Mostly looking for fun with like-minded people. Activism, thoughtful conversations, hiking, camping, wild swimming, and kinky sex all come under the heading of 'fun' - but not necessarily all at the same time. I'm here to meet people for the following: hanging out, exploring, maybe slutting about a bit, and making honest connections with people - not necessarily romantic or sexual connections, although that's nice too. I like people all over the gender spectrum - 'gay' doesn't really cover it, but I do have a strong preference for other queers. Bonus points if you're kinky. I don't really have a physical type, but dapper butches are pretty much guaranteed to turn my head. Important qualities are kindness and intellectual curiosity. Independence is important - both my own and other people's. Sense of humour greatly appreciated, generally loudly and often indelicately.
I also love reading, decent pubs, bright red lipstick, polka-dot dresses, dancing, long words, fireworks (go-bang ones and metaphorical ones), big ideas, black eyeliner, tattoos, great hats, plants, wildlife watching, philosophising, art galleries, theatre, talking bollocks at 3am, skinny-dipping, bad jokes.
What kind of cheese talks to itself?