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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 23
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Space camp
Might want kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
a story:

When we were little - I was 9, he was 8 - my brother took a nasty spill that split open his little baby knee after biking through one of his own homemade booby-traps. I panicked, carried him (barely) up 2 flights of stairs in my skinny little arms to our bathroom, and held his shaking hand while I cleaned that crazy bloody knee off and bandaged it up. Then I made him a grilled cheese sandwich and made jokes for the rest of the day about how much better his traps were than his bike skills in front of TMNT reruns. To this day, a grilled cheese sandwich is still his go-to comfort food. And, he knows that I'll carry him anywhere (or kill anything) if I have to. Truth be told, my little bro doesn't need much taking care of anymore, but you get it...

That's all to say: I care deeply for the people around me- I always have. I am brave, curiously good under pressure, good at holding hands, terrible at taking pictures and fabulous at making people laugh... I can be intense but have a penchant for being tender. I work hard to be good at the things I care about- from rock climbing to relationships.

Also, I make a seriously delicious grilled cheese (really).

And, I help run companies, am excited by the work I now get to do, and the people I have the intense and genuine pleasure of working with. It's hard, challenging, and 100% amazing.... Sort of like learning how to snowboard- except its way, waaaay funnier when I fall on my ass on the side of a mountain; and, no ones paying me to get back up.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Kicking its ass. And, being utterly humbled by it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting lost. And, not in the fun "I'm in a new country and exploring" kind of way; in the "I live in the east village and can't find 14th street" kind of way. Which is lame (and mostly funny); but simply cannot be helped. It is totally ridiculous.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I laugh a lot. Loud and throw-my-head back hard
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Thought provoking, or spectacular; or funny. I love anything that makes me smile. I love it more if it comes as a surprise
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Experiences that make me thankful.

Long, never ending dinner parties, surrounded by my besties and plenty of whiskey and food

Diving into the cool, clear waters of the Pacific

Biking through the mean streets of manhattan (so, also, my helmet)

Riding down the side of a mountain, fast, and feeling strong (again, helmet comes into play)

My helmets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Doing good things and being a better person. I'm on an endless journey to forge the best version of me that I can muster up.

Also, why am I so bad at chess? So, so bad....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out having the time of my life
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There's a lot of things I'm willing to admit...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You dig chicks who laugh a lot;

who are razor sharp on the outside and gooey and soft on the inside; AND you can keep the secret that I'm really all mush. I'm a badass in a boardroom.

you make your own rules. I will push you to break (many of) them. I'm a serial rule breaker