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bzandria

23 F Lewisville, TX

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Administration
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Right now I mostly work and go to school. Not a whole lot else. So I'm super, duper, exciting.

I'm fairly artsy in that I love theatre and literature. I like to go to plays, and musicals are one of my favorite things. Because either you think life would be better if we broke out into song on occasion, or you're wrong.

I like to go out and have fun every once in a while, but honestly I'm quite the introvert (almost cripplingly so). So given the choice of bar/club or drinking at home with a few friends, I'd pick the latter.

Reading is one of my favorite pastimes and it's difficult to pin down my taste in books because it is ever-changing.

I primarily identify as pansexual, but that's only if someone makes me put my sexuality in a box. I believe that sexuality is more fluid than the little boxes in which we put it.

I'm pescetarian, meaning I'm a was a vegetarian too lazy not to eat sea creatures. However, I'm not one of those irritating vegetarian, "Meat is Murder", recruiters. I respect the fact that you eat meat if you respect the fact that I don't. I also don't have any problem with people eating meat around me. My personal dietary preferences shouldn't dictate anyone else's behaviors.

I'm incredibly anal retentive and like things done a certain way, this makes me seem really bossy but it's just who I am. So, I'm one of those people who corrects other people's grammar. I'm just polite enough to do the former under my breath. Along with the anal retentive thing, little things can get to me (like people not wearing matching socks, it makes my brain cry). Mostly just little idiosyncrasies. Though some can find them mildly off-putting. To add to this odd cocktail I'm also a tad socially awkward. I'm also very non-confrontational.

Attentiveness is a strong trait of mine. I'm a pretty good listener, and if I can't help you solve your problem I'll be there to help you cope. I'm compassionate and I'll do whatever I can to make you smile when you're down, or even just listen if you need to talk.

I’d like to be with someone who thinks I’m interesting. I’d like a significant other that thinks that, even though my hobbies and interests are a bit lame I’m fun to be around. Making me laugh, easy though it may be, is a must. I’m pretty vivacious (read, slightly odd) and they should be too. I want someone who can make life fun and enjoyable by just being themselves.

To learn more about me, or to just creep on me some more, feel free to follow me: http://bzan.tumblr.com/
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I currently attend UNT and am working towards a degree in Psychology with a minor in LGBT studies.

However, I'm not sure what I want to do with my degree.
I could go clinical, I could practice, I'd really like to be a college prof. I don't really know.

I also work part-time (just like 5ish hours short of full time, actually, in the off season) as a CSR at Sears Driving School.

Currently I'm sort of doing a polyamorous, sex-positive, thing.

What this means is that I'm much less inclined towards relationships and, especially, monogamy.

What I'd really like is to find my, ever elusive, primary. AKA that person to be my primary relationship while we both explore sexually.

Casual sex is great, but it's pretty empty when you know the person you're with doesn't give a shit who you are, just that you're there to fuck them. That's not really what I want. I actually want to know and be friends with the people I fuck. Weird, I know :3.

At this point in my life I'm really "exploring", for lack of a better term, my sexuality.

I very much enjoy sex, generally in a casual setting, and I'm currently enjoying exploring the aspects and limits of myself as a sexual being.

DISCLAIMER: However, this does NOT mean I am a "slut" or a "whore". I am sex-positive! It also doesn't mean that I essentially mount anything that moves. I'm still a person, albeit a very sexual one, with hopes and interests and desires and dreams. I appreciate casual sex, but that term doesn't necessarily mean one-night-stand to me. Also, it takes more than the mere mention of someone's genitals to get me into bed. So please be respectful. Openly admitting my enjoyment of sex shouldn't automatically open me up to a bevvy of lewd comments and aggressive sexual advances. Sex-positive =/= willing to go anytime, anywhere, with anyone.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading, laughing, sleeping (I'm champion napper), makeup application, my job, empathy, loyalty, going out of my way to make others feel lolved/special, other stuffs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My piercings, my make-up, my earrings, things of that nature I'd assume.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I love books by Christopher Moore, Terry Pratchett, Piers Anthony, A Lee Martinez, Robert Rankin, and Stephen King. Those are just the authors I read regularly enough to mention. I usually go through phases in my reading habits. For example I've finished (the existing) Terry Pratchett's Discword series, I've read all of Christopher Moore's books and not long ago I was working my way through the Xanth series. Right now I'm just reading a random assortment of books, by a random assortment of authors, I thought seemed cool.

