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calvinballing

35 M Jamaica Plain, MA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I disagree with the Rolling Stones, in that I believe you can always get what you want. Sometimes we want to be happy and fullfilled, and we get that. Sometimes we want to be isolated and despondant, and we get that. I'm trying to be better about understanding what I want.
What I’m doing with my life
right now I'm working full time and hacking my way slowly through a nursing degree.

I play in a few bands, and probably always will. For me, playing music is probably how some people feel about playing cards or watching sports. It's how I like to socialize.
The first things people usually notice about me
I lack the perspective to answer this question. Perhaps you could tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm really interested in folk movements of music, and for me, those kinds of movements extend to punk and hip hop. I think Leadbelly, Kurt Cobain and Wu Tang have more commonalities than differences.

I grew up reading Kurt Vonnegut and I think he really informed how I look at the world. Lately I've been reading dark fiction, or childrens fiction. Cormac McCarthy's The Road and A.A. Milne's The House on Pooh Corner are both on my nightstand. It's kind of like jumping from the hot tub into the pool, I assume.

For shows, I like things with a long narrative. The X-files, The Killing, The Sopranos. Isolated individual narratives don't do much for me, with the exception of The Twilight Zone.

Also, for searching purposes, I'm going to say a few random words. Dan Savage , Bicycle, Bike .
The six things I could never do without
in the event of a complete economic collapse:
Matches
Boots
Knife
Map
Rope or twine
Boy Scout Handbook
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The aforementioned complete economic collapse. I'm not building a bunker or anything, just gradually aquiring useful skills.

This is also the most private thing I'm willing to admit.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
I'm just kind of looking for people to chat with to distract me from my schoolwork. Keep me busy?

I'm also open to seeing people who already have a primary partner and are in an open relationship. If you're in an open relationship and looking to see someone new, you should consider dropping me a line.

Oh, and I'm into girls with armpit hair. Not as in "I want to add your pit hair to the bag of hair I keep in my closet" but if you have armpit hair, I'll pretty much automatically think you are hot.