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41 F Rockville, MD

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 30–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:07pm
5′ 2″ (1.58m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
English, Italian (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a lawyer who has been working as a mediator for most of my career. Before that I lived in France and Italy with stints in Switzerland. I was born in Brooklyn, went to college in California, and miss all of the above.
NOTE: my profile says that one of the things I am looking for is casual sex. This does NOT mean I will be receptive to vulgar or one-word messages. If you send me one, don't expect a response. Casual is the opposite of serious; it doesn't mean mindless.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My walk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books. I read a lot. Favorites from the past couple of years: Arcadia, Never Let Me Go, Netherland, We Need to Talk About Kevin, My Education, Americanah, Billy Lynn's Long Halftime Walk, My Salinger Year, and The Fault in Our Stars. My favorite book of this year so far was A Life in Men, which I loved. It made me sob -- full-on, body-wracking sobs. (Which I don't do often.) Even if it hadn't made me sob, I would have loved it. Right at this moment I am rereading a bunch of J.D. Salinger books and a short story collection called The Other Language. There is also a pile (part virtual, part physical) of half-read things. I'm a gigantic fan of John Irving, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Jeffrey Eugenides, and Frederick Reiken. I hate science fiction, except when I love it. I am always looking for book recommendations.
Music. Concerts I have seen in the past couple of years: Madonna, Greg Laswell, Foster the People, Feist, Imagine Dragons, Chris Pureka, and Jagwar Ma. I was sad to miss Gossip and Florence + the Machine. Others in my "recently played" list are TV on the Radio, Goldfrapp, Foxygen, We Are Twin, and Vampire Weekend (and a whole bunch of other stuff). Favorite recent discovery: Franz Ferdinand. I had a moment last year with Taylor Swift's latest. (Don't judge. Go listen.)
TV. Homeland, The Good Wife, Damages, Girls, The Wire, Mad Men, Nurse Jackie and Smash are some of my favorite TV shows. I just started watching House of Cards.
Movies. Reservoir Dogs, Amelie, The Descendants. I'm a big fan of horror movies.
Food. There is little I will not eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
My coffee
Honeycrisp apples
My books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Running. I started running more than two years ago and have now run some 5Ks, some 10Ks and similar distance races (5 miles, 8K), two 10-mile races and a half-marathon. My obsession waned a bit after the half-marathon, in part because I got injured, but I'm about to start training for a second which I hope to run in October -- and the only reason I say "I hope" instead of "I will" is because I think humility is underrated and to be highly valued. (And I keep getting injured. But I did that even before the running.....) If I can make it more than six months without a stint in physical therapy, I will probably train for a full.
Where the ducks go in the winter.