Movies: I'm not that avid a movie watcher but I like a few. What Dreams May Come, Evil Dead I and II (I'm a sucker for wonderfully awful horror/sci-fi movies), RENT, Repo! The Genetic Opera, Cruel Intentions, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Chicago, Moulin Rouge, The Truman Show, Never Ending Story, Zoolander, West Side Story, Bird Cage and some others I guess.

Shows: Most of these are cancelled/done and I've seen the whole series. Adventure Time, My Little Pony (That's right, I'm a bit of a Brony), Archer, Regular Show, Supernatural, Party Down, Arrested Development, (a little bit of) Doctor Who, Golden Girls, Scrubs, Futurama, Dexter, Ugly Americans, Red Dwarf, New Adventures of Old Christine, Pushing Daisies, Dead Like Me, Firefly, Big Bang Theory, Parks and Recreation, and on and on...I guess I watch more shows than I thought.

Music: My music tastes are very weird, and consist mostly of soundtracks/showtunes. (Real bands first) Scissor Sisters, Panic! at the Disco, Mika, Tenacious D, Lady Gaga, Family Force 5, (a little Classic Rock) Gus n Roses, Queen, AC DC, Kiss, Def Leppard, Motley Crue, things of that nature.
(Soundtracks) RENT, Chicago, Little Shop of Horrors, Rocky Horror, Spring Awakening, Repo! The Genetic Opera, Zombie Prom, Legally Blonde the Musical, Cabaret, Jekyll and Hyde, Get Him to the Greek, Jennifer's Body, The Little Mermaid (Boradway version), In the Heights, West Side Story, 9 to 5, Evil Dead the Musical, Starship, Moulin Rouge, So many I can't even think of them all.

Food: I'm a sucker for fried fish, as well as fried shrimp. I love Mexican food and Chinese food. Macaroni and cheese is a fave. Peanutbutter and banana sandwiches are a fairly regular part of my diet. I eat a lot of fake meat/soy-based products, Boca burgers and Boca Chicken, soy hot dogs, etc. Guacamole is a weakness of mine. Pizza is always awesome. I love mint chocolate chip ice cream, and chocolate anything. As is apparent, I love food, omnomnom.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Books
2. My technological devices (Cell phone, laptop, internet, etc. I probably could do without them, I'd just get antsy)
3. Smokes (Though I don't smoke all that much. I just like to be prepared)
4. Diet Coke (It's a sickness)
5. A Job
6. Friends&Family (Last but not least, always gotta have that safety net)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, what I'm going to do with my life, my friends, my family, my pets, finding a significant other, food, work, and sexy times.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Possibly out with friends, more likely at home wishing I was out with people but too lazy to put pants on or find something productive to do. Now that I work so much I usually spend weekends sleeping and/or doing homework.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I creep on your profile and don't message you, chances are I was too shy to say hello. This applies especially to women, I'm not sure why but I don't know how to flirt with girls (or guys really for that matter, but especially girls).

I pretty much use my favorites list as a list of people I like, but am too shy to contact.

Also, I'm basically a crazy cat lady...but with pocket pets. I have three gerbils, and I coo/talk at them regularly enough for it to be weird. And as my age implies that I'm a grown-ass woman, this is often seen as odd. Generally when people learn this about me they assume I'm going to die alone, haha. To add to the crazy (like it needs any more added to it) I name my critters after Shakespearean characters. I also have a sweet little cat (just one, though!) that I love an unhealthy amount. I am aware of my insanity.
You should message me if
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-You want to do so.
-You think I'm interesting enough to read through my whole profile.
-We have stuff in common.
-You want to talk about books, plays, or musicals.

I'm not really looking for one night stands. That being said, I am looking for FwB type situations. However, the operate part of that phrase is Friends. I like to know a person at least a little. So messages instantly implying we should bone right now need not apply. This is not to say you should misconstrue your intentions, I just get a little sick of people assuming that me desiring casual sex automatically means I will fuck them, no questions asked.

Kinda makes me sound like an arrogant, narcissistic, dick. But I'm holding myself to my own standard of honesty and being up front with my intentions.

I'm not kidding, I'm a very sexual person who believes in unashamed expression of sexuality (as long as you're safe about it).

Also I'm looking for something a little more local, no offense if you live further away I just don't have a lot of time to travel around (wow, this being honest thing is making me sound like a bitch).

And please if you do message (which I know for me requires a lot of courage) have something to say. It's hard to move forward in a conversation that starts: "Hey, what's up?"

Thanks for reading!