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30 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:32pm
5′ 5″ (1.66m)
Body type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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Originally from southeast Florida. College in the Blue Ridge of North Carolina. Eight years ago I came to Chicago for a 'brief' summer layover... and here I am. One year of Americorps, a few too many moves and lots of public transportation later -- I now call this city my home.

Quite outgoing. Sometimes I wear a flower in my hair. I adore polka dots and am often sporting cowgirl boots. I can be goofy and fiery and sometimes a fast driver.

A Libra through and through, I swoon at the feeling of romance in the air. Value conversation -- both the mundanity and depth. Moments before dawn is my favorite time of day.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Most of my experience is in the non-profit field. Lived the the dream in retail for a few years. Now a in a full time Masters of Social Work program.

Taking dog walks. Allowing room for contradiction. Drinking coffee. Finding the good in people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Picking out Christmas trees. Omelettes. Hard work. Dancing my arse off. Making things less awkward. Thrift shopping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People tell me my eyes do the smiling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything written by Mary Oliver. Jonathan Safran Foer. I enjoy Non-fiction. Favorite Novel: A History of Love, Nicole Krauss. Currently Reading: The Wise Heart -- a book on Buddhist Psychology. Favorite Kids books: A very Hungry Caterpillar, The Giving Tree

I love The Newsroom. Just about anything on HGTV... why wouldn't you want to learn how to make a bookshelf out of wine corks?!

Breakfast at Tiffany's. Sleepless in Seattle. Love Actually. Random WTTW shows.... Love NPR -- This American Life, Radiolab, Snap Judgement, A Prairie Home Companion.. It's hard to pick a favorite.

Artists: This seems incredibly overwhelming. So, here's a a random lists of artists that I have starred on Spotify: Etta James, Haim, Will Butler, Drive By Truckers, Future Islands, The Be Good Tanyas, Chromeo, Ryhe, Marah, Dolly Parton, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, George Strait, Otis Redding, Live, C2C, The Naked and Famous, Tom Petty, Patsy Cline, , Hot Chip -

Radio: XRT, Occasional pop on the radio, a girl's gitta get down to T-Swift every once in while! Grew up on radio country so I have a soft spot for that. Obviously a pretty mixed bag musically speaking!

Love food. Revolution's Fistmas is my favorite winter beer. Goat cheese, yes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dogs. Coffee. Family. A body of water. Good tunes. Stillness in between moments of life's chaos.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This Quote:

"We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are." -Anais Nin

Where i'm headed... Both on the short term on long. Social justice. Silliness. Love. Which boots to wear. Equality. The formation of identity. The middle way. The right thing to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spooning my pups. Or sipping on a rich, hoppy beer out on the town. Dancing perhaps. Or just cozied up in pj's.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I secretly love the never-ending salad bowl at Olive Garden.. Not sure how iceberg lettuce can taste so good.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a lobsterman from Maine who likes to occasionally wear a three piece suit. Okay, well, if you don't in fact fit the above description, here are some good sings of compatibility:

You love dogs -- It's a total reflection of character in my book.
You are easy to smile.
You want to dance with me to Louis Armstrong.