, please.
Also, my apologies for not answering all emails, but I'll only
replay to guys who send a proper 1st message and I also feel we
might have some sort of a spark if we ever meet. One liners such as
"Hi, how r u?", will get you nowhere.
*Has making no effort ever worked for any of these guys...? -
ponders to herself.*
Anyhow. Good luck to all, I hope we all find what we're looking
UPDATE 2, July 2014
Back on the site for another go. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I might as well tell you guys from the outset that I'm a table
dancer. It's better if I get this out of the way so you can make up
your mind if you can handle me.
I'm quite a girl next door kind of girl though, down to earth and
not particularly high maintenance. I choose respect over diamonds,
I also do a bit of interpreting on the side and some mediation as a
volunteer and still trying to figure out what I should be when I
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Different hand craft arts, DIY. I've qualified as a potter in my
late teens, I haven't done any pottery ever since though. I'm still
quite artsy and good with my hands. *Stop smirking. You have a
dirty mind. Yes, you...
Being a bit childlike/silly at times.
Pretending to know what I'm doing at salsa class. (I got better at
it ever since. :-) )
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Calm, soft voice.
I'm pretty bubbly, well, most of the time. Let's face it, I'm a
woman so I'm allowed to change my mind and my mood from one minute
to another, no questions asked... ;-) :-P
And probably the fact that I don't particularly look like a
'proper' table dancer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What country to visit next.
What I should be when I grow up.
Where has the sun gone???
If I'm naughty enough during this lifetime (not nasty though...),
can I choose to step back on the reincarnation ladder and come back
as a pussy cat? Perhaps an eagle?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I may be working;
Staying at home and day/night-dreaming of changing the world;
Perhaps going out for a bit of salsa dancing;
Going with the flow...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm into the fetish scene. Yet once again, I'm not a sub. Nor am I
a dom. And if anyone else dare to ask again, I'll spank them VERY
You should message me if
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