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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–52
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 22
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Hungarian (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm independent, I know what I like/don't like, I speak my mind and I can be stubborn at times, but I'm also pretty easy-going. I seem to be made of a strange mix of opposing things. A little shy at times but not at all shy in other settings, "normal" but not so "vanilla", trusting but suspicious, naive and streetwise. I can be too honest for my own good and I absolutely expect the same from my partner. I won't bother with mind-games, playing them or being played.

I'm at that stage of my life when I can't really be bothered with party animals if I ever want to have a family of my own, so I'm looking for someone who is not entirely against the idea of settling down and having kids. I'm not sure it'll ever happen - I won't tear my hair out if it won't, yet I keep an open mind.

I always seem to have some sort of project going in my life - it ranges from rebuilding the front garden to getting immersed in a new course. I'd love to learn Spanish but doing it online was a bit of an ask - can anyone help please? :-)


UPDATE, June, 2013:

To all the sub/domme guys out there, let me clear this up before I get any more of the very same questions. I'm pretty open-minded, I enjoy sex, I'm very sensual and sexual, but in no way into or looking for a sub/domme relationship. Being kinky is so much more of an open area of endless possibilities then ONLY to be defined as a sub or a domme. I detest to be labelled, especially as I can very easily switch from a sweet and innocent, purring pussy cat to a blood hungry, hunting lioness, depending on how and where the mood takes me. So there. No more of the same questions, please.

Also, my apologies for not answering all emails, but I'll only replay to guys who send a proper 1st message and I also feel we might have some sort of a spark if we ever meet. One liners such as "Hi, how r u?", will get you nowhere.
*Has making no effort ever worked for any of these guys...? - ponders to herself.*

Anyhow. Good luck to all, I hope we all find what we're looking for.


UPDATE 2, March 2015

Not very active on here, but I'll keep an eye out for Prince Charming. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I might as well tell you guys from the outset that I'm a table dancer. It's better if I get this out of the way so you can make up your mind if you can handle me.
I'm quite a girl next door kind of girl though, down to earth and not particularly high maintenance. I choose respect over diamonds, any day.

I also do a bit of interpreting on the side plus some mediation as a volunteer and still trying to figure out what I should be when I grow up.

That said, this "growing up" part is gonna happen sooner rather than later - I'm looking into making that stitch from being a carefree tabledancer into a still not-so-serious something/someone. Something business related. I just hope i won't hate that dreaded office environment too much.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Different hand craft arts, DIY. I've qualified as a potter in my late teens, I haven't done any pottery ever since though. I'm still quite artsy and good with my hands. *Stop smirking. You have a dirty mind. Yes, you...
Being a bit childlike/silly at times.
Problem solving.
Procrastinating... :-/
Being late.
Pretending to know what I'm doing at salsa class. (I got better at it ever since. :-) )
Making last minute travel plans. There's nothing more exciting when - perhaps unexpectedly even to yourself - you book a plane ticket to a destination you'd never been!!!!
Growing orchids.
Healthy breakfast.
Standing up for justice.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Calm, soft voice. Oh. And my accent (I almost forgot about that....!)
I'm pretty bubbly, well, most of the time. Let's face it, I'm a woman so I'm allowed to change my mind and my mood from one minute to another, no questions asked... ;-) :-P
And probably the fact that I don't particularly look like a 'proper' table dancer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I really don't think this section is as important as most people seem to think it is. Yet, if you really wanna know - and perhaps not surprisingly - I have an eclectic taste when it comes to books, films, music.

Educational, funny, romantic... Whatever. Not so much into the scary, violent stuff though.

The last book I read was on trading shares.
All time favourite film is The Bucket List.
I tend to listen to BBC London or - on occasion - Magic radio while I drive.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What country to visit next.
What I should be when I grow up.
Where has the sun gone???
If I'm naughty enough during this lifetime (not nasty though...), can I choose to step back on the reincarnation ladder and come back as a pussy cat? Perhaps an eagle?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I may be working;
Staying at home and day/night-dreaming of changing the world;
Perhaps going out for a bit of salsa dancing;
Going with the flow...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm into the fetish scene. Yet once again, I'm not a sub. Nor am I a domme. And if anyone else dare to ask again, I'll spank them VERY hard! ;-)
You should message me if
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You think we might enhance each others' life, one way or another...