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buttersc

32 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Might want kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(Go USA !!!!!)

And now, a story:

When we were little - I was 9, he was 8 - my brother took a nasty spill that split open his little baby knee after biking through one of his own homemade booby-traps. I panicked, carried him (barely) up 2 flights of stairs in my skinny little arms to our bathroom, and held his shaking hand while I cleaned that crazy bloody knee off and bandaged it up. Then I made him a grilled cheese sandwich (bc I was only 9!) and made jokes for the rest of the day about how much better his traps were than his bike skills in front of TMNT reruns. To this day, a grilled cheese sandwich is still his go-to comfort food. And, he knows that I'll carry him anywhere (or kill anything) if I have to. Truth be told, my little bro doesn't need much taking care of anymore, but you get it...

That's all to say: I care deeply for the people around me- I always have. I am brave, curiously good under pressure, good at holding hands and making people laugh, and making grilled cheese.

I work out a lot (can we do this together?), eat well, and take care of my body. I'm very bright, grounded, and emotionally intelligent and the right guy for me is, too. I am direct, graceful, witty, and educated (formally and otherwise). I am socially nimble, fashionable, and kind. I am also very traditional in what I want my life to look like eventually. Right now, I'm pretty sure I've made some risky decisions I'm proud of that will all lead to the dreams I've got in my head (update: the answer is 'definitely yes!'). I want to make a home and a life with someone adventurous and vibrant and cultivate a wild and passionate relationship. I want to grow into an exceptional caretaker. I have solid values.

I'm a lot of interesting things, packaged neatly. I am lucky for much of it but I have also worked very hard for the bits that I wasn't born with. I have faults - MANY. But, I don't often downplay my attributes. My confidence in who I am is not a lack of humility. I am grateful for every day and everything I am, and am not, and not a single day passes that I don't stop and think about how good I've got it sometimes.

I challenge myself and everyone around me to be better and braver because I genuinely believe you can always try harder and become a more awesome version of you. Most of the time I know what I want, sometimes I do not. But I see potential in absolutely everything regardless.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Kicking its ass. Building relationships I love and am proud of. Building a company I love and am proud of (wanna know what we're cookin up?!)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting lost. And, not in the fun "I'm in a new country and exploring" kind of way; in the "I live in Brooklyn and can't find Atlantic Avenue" kind of way. Which is lame (and mostly funny); but simply cannot be helped. Eh, we all have a thing, right?!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a lot of fun with a little whiskey in my glass...and a little "sugar in my bowl"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Better idea: other favorite things instead: cool dogs, good whiskey, incredible cinematography, snowy mountains,dance parties, comedy, bike riding, toe tappin, rock climbing, my brother, a *really* good run, dinner parties that start at 7 with 1 case of wine and 1 case of booze (for 10) and end in a pile of bone dry bottles and laughing drunk people gathered around a candlelit table, at 4 AM. On a Tuesday.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good jokes. well-stocked kitchen. my running shoes. curiosity. beautiful heels. experiences that make me thankful. My bike. 7. All essential
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Am I making the right decision here?
What if I did this other thing instead?
Why am I so bad at chess? So bad....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Posing for selfies. Fistpumping in the meat packing. Practicing my splits on a stripper pole....(I do none of these....much)
Or more low key gigs like finishing up work reports, meeting friends, watching Star Trek reruns.

I also like to dance and eat and buy 20$ last minute tickets to whoevers givin them away. Chinese food makes me feisty and trigger happy on orbitz
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have solo dance parties whenever possible (best opportunities usually present themselves in elevators- whether I'm alone or not). Jamming out to a good tune is my favorite thing to do. I absolutely do not care where this happens :-)
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 32–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You dig chicks who laugh a lot.

You think life is fun and crazy and hard and awesome and you have cool stories. I'm an awesome listener.

I'm total game for something fun - I know of some secret manhattan gems and some not so secret brooklyn ones. Let's get jiggy wit it!