I'm seeking to live up to the exhortations to "Know thyself" and "To thine own self be true." Fortunately, I'm an introvert which means I spend a fair bit of time in my head. I'm also keenly interested in other people and what they've learned from life. So I like people in small groups or one on one (though I can deal with larger numbers on a limited basis).
I'm a lifelong outsider who has learned to embrace the fringe while successfully passing for normal.
I have baggage but I've got most of it labeled and organized.
I am a believer & practitioner of non-monogamy (polyamory is a simple label) as well as kinkier things. One of my partners is on this site (mia_sarah) but she lives far away so I don't see her as often as I'd like. I still have time, energy, and things to offer in the event that I met someone else who felt that I might be a good match. These relationships are about growth and depth and connection more than slap and tickle but, I'm also open to lighter fare if there's great chemistry.
I am exploring, learning, and living and seek to surround myself with like minds. If you love to travel and have the means, I'm always open for a traveling companion.
By the way, my child is grown and gone. I'm not looking to be a parent to little children again.