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buzzaz

41 / M / Straight / Single

Jersey City, New Jersey

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:22pm
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Urdu (Fluently), Hindi (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm told I'm a good kisser, & yes, she said "put it on your profile." I believe it's cuz I enjoy making out so much, that I don't rush anything else. Yet I wish not to overstate it..

If brevity is the essence of wit, does a brief summary say I'm funny?-)
What I’m doing with my life
Building things greater than myself, while continuing my studies into human development with MKP, NLP, & other conscious modalities. Career doesn't define me, & is a means of growth and resources to travel, & help others. (I'm a Product Manager at present, in SF, with an amazing startup aching to manifest.)
I’m really good at
Creative access, presence, & breath.. Deep Tissue Massage, sacred conscious-touch, & fostering community. Attuning to, connecting with, & witnessing those who know value. Following intuition in seeking out learning, and teaching/sharing/guiding/baring what true sharers of my time ask of me. Healing in various forms. Growing from experiences & lessons/movies/stories. Innovating novelty in nifty outcomes. Making connections across contexts. Playing Cupid. Preparing amazing concoctions, that include Indian food and conscious diet.. and dancing! (U ever seen a soul rocking to its own rhythm? I do! Do U?~)
The first things people usually notice about me
My energy, or my way of accommodating kindness, which -believe it or not- has been known to get in the way of getting the girl.. Why? Maybe cuz I want the girl to _get_ me?

Quoting an amazing response, from Sincilantro's profile:
"don't be fooled by my beauty—the light of my face comes from the candle of my spirit." -rumi
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Mathnavi - Rumi, The Prophet - Khalil Gibran, The Indian Life - Hermann Hesse, Crazy Wisdom - Wes Nisker, Celestine Prophecy - James Redfield, The Arabian Nights, Moth Smoke - Mohsin Hamid (a MUST READ), and a litany of amazing & eccentric titles that my closets & my past are littered with. Older books my process lead me through: The Bourne Supremacy (yes, pure Ludlum), Master of the Game (Sidney Sheldon), For Whom the Bell Tolls (+ any other book by Alistair McLean), Never Had A Spanner On Her (+ any book by James Leasor), and a number of journals I keep up with.

Movies, the stories of NOW: Gandhi, The Shawshank Redemption, the Star Wars saga, older classics like The Fountainhead (with Gary Cooper, and have you even _heard_ of the two Roman Holiday movies?-), The Party, The Message, The Doctor, Top Secret, The Notebook, Ferris Buellers Day Off.. Newer ones: Limitless, Matrix, Oceans 11+, Meet Joe Black, Sweet November..

Music: Mystical music that the heart feels compelled to move to. This traverses genres, but must have life in it. http://ZenergyMusic.net is a great example. Another would be Leonard Cohen, and another still would be the recording of Rumi's great work, The Mathnavi (The Artificial, the contrived, the made-up) by Syed Hossein Nasr.. Things I have created rank up there as well, just like the www.MedicineBuddhas.org jams that lead to live manifestation unfolding creation attuning calibration of inner illumination.. as we raise the vibration of our true-heart station!-}

Food: Anything I prepare, anything from the sea, mostly based on vegetables and ancient grains (i.e., preferably devoid of wheat and rice.) I have lived in a Zen monastery, but eggs, butter and yogurt (like sea food) aren't leaving my life, and neither are indian Paratha's, which I love making with creative variations..

Restaurants: SF or NYC? Or DC? I'll do SF: Chaya, Ryoko's, Pakwan, Taste of the Himalayas, (in San Francisco,) Moss Beach Distillery, Saturn Cafe and a few others down the coast all the way to Monterrey; and Afghan Kabob House, Turkish Kitchen and Handi (in NYC, where I am to be found every couple of months,) etc..
The six things I could never do without
Books. (Different kinds of books, which I often read only a few pages of, or choose to skim. I've finished less than 10% of all the books I've started in my life, which have been a LOT.)

Something to learn.

Spirituality. The ManKind Project - mkp.org was my first key..

Love, which I've always been about. Love to me is growing and changing, always for the better, as nothing ever remains the same.

Travel.. (I have Lived in 8 countries on 4 continents, and by the time I was 18, I'd lived in more than a dozen homes!! My dad was an Air Force fighter-pilot.

Technology! Imagine, with the Web in my life, I've re-connected & co-connected with friends the world over!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I consciously live in the present. I choose to live fully. This now we are here to experience matters more than any stories of pasts or expectations of futures. So, I value my presence, and consciously choose how to spend my time. Yes, that includes the Time-Roulette of OKC.

I used to daydream a lot as a kid. But as my spiritual and mystical journeys have matured, I find myself thinking less about the future, and more about effectiveness. I now act on my intention of living it up, & experiencing every infinite moment exploring novelty that presents itself. I find every woman to be amazing! That's novelty. Touch is amazing. I love so much, people around me enjoy themselves. Specially the women I date, because I really enjoy sensual touch..
On a typical Friday night I am
If not hanging out with friends, I'm reading or writing, which for a techno-junkie such as myself is synonymous with surfing the web, Blogging, FB/OK, or playing something that resonates to the beat of my soul!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On my own, one of my ever-present goals is to end every shower with a 60-second blast of cold water. With a partner, I need my oxytocyn through cuddle time or intimacy;~) given that, I'm up for anything.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
U love to travel.
You love your own company.
U dig sexy, witty, and smarts in a lean, clean & fun package. No one has time to waste. If you wish to meet up and see whether a hangout can lead to another, lets dispense with any pleasantries beyond the necessary coordination, and MEET. I haven't the time for email story-tellers, or those who need them. If you'd like references, let me know. I'll send a couple of URL's your way, or Linkedin, FB, etc.

U R both balanced and spontaneous, super cool and flaming hot, and care to face a mirror of the same. If you got it, you know it. U also know that only one who gets it can dare to say so, if they're got the ball(s) to back it up.