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40 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 19
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Looking for a best friend who can love unconditionally, sees the beauty in my quirkiness, is interested in growing and staying together, can keep a secret, let's me in, make me laugh when i cry, can find the positive in any situation, is driven for success, and operates with integrity, kindness, & positivity.

"Hearts are deep wells. Nobody knows what's at the bottom. We imagine by what floats to the surface every once in a while." Haruki Murakami

"You only live once but if you do it right once is enough." mae west

Life is like a camera
Focus on what's important
Capture the good times
Erase the negatives
And if things don't work out
Take another shot...

There are far, far better things ahead then any we leave behind." c.s. lewis.

“True, we love life, not because we are used to living, but because we are used to loving. There is always some madness in love, but there is also always some reason in madness.” Friedrich Nietzsche

“There are enough smart people in the world but not enough good people who can do the right thing… We face many obstacles to do the right thing now. Our human frailty, fear and shame block and delay us from timely moral action. The root of these actions is our divided nature. We are both animals and angels. Our animal urges are at war everyday with our spiritual urges and how we resolve this tension determines our lives on earth.”

I adore a guy who makes me laugh just being a guy set in his ways... who will affectionately poke me in the ribs to get my attention and flirt at the same time. I like Sunday mornings in bed with a cup of coffee, reading and someone I love curled up next to.

Life changes every minute of every day. You lose friends. You gain friends. You realize your friend wasn't ever really your friend, and that person you used to hate can make a really good friend. You look for love. You find love. You lose love. You laugh. you cry. you laugh so hard you cry. You do this, you do that. You have your ups. You have your downs. You see good movies. You see bad movies. You wonder if your life is just one big movie. You look at others and wish you were them. You then realize who they are and are glad that you're you. You love life. You hate life. In the end you just find yourself happy to be alive. I've been lucky to be in 4 loving long term relationships. I'd like to find my future best friend/partner and marry.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying the little things
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I ski double diamond and make cool stuff out of nothing at all pretty much everyday in many ways. We all sorta do it when you think about it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, hair, style, and cute spunky matching red head dog dudley.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Reading The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde. True Romance, Thomas Crown Affair are my most watched movies. Californication, King of Thrones, and Girls, are some shows I watch. I came from a music family so my tastes all over the place. I never get sick of John Legend, Radio Head, Sade, everything but yhe girl, gealle, Michael Franti, and Classical music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sense of humor
friends & family
my dog
fine food air & wine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The weather? why im the only strawberry blond in my family? I wonder lots about living learning lessons love... I wonder what others dreams are... Who else will we be sharing time and space together on this road to somewhere.. I wonder about our differences and similaritues and when the real friendship begins? i still dream. I ask myself a lot of questions...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays a good night to lay low and unwind from the week or go away for the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If your a good man and think we would hit it off... have good laughs