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37 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Nov 5, 2010
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish, French

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My self-summary
Me? Not much to say about me. I like to think I'm a bit of a freak hiding in my seemingly 'normal' life. =P I'm changing everyday. My friends just sort of pat me on the head in amusement generally. I'm sure they could give you a much clearer idea from the outside than I could from within. =P

Also important to note, I am in a polyamorous relationship with an incredible partner with whom I cohabitate, among other things. Hence the "available" as opposed to "single" status. I'm happy to make new friends, anything beyond that is open to negotiation.

I am open-minded, considerate, and playful
What I’m doing with my life
living it. hello?!

if you really want to read the babbling details, you can check out my livejournal.

I’m really good at
I'm a pretty good cook/baker. It's something I enjoy, and most of my experiments turn out well.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair probably. It's very curly, and these days it's getting long. It doesn't attract as much attention as when it was shaved, but still, probably what people notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hmm, off the top of my head, I'd have to say..

a - his dark materials trilogy, stranger in a strange land, cunt, everyday sacred, tao of pooh, a walk in the woods, the spiderwick chronicles, the beauty series

b - priscilla queen of the desert, secretary, princess bride, donnie darko, amelie, , garden state, harold & kumar go to white castle, chasing amy, saved!, dogma, swingers, d.e.b.s., princess mononoke

c - ani difranco, moxy fr�vous, utah phillips, great big sea, madeleine peyroux, indigo girls, they might be giants, wally pleasant, the chieftains, the eels, carbon leaf, orb, girlyman, eddie from ohio

d - mmn, fooood. In general, I love food. I'm kind of a geek about food, or what Alton Brown would call, "Good Eats". From a greasy spoon to a fancy restaurant, I have such appreciation for it. I love clean simple flavors, and complex arrangements that leave me guessing for ingredients. I love many ethnic cuisines as well as some basic "american" down home cooking. I frequently crave good BBQ. oh my yes. I think that probably is enough food babbling for now. :) If you have any questions, feel free to ask, I'm always happy to discuss.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
getting a new job. what to do if/when i grow up.
On a typical Friday night I am
"The same thing we do every night, Pinky.."

out with friends: grabbing a bite, gaming night, etc.
or at home, relaxing, watching a dvd, reading a book, catching up on sleep before a big weekend, or after a long work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
my name is erica, and i'm a fork smuggler.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 23–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you'd like to make me smile. =)