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30 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Dropped out of space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
WARNING: This profile is WAY too freaking long. Just skip to the end maybe?

I'm nothing if not totally honest. Even if it works to my detriment. I'm quite comfortable being me so here goes, I hope you enjoy whatever the hell this thing may be. I'm going to lay this smorgasbord out in bullet points:

- Ron (that's me).
- See that Wolverine picture? My facial hair is permanently like that now.
- Middle child of 9 (I'M A GOOD SHARER PERSON GUY).
- I also have 1 bonus step-sister who is amazing. A welcome permanent addition to our clan :).
- Middle child of 9 continued: HOWEVER, I do not miss the fact that EVERYBODY KEPT STEALING MY SOCKS.
- Middle child of 9 continued again: My mother has told me she feels I'm the wisest of the children. I guess the middle child is typically associated as the diplomat. I think that describes my role in the family pretty well. The diplomatic clown (I added the clown in because if you met me you'd understand).
- Seriously, my family has meant everything to me my entire life. I'm the definition of family oriented.
- I'm half Argentinian. I have tons of extended family that live there.
- I'm the type of man that is comfortable taking the lead. I typically volunteer first when it comes to doing something in the public light. At times, I try to put myself in difficult situations where I am not comfortable. Sometimes it's important to take oneself out of his/her comfort zone in order to grow.
- Born and raised Texan without the conservative nonsense.
- I've spent 10 years in San Diego. I don't ever want to leave but sometimes I get seriously tempted to pickup and move to Japan.
- Japan is my favorite country.
- I drive stick shift. Some women think this says something about a mans personality. I just like having control of my car.
- My nephews and nieces call me "Uncle Ronnie". It's pretty cute. :)
- I'm actually 5'10. I don't fudge by a 2 or even 1 inch like most guys I'm told on this site. Have some self respect and dignity, man.
- I'd like to be contacted by aliens
- I'm a computer guy. I'm good with electronics. But, freaking hell, sometimes I hate dealing with them.
- I workout every single day. Call it therapy. I like to balance it between weights and rock climbing. However, I'm mostly into rock climbing. Love love love rock climbing.
- Realistic optimist: We all have our ups and downs, please do not be a negative nancy. I like happy people.. Or at the very least, someone who's got a positive mindset.
- I have an artistic side to me. I love writing and recording music.
- FOOTBALLLLLLLL! Dallas Cowboys football to be more specific!
- I am seriously competitive. Not with friends or family, but with random strangers, you bet. I love being among the best at whatever I do. If it's easy, it's not worth doing.
-I'm a passionate man. It's fun being me. Though, one can't be intense at all times. When out and about, with friends, or at work I have a fairly mellow demeanor.
- I prefer Box Socials over parties.
- Bullets are my only weakness!
- Some people are always trying to make things from scratch. I'm trying to find out what scratch is made of, and how to make things from it... (You're welcome, mind blown Internet lady)
- I'd like to compare my attitude towards life via a poem by Dylan Thomas. "Do not go gentle into that good night":

Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light

- I feel that life truly begins at the edge of your comfort zone.
- Oh yeah, My Myers-Briggs personality type is ENTP, if that means anything to you...
- Sometimes I really love really dark humor. A la Cyanide & Happiness :D
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as an IT Engineer and have been working my butt off in the last decade to ensure that I love what I do and that I am completely self sufficient in every way. Also, remember that exercising I mentioned above.

Along those lines I should mention that I'm training for the Tough Mudder in November. Gonna hit 30 in style.

***Stupid injuries update: pushed back to march.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Smelling pretty damn good...

At figuring things out. I have a very strategic mind. Anything that involves strategy and calculation. My mind craves a certain level of complexity when it comes to things I enjoy.

Also: Starcraft, Cat Eulogies, Charokee bicycle clap jumps, 4 kinds of things, and building purple fusion reactor pumps.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Close only counts in horse grenades.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My family
2. Good friends
3-6. Everything else I could do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Serious stuff: The mysteries of the universe and all that.

