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31 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:02pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Might want kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
A story:
When we were little - I was 9, he was 8 - my brother took a nasty spill that split open his little baby knee after biking through one of his own homemade booby-traps. I panicked, carried him (barely) up 2 flights of stairs in my skinny little arms to our bathroom, and held his shaking hand while I cleaned that crazy bloody knee off and bandaged it up. Then I made him a grilled cheese sandwich (bc I was only 9!) and made jokes for the rest of the day about how much better his traps were than his bike skills in front of TMNT reruns. To this day, a grilled cheese sandwich is still his go-to comfort food. And, he knows that I'll carry him anywhere (or kill anything) if I have to. Truth be told, my little bro doesn't need much taking care of anymore, but you get it...

That's all to say: I care deeply for the people around me- I always have. I am brave, curiously good under pressure, good at holding hands and making people laugh, and making grilled cheese.

I work out a lot, eat well, and take care of my body. I'm very bright, grounded, and emotionally intelligent. I am direct, graceful, witty, and educated (formally and otherwise). I am socially nimble, fashionable, and kind. I am also very traditional in what I want my life to look like eventually. Right now, I'm pretty sure I've made some risky decisions I'm proud of that will all lead to the dreams I've got in my head. I want to make a home and a life with someone - raise responsible and generous children (if I go there at all?) and cultivate a passionate, reciprocal relationship. I want to grow into an exceptional caretaker. I have solid values.

I'm a lot of awesome things, packaged neatly. I am lucky for much of it but I have also worked very hard for the bits that I wasn't born with. I have faults - MANY. But, I do not downplay my attributes. Please do not confuse my confidence in who I am with a lack of humility. I am grateful for every day and everything I am and am not and conduct myself accordingly.

I'm looking for someone that isn't intimidated by sexy, confident, intelligent women who challenge them and everyone around her to be better and braver. Most of the time I know what I want, sometimes I do not and I would like a strong, confident, intelligent man to help me navigate both of those things.
I’m really good at
Getting lost. And, not in the fun "I'm in a new country and exploring" kind of way; in the "I live in Brooklyn and can't find Atlantic Avenue" kind of way. Which is lame (and mostly funny); but simply cannot be helped. Many have tried - apps, maps, pedestrians, friends actually picking me up at the subway station. I can STILL find a way to get lost - wrong exit, wrong's a tragic comedy in real time. I have 2 Ivy degrees!
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a lot of fun with a little whiskey in my glass...and a little "sugar in my bowl"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Better idea: other favorite things instead: cool dogs, good whiskey, incredible cinematography, dance parties, comedy (Colbert funny, not Ace Ventura "funny"), rock climbing, my brother, a *really* good run, dinner parties that start at 7 with 1 case of wine and 1 case of booze (for 10) and end in a pile of bone dry bottles and laughing drunk people gathered around a candlelit table, at 4 AM. On a Tuesday.
The six things I could never do without
good jokes. well-stocked kitchen. my running shoes. curiosity. beautiful heels. experiences that make me thankful.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have solo dance parties in my panties every time I get home from work. I loooove to jam out to good tunes when work day is done. Or also, all the time. Whenever possible
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 36–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
"Just do it"

O! I don't pay attention to the quick match...? If you would like to meet, then let's go for it! If you want to know if I'm interested, ask. (if you are at least 6', work out a lot, and are doing cool things with your life then I probably am).

I'm total game for something fun - the more physical the better. Surprise me!