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32 M Hicksville, NY

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
I'm looking for a best-friend. My best characteristics reveal themselves after you've known me for a while - I am kind, caring, warm, loyal, honest, funny, hard-working, and responsible.

I'm trying to build my career. Here's (metaphorical) description of my job:
"You enter the first room of the mansion and it’s completely dark. You stumble around bumping into the furniture but gradually you learn where each piece of furniture is. Finally, after six months or so, you find the light switch, you turn it on, and suddenly it’s all illuminated. You can see exactly where you were. Then you move into the next room and spend another six months in the dark. So each of these breakthroughs, while sometimes they’re momentary, sometimes over a period of a day or two, they are the culmination of, and couldn’t exist without, the many months of stumbling around in the dark that precede them.”

I am learning to play the piano, and am listening to music (whatever is on the radio) much of the time.

I am always up for exercise, be it a walk or a run or playing catch. My favorite type of exercise is playing ultimate frisbee, or even just catch with a frisbee or football.
What I’m doing with my life
Stumbling into furniture. I've got it good … living the dream. Assistant (to the) professor.
I’m really good at
dropping song lyrics into a conversation.
The first things people usually notice about me
Since I got my end-of-term student evaluations back today, let me use those instead. The *first* thing most students said is that I am very nice. A couple of students said I seem a little nervous sometimes. Those two things would probably be your impression after the first date, too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like reading nonfiction books about relationships. Latest one: "The Science of Happily Ever After: What really matters in the quest for enduring love"

Books (besides work related books): I enjoy reading about science, medicine, and psychology. Favorites include the Elegant Universe, Gifted Hands, The Anatomy of Hope, Complications, a General Theory of Love, Flow, How the Mind Works, One Renegade Cell.

movies: her, oceans eleven, italian job, sneakers, home alone,

music: mostly soft-rock, pop, 80s, and a little bit of country. Adele, Florence and the Machine, Passenger, Elton John, Rod Stewart, Sara Bareilles, Demi Lovato, Luke Bryan, but I fall in love with specific songs more so than artists. I love to quote song lyrics. I like listening to covers by amateurs on youtube.

food: I am a bit of a picky eater in that I try to eat healthfully, and am vegetarian (but you don't have to be).
The six things I could never do without
my sister, music, math, H20, ATP, hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
personal growth, and what things can I do to achieve it.

Gratitude. I think the way to a great life is to always be thankful for what I have in the moment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Dogs are some of the best people I know.

I once hired a life coach. It was helpful.

For me, looking up at the night sky is a humbling experience. I look up and think about the vastness of the universe, the incredible age of the stars, how unbelievable it is that man has not only set foot on the moon but also opened a Starbucks there :) ... It all fills me with wonder, makes me feel insignificant but also makes me remind myself how fortunate I am to be alive, and young and healthy, and have food, shelter, a sense of security, a job I love, and wonderful family and friends, and to enjoy and cherish all those blessings. Life is good.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are caring and kind ... yeah, that would be a good start.

You made it this far. Clearly you are patient and dedicated. Or just really good at skimming.

Here's a line I stole from someone else's profile, and it holds for me too:
Playing games is not my thing. I like honest, humble, kind people.