Flow State. It's such an addicting thing:

I fucking do fucking love science (not the Facebook page, I actually really appreciate science). But for now I'm going to present random thoughts regarding this site and just other somewhat related nonsensery (please not that most of these are intended to be light-hearted and not to be taken too seriously):

1. Saying your income is tacky as hell. Why is that even on there?
2. What is with all the girl mustache pictures? It is a creepy look. Pretty weird.
3. I would like to know what my percentages are against myself. I bet my enemy percent is pretty high..
4. Under offspring, it should say "Doesn't have kids, but wants them SOMEDAY". This crap makes you look crazy.
5. The
6. I've read some girls' profiles that say: You should message me if you're not intimidated by my beauty.
Ugh. Gross. Really??? The female equivalent to douchy frat guy painted in affliction.
7. Haha! This.
8. Why do so many women use this site to get instagram followers???
9. I'd say out of all the profiles I've seen, 99% (leaving 1% for error) of the women answered YES the question of "would you dump someone because they weren't good at sex". Hah, fascinating.
10. Is it considered rude to ask a lady if she wears colored contacts?
11. SPOT ON, AZIZ. SPOT ON. This is modern day dating at the core:
12. Why in the hell would anyone buy OKC A-List for anyone else on this site? It's like an even worse and needier ice breaker than buying a drink for a random girl at a bar.
13. Every girl in the world is a "foodie". Could someone define it for me? Honestly, who doesn't LOVE food?
14. Why in the world do women message or respond as if they're genuinely interested and then disappear after one or two messages. Seriously, please do not message or respond if you're a flake. It's a waste of both of our time and effort. Okay, tah!
15. I'm going to go ahead and say it. When a girl says "Message me if you're taller than me in heels" is exactly the same as a guy saying "Don't message me if you're fat". We all realize that right?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The same thing we do every night: TRY TO TAKE OVER THE WORLD.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
*I love video games, science fiction, anime, and football. Yep, I'm a guy and a dork. We all have our passions and quirks*

-When I was a child, I would repeatedly play the final fight scene in the teenage mutant ninja turtles movies' fight with the shredder and would mimic the fighting choreography move by move. I felt like such a badass...

-Also when I was 4, my favorite movie was Gremlins. I would ask my mom to put it on every day even though it scared the hell out of me. It would give me nightmares. But, I still watched it almost every day, hiding behind my couch... sucking my thumb as I peaked around the corner. Oh, the joys of childhood.
You should message me if
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Please do not stop by my profile and click the "like" button when you have no intention of responding to a message from me. Believe it or not, this is what the majority of serial likers do. I get that you feel it's the guys job to message first, just please don't bother when you really have no interest. It's kind of rude and time-wasting from my perspective.

Oh, and you're over 6 feet tall. I wanna still be able to wear heels and feel like a girl. PS. Don't ever ask me or expect me to wear heels. LOL kthx.

You're more than random San Diego party every night (everything in moderation, ya?). You are a genuinely good human being who wants to do more good than harm towards others. Please no gay haters and extreme religious. I'm all about dating wide variety of cultures and belief backgrounds, but extremism is pretty gross. Not cool.

Oh yeah, and a girl with confidence is a must. So no baggage please. Unlike southwest, BAGS DO NOT FLY FOR FREE!

Wait a second, who are we kidding. No girl ever messages first on this thing :)

If you don't respond to me, you have been forewarned. You're gonna go right on my DUNZO list. So, if you respond to me, all of your wildest dreams will come true.

***Oh and thank you for reading my novel of random thoughts. If you read this whole thing, kudos to you. Whether you like me or not, I appreciate you :)

******It has recently been brought to my attention that formal educational status is a deal breaker for many woman, so I will throw this out there for full transparency. No, I did not go to college. I am self taught in my career. If this is a deal breaker or a powerful negative to you, then we are, at the core, fundamentally different people. Once again, I thank you for reading my profile, but please move on. I wish you the very best of luck!