I enjoy travel and reading. Education has always been a high priority for me but I like to strike a balance between intellectual and visceral pursuits. I am equally happy reading a good book or surfing. While I love the physical experience of a tropical beach, I also crave the cultural stimulation of an urban setting. Luckily, I have friends in Hawaii and New York! Let's not forget Portland, though - the adventure/culture mix here is like a stay-cation every day.
So I guess I am looking for someone who can really enjoy the physical inspiration of outdoor adventure and follow up with a discussion about the physics or poetry of that adventure at happy hour.
Then there's the goofy part. Ideally we can pull this off without ever taking ourselves too seriously. None of it is worthwhile without humor and fun. I am a big fan of silliness and I like hanging out with kids. Did I mention my kids?
I adore my two sons but I try not to be an annoyingly over-doting parent. I exist very comfortably on an adult-to-adult level. But the other adult should be comfortable with my status as half-time dad.
I have been divorced for several years. That's significant because the experts say that it takes a couple years for all the dust to settle. I can say I feel pretty confident that the baggage has been organized and securely stowed. Moving forward, I have simultaneous feelings of eagerness and patience. I feel optimism for the future while being comfortable in the present.
I have recently been doing more adventure/activity and it feels fantastic. I'm excited to keep that going; and a few more good conversations would hit the spot. Good fun is always better when shared. I like being really engaged with someone - through conversation, activity, or just proximity.