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38 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 11, 2014
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Doesn’t want kids
English, French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Scrappy, scruffy, snobby, silly. Ambitious, amiable, awkward, aloof.

I think OKCupid has a poor -- that is, normative -- idea of who I am. It keeps saying people are 'less pure' than me. I don't even know what that means and, at any rate, I very much doubt it is true.
What I’m doing with my life
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Pursuing a few artistic disciplines. Looking for love (or heartbreak). Enjoying New York and (as often as I can) the world at large.

But mostly, I expect, I'm making for decent comedy and mediocre melodrama.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've excelled at most things I've tried. I've tried too many things to be accomplished at any one of them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! vocabulary. Or maybe my nosering.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lit: Borges, Italo Calvino, Umberto Eco, Alan Moore
Films: Fellini, Bunuel, Derek Jarman, Peter Greenaway, Akira Kurosawa, Hayao Miyazaki, Fritz Lang (Pretentious-seeming, I know. I went to film school.)
TV: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Cowboy Bebop, FLCL
Music: David Bowie, T. Rex, Pixies, Nirvana, The Breeders, Bjork, PJ Harvey, Radiohead, Portishead, Aphex Twin, Mum, Ratatat, The Knife, The Yeah Yeah Yeahs
Food: Moules Frites, Margarita Pizzas with Prosciutto, Takoyaki and Sake, Manhattans with Brandied Cherries and other hopelessly bourgie fare
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot. laptop, my guitar, my ipod, a good book, a sketchbook, and single-malt scotch.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...aesthetics, sex and strange stories.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No... It's no good... it's gone now.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. have a superlative mind, an unusual imagination, an adventurous libido, or a big heart.

Or you're familiar with the authors I like and can make an apropos recommendation. It's been too long since a new book has really wowed me.