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My self-summary
I always find self-summaries difficult if only because it is difficult to balance humility with making yourself sound awesome. That being said, I am pretty awesome if you enjoy geeky/nerdy guys who are involved in a variety of media ventures while working in behavioral health and who value humor above almost every other attribute. If not then you will probably think I suck.

It should be mentioned that I have recently come to understand that I am what is apparently called a Relationship Anarchist which is, in short, someone who does not believe in traditional relationship restraints and instead values all relationships as equal whether it be friendship, family relationships, or romantic/sexual relationships. This does not mean I am just looking for a bunch of anonymous sex partners but it does mean that I am not interested in the traditional confines of a monogamous relationship. I prefer to let the relationship define itself by what it needs as opposed to putting it into a specific box or set of parameters. This also does not mean that I don't repsect other people's relationships. I am about full disclosure and honesty. So, obviously, if you aren't cool with this then you aren't going to be cool with me.
What I’m doing with my life
In addition to doing high needs case managment for a behavioral health provider, I am also a published author with four books on the shelves. I also write weekly game and film reviews for a website. I am a screenwriter with three independent movies made and I am writing and penciling a comic book sequel to one of those films. I also act in local films and webseries and I co-host a weekly podcast covering geek culture and media. And I host a pub quiz every week. I also do stand up comedy. What I don't do is sleep much.
I’m really good at
Listening and giving advice if it is requested.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't have any idea. I would like it to involve a chiseled physique and flowing locks of luxurious hair but both of those elude me so I will probably have to assume it is my piercing blue eyes or luscious dimples when I smile. Or, you know, something like that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This section is almost too daunting to take on...

Rather than specific books, I will list authors just because that is a more manageable list: Elmore Leonard, Gregory McDonald, Joe Hill, Douglas Adams, Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett, JK Rowling, George RR Martin, Stephen King, Dennis Lehane...the list goes on.

Movies: Guardians of the Galaxy,Better Off Dead, Fright Night, Serenity, Scott Pilgrim, Shaun of the Dead, Hot Fuzz, Princess Bride, Clerks, Star Wars, Pulp Fiction, Cabin in the Woods, the Town, Gone Baby Gone, Shutter Island, the Departed, Aliens, Fight Club, Fear of A Black Hat, Repo! The Genetic Opera, Poolhall Junkies, A Few Good Men, The Avengers, The Dark Knight...this one goes on forever as well.

TV: Mystery Science Theater 3000, Spaced, Doctor Who, Arrested Development, the League, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Archer, the Walking Dead, Sons of Anarchy, Dexter, How I Met Your Mother, the Big Bang Theory, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Firefly, the Shield, Justified, Breaking Bad, Frasier, Workaholics, the Glades, From Dusk Till Dawn, True Detective so on and so forth.

Music: Faith No More, Mr Bungle, Tomahawk, Stabbing Westward, the Dreaming, Chevelle, Innerparty System, Breath Carolina, His Statue Falls, NIN, Rollins Band, Its Alive, You Me at Six, Childish Gambino, Muse, Against Me!, M83, Grammatics, Los Campesinos!, Ludo, Morning Parade, Thrice, and lots and lots more
The six things I could never do without
My cats
my friends
the internet
video games
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Various creative projects I am involved in. Stand up comedy.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have no typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was almost killed in a roll over car accident in 2011 that completely realigned who I am and my priorities.
You should message me if
Anything I said sounds interesting to you or if we have a high match. As I mentioned above, I am not interested in exclusivity but I am all about making new friends and if those friendships become something more then great and if not then that is great too.