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39 M Tucson, AZ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:30pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Art / Music / Writing
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Music is my first love. Visual art is my second. A perfect afternoon might be spent staring at clouds or treetops or staring into space. If this interests you then good. I am socially awkward and I'm finally learning to enjoy that about myself. I spend most of my free time creating music, going on walks, hikes, visiting with friends, playing in my band, and sometimes drawing or painting. I do carpentry type stuff. I am also owner of a local recording studio. Beyond having a place to live, food to eat, and frequent vacations, I could care less about money. I do not spend my time thinking about or obsessing about it. I seem to always have everything I need, I travel frequently, and have plenty of time to do the things I love to do. I am not someone who believes that a persons success can be quantified in dollars. If you meditate and focus on "manifesting abundance" meaning a huge house, new car etc, then we might not gel so well. I'm not a political person either but if you feel you need to categorize my leanings they would probably be far left and in accordance with much of the LGBT community. So far this probably says little about me, but after all this is only an online virtual community so I strongly doubt we would have much of anything resembling a real idea of who we are until we actually meet. So what else... I do meditate, though not as often as I'd like. I not only hug trees but I also talk to them and save pieces of bark from ones I really hit it off with. If you feel compelled to label me as a hippie because of this, then that is lame. In fact I would prefer to forgo the labeling entirely if we could but just for fun you could call me a: dorkish, post-punkish, hippie-ish, hipster-ish, wannabe-ish mystical freak.
What I’m doing with my life
Playing in a band with 2 talented dear friends. We play bone crunching no wave experimental disco er sumthin. Spending lots of time in a sound studio control room. Building crap. Daydreaming. Thinking a lot about paintings that have yet to be realized. Writing music. Sitting on boulders in the desert. Being super ambitious about making time for doing nothing at all.
I’m really good at
Climbing trees
Painting/drawing figures/faces
Making amazing music
Planning adventures with friends
Having real conversations
Being accountable
Letting friends know I love em
The first things people usually notice about me
Why my day glo orange ten gallon hat of course.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Mutant message from down under. Wraeththu trilogy. by Storm Constantine. Amerika by Franz kafka. Robert Monroe.

The science of sleep. Napolean Dynamite. Kirikou and the sorceress. castaway on the moon. Pee Wee's Big Adventure. Wrong.

Marc Chagall. Sandro Chia. Egon Schiele. Basquiat.

A few of my all time favorite songs:

O.V. Wright - A Nickel And A Nail

Love And Rockets - The Light

Serge Gainsbourg - Bonnie & Clyde

Lee Hazlewood/Nancy Sinatra - Some Velvet Morning

Leonard Cohen - The Sisters of Mercy

John Maus. O.V. Wright. A tribe called quest. De la soul. deelite. David Bowie. Al Green. Yacht. Ariel Pink's haunted graffiti. John Frusciante. Enya (yeah Enya, what?) Fugazi. Charlie Parker. Duran Duran. Love and Rockets. Lush. leonard Cohen. Sebadoh. The Cult. Stereolab. Lucy Pearl. Cocteau Twins. Pere Ubu. Beck. Stevie Wonder. John Frusciante. Ween. Deep Forest. Yacht. Sade. Matthew Dear. Neil Young. Meat Puppets. Ray Lynch anyone?
To summarize,
Funk, Motown, Soul. 80's pop crap. no-wave. new wave. early 90's hip hop. Rock n roll that doesn't suck such as the heartless bastards or fugazi, the dead weather. I try to keep an open mind and can get into a wide range of sounds. Just please don't make me listen to the radio k?

Food: Thai. Indian. Ethiopian. Italian food made by me. Mexican. Vegetarian. Govinda's! pho! REAL pizza like we have back home in New Haven. Also, I can eat much hotter (like spicy hot) food than you. Don't even test me.
The six things I could never do without
*Time spent alone

*My best friends


*Creating music

*Sunlight, sunsets, desert air, scents of orange blossoms, jasmine blossoms, creosote and pinon trees

*Road trips

I spend a lot of time thinking about
How bizarre being a human being is.

How to be a better human being.

Remembering how to simply be.


The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think OkCupid is a tad bit OkStupid
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are someone who transcends the popular conventional persona of cool cynical snarky facetious wit and instead are not afraid to express the awe & amazement you feel in the vast subtle beauty of life in all things great and small.

You dont think true masculinity is expressed by being musclebound, wearing cologne and hanging out at maloney's with your bro's.

You're silly, weird and baffled by the passage of time and the age you've reached.