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calin5

69 Simi Valley, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–70
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:26pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am Neil, I live in Simi and I am a single (divorced) man in 60’s but refusing to admit that bit or get any older!. I work hard for my enjoyment
I am English by birth was a Detective at Scotland Yard, London, for many years, came here in 1981 and got into research and investigating fraud. So I do work all over the place, mainly in California though.
I am a happy, contented person, I enjoy life I love animals, I have three dogs. I have been divorced twice but have no baggage and have a reasonable friendly relationship with my ex’s, my boys are all married and have families. I also have a veggie garden!
I am a bit overweight, I am working on it but need some motivational help now and again!! Not perfect but am what I am!
So that, basically is my story. Nothing to hide, hate deceit and cheats/liars.
I would like some female companionship, after all, there are few choices!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Staying alive, fit and good lookin'
Oh, and going round in circles trying to find the way out!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making my woman feel good! (Well, ...I would, if I had one!!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
English accent !
English by birth, American by choice!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like Bio's, I am fascinated by the cold stupidity of the human race,wars, cruelty, aggression.
I like documentaries and fact TV, also the Paranormal, spiritualism and history.
I loved "Phantom" classic musicals and classical music.
All music from 65 on, no Rap please!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and its consequences...........
Why?.......
Probably why I am single at 69. I am still 35 at heart and have not been able to solve life's fantastic mysteries. I have to keep trying, WE have to,!. I have lived an incredibly interesting life. It has been, so far, one hell of a ride! I have seen much. Evolution of life, life itself, death, ... and all that lies in between. Too much. Now I know too much!.
There are mysteries out there to be solved. Deep, dark mysteries. Who are we, I mean really. Why are we here, what purpose does this all serve?, what have we achieved once we have shuffled off this mortal coil? After all the effort, am I, are we, really to just be a another forgotten pair of souls? No! we shall not let that be. There are many years yet to live and learn the answer to the question WHY. It is a great time in life, so much to learn and so much being learned. It is a fun journey, never ending and unrestricted in paths to follow. Astrology, astronomy, quantum physics, just open minded thinking.
I am not much into sports, movies, even the Gym can be so much valuable time wasted, when there is so much to do.
Wanna come ?? It is fun, I'm not nuts!, really!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Still thinking!
or not!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't, it's a secret!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are still here, you deserve dinner, at least!
You feel like it, you are adventurous enough!.