For some reason I attract straight married men, which always leaves me scratching my head. I'm open to any type of friendship with usually guys younger than myself.

I have a BA in Japanese language and minored in Music.

Currently, corporate trainer/facilitator at OHSU.

Also, Portland Opera chorus member- 11th season- woohoo! Falstaff is my next opera in May, 2013.

I'm a workaholic. I don't have time for much socializing , but I do get out when I can.

I travel a lot- usually 1 big vacation a year.

I'm always improving my keyboard and vocal skills. Classical music has dominated my life with piano, voice and acting. Singing in the opera combines all of my talent.

Making light of most anything

...is that I don't fit the 'gay'. I prefer gender'queer'....

Books- no time for books. However, I read lots of material for my profession and i compose tons of technical training documentation for adult learners.
Music - no hip/hop nor cunt'ry.
Food - I lived on a farm when I was younger so animals are meant to be eaten. As an adult I've taken this further and am now striving to eat a paleo- based diet- ie. grains/sugars are bad for humans while meat and veggies are best.
Movies - Ho hum- no time for movies either. But I really enjoy sci-fi.
Tv- I have limited basic cable!
Hulu.com - whatever seems mildly entertaining.

1: Basil Hayden - neat

2: Anniversario - on the rocks

3: Prosecco - before trenette, on the Mar Tirreno

4: Sauvignon Blanc from NZ

5: Mozart Requiem

6: Anything from Scarlatti.

How to stop thinking so much

Taking in the 6 things I can't live without

I have a portrait in my attic - looks quite a bit like Dorian Gray *wink*

You're queer,or gender-bend or, straight and gay-accepting, or gay-closet, discreet,or bi-questioning, etc will find a friend here.
Guys that require 'straight-acting' partners are most likely in denial and should probably stay away. ;)