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28 • New Haven, CT • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–36
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Mar 31
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Graduated from masters program
- Seeing Someone
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
Life can be rough- it's good to have some friends along the way! I'm in a semi-open relationship, so I'm looking for new companions, guys to hit hit the gym with, go hiking, have coffee, etc.
I love school and the idea of continuing my education, but I'm also pretty invested in building my career to a point where I can take it to the next level. .
Things I'm into right now: my new vegetarian diet, vegetarian cooking, nutritional information graphs, keeping my betta alive, making the most of shared space in an urban dwelling, building my career, Netflix Instant, Spotify. It's all part of a backdrop to figuring out the next big step in life.
You're on OkCupid because you thought you might come across someone worth dating. Great! We officially have something in common. What else might we have in common? My hope is that if you take a glance at my profile and like what you see, you will send me a nice little message for me to read over morning coffee.
A grown-up. It's okay to be a big kid once in a while. I can totally dig a night of popcorn and video-games...BUT, I'm also into paying my bills, going to bed at a reasonable hour, and being a good neighbor.
It's not all about...
Your income bracket.
It's definitely about...
What you're doing with your life,
What you've done with your life,
What you plan to do with your life.
the bottom line is
Message me if you have an education, are somewhat serious about something, driven, friendly, mature, are between the ages of 22 and 37, and if you get excited over things like homemade guacamole, AM talk radio, or watching Jason movies on Friday the 13th.
To sum it up: I'm constantly searching for "the next best thing"-- a better job, a better car, a better house. Life is all about the upgrades right now...Not necessarily in a materialistic kind of way, but in the sense that quality of life has taken on a new meaning.
I'm in an open-relationship: definitely looking for friends and always open to the possibility of having it progress into something more.
But honestly, people throw out random comments and observations. I'm not sure there's any particular pattern that I can point to.
Movies: Scream, Beetlejuice, Donnie Darko, Mysterious Skin, The Breakfast Club. I also really enjoyed Sinister.
Music: Electronic, ambient, techno, movie scores, new age, trip hop, and some hip hop.
Food: Vegetarian, Indian, Thai, transcontinental and fusion cuisines.
2. Philip Glass
-You have a good sense of humor about things
-You can be content spending the night cooking at home and watching movies
-You can appreciate the occasionally existentially aimless meandering of a highly educated 27 year old guy
To be honest, I probably won't reply if I'm not interested. There's an approximate six day window there.
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