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calbear97

38 M Fremont, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's not about probability, it's about possibility . . .

I'm an entrepreneur that is a scientist in thinking and a sales guy in personality. Since chemistry can be all about the details, here are some about me.

- I won the Sunshine award in elementary school. I’m a big optimist and people still tell me I am always smiling.
- I did a dorky Kaiser ad back in the day. Link below in case you are curious.
http://bechillnow.com/blog/images/interactive/sites/KP/main.html
- I’m pretty handy and can figure out how to fix almost anything.
- Big fan of national parks and local outdoor treasures. Point Reyes, Rancho San Antonino, Tilden, Lands End, etc.
- You’ll either find me completely hilarious or completely embarrassing if we go to a CAL football game or hit the blackjack tables at Vegas. I’ll be the guy yelling “PICTURE” when I’m hitting 11 and high-fiving other people at the table if I get a face card.
- I play a pretty mean game of boggle and scrabble.
- I can juggle 4 balls.
- I play USTA tennis at the 4.5/5.0 level
- I’ve taken a couple Salsa classes but would take more if I had a partner to practice with.
- I can name almost every 80’s one hit wonder – Kajagoogoo, Rockwell, When in Rome, Animotion, Baltimora anybody?
- I’m inspired by Steve Jobs, Charice Pempengco and Roger Federer.
- I'm not really a club guy but I would never leave you hanging out on the dance floor.
- I’m a big fan of Costco, In-N-Out and Southwest. Can’t beat the value!
- I believe that pumpkin carving done with a pattern is cheating.
- I think I could eat 100 McDonlad’s chicken nuggets but I have never tried.
- I’m frugal on myself but will spoil you.
- Back in college, I rode my bike (unmotorized) from San Francisco to LA.
- I’m sentimental and a sucker for chick flicks and musicals.
- I like to say completely absurd things with a straight face just to surprise people.

And if you have read this far, here is the hopeless romantic side of me that has kept me searching this long.

I am willing to fail, but not willing to settle since I know the wait is worth it. And when something is right, it will feel like it happened overnight even when it was really about the long journey filled with stop and starts, moments of despair and times of hope knowing that some people are lucky to find what they want quickly but sweeter and more meaningful for me because I had to search for it just a little bit longer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a small business that makes lab equipment for the life science industry. I always have ideas for new products, services and other random things. Other than that just trying to be a loyal friend, loving son / brother and good person enjoying life!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Keeping things fun and making people laugh.
- Teaching science, tennis and sales
- Doing math quickly in my head
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am always smiling!! :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Entourage
Madmen
Fountainhead
Les Miserables
Wall Street
Top Gun
Lifehouse
Beatles
Mom's fried rice
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
iPhone
Tennis Racket
Car
Family and Friends
Good conversation
Roller suitcase
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
New business ideas, the next breathtaking piece of scenery to go see, doing fun things with friends, playing tennis, how things work and why things are the way they are.

And why we say an "alarm goes off" when it is actually going on. Or what is the difference between loosen and unloosen.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unwinding after a long work week. Getting dinner / drinks with friends, catching a movie or chilling at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I ditched so many classes in college I still have the "missed the test" dream.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You are not too serious and can laugh at yourself.
- You still believe in love and big dreams and are not willing to settle
- You can dance with the girls but watch a game with the guys.
- You like being active and being outdoors
- You are up for taking the road less traveled and like what you have read :